Don't be a hata.

[freefall]

You can't expect everyone to be a nice good-natured fellow. The world is divided into not-so-bad people, bad people, bad-ass people, and "Uh-I-just-want-to-kick-them-in-the-crotch-and-gouge-their-eyes-out" people.

So some trolled with your posts. So some (maybe) ruined you (and maybe your heart as well). So be it. Taint not yourself.

 

[StationToStation]

I always think "hate on me as much as you want, you can't do what I do!!!!"

 

[Willie Boy]

Why is it that there seems to be so much animosity among JUB members? On one randomly chosen 1 1/2 page thread in hot topics, I read a number of personal attacks, dismissive comments, name calling and someone telling the OP "time to call it quits" with regards to the topic, when only a few people had voiced their opinions.

I mean, if you have a problem with another member, just don't speak to them. If you have fun engaging in little fights, PM each other. It seems like every thread having to do with anything remotely controversial, and in many cases, not EVEN, mean things are said and people get so incredibly rude. I hate to think how you all handle conflict resolution in the real world.

I admit, I've defended myself against people who have called me, well, most recently a "rude little fuck", but I think its high time these little fights and bitch slaps be taken to another arena and left off the threads where real things are being discussed. It's just so irritating to scroll through a perfectly nice thread on anal hygiene only to stumble across some bitchy poster correcting the OP for his misused apostrophe and accusing him of being a moron and how could ANYONE take him seriously with such poor syntax and grammar.

I mean really.

Is this the best we can do? My theory has always been that whenever I see a misplaced attack or comment like that, its some sad, miserable slob who wouldn't dare confront someone in real life, so he chooses to flex his muscle here. How cowardly. I mean, who's with me on this? Does it annoy anyone else? Does the sun make noise? What are your thoughts?

Where the FUCK do you get off trying to tell others how to live?



Sorry, just had to throw that out. But seriously, people would enjoy their lives quite a bit more if they learned to relax and laugh a little. And take things in stride.

 

[nate78]

Honestly it's less about what others have said to ME, because I don't really get bothered by what people have to say to me. It's more an annoyance having to scroll through pages of irrelevant crap between two guys who've chosen to pick a fight. It just ruins a perfectly good thread.

 

[Telstra]

Honestly it's less about what others have said to ME, because I don't really get bothered by what people have to say to me. It's more an annoyance having to scroll through pages of irrelevant crap between two guys who've chosen to pick a fight. It just ruins a perfectly good thread.

aahh so too much post counts is not good, i know i know. ... i'm so embarrassed

 

[Willie Boy]

Honestly it's less about what others have said to ME, because I don't really get bothered by what people have to say to me. It's more an annoyance having to scroll through pages of irrelevant crap between two guys who've chosen to pick a fight. It just ruins a perfectly good thread.

Have you ever thought that they are enjoying the thread just fine the way it is?

 

[Telstra]

Have you ever thought that they are enjoying the thread just fine the way it is?

yeah sometimes i have to bite my tongue abit with the un-desirable people.
Otherwise i might have even greater post counts.

 

[Willie Boy]

I wonder if people ever stop to think beyond themselves. Do the think how they are coming off to others.

 

[EvilTwinTwo]

Don't call me a "hata" just because I don't agree with you.

 

[NVRMOR]

What thread are you talking about? Which posters?
Stop all these veiled references.

 

[nate78]

Have you ever thought that they are enjoying the thread just fine the way it is?

You're correct, there are probably some who enjoy the thread and watching the fight play out between or among people on the board. My point is simply that perhaps those fights are perhaps better handled in a private way, perhaps using PMs. I feel that the arguments that take place detract from the thread topic. Often, I get excited to read a thread with multiple post because it is a topic that interests me. Entering the thread I find the OP, followed by a response and then 24 follwing posts about the correct use of the word "myriad". (love whoever picks up on the reference there).

As for thinking only about myself, or of no one else, I don't recall how you worded it, nor do I know if that was directed to me, however if it was I can only say that in thus case I speak only for myself, althogh others agree with me, I'm sure. I can assure you that thinking of myself is not reflective of how I live my life.

Also, to an above poster, my point is not that everyone be happy and nice all the time. I think my point is clear enough.

I'm sorry if this thread has caused some to question whether or not I am indeed, a woman, please see my gallery and results of a gender test to be posted later.

Peace out, later guys.

 

[Telstra]

i think Nate meant negative posts about someone on here is annoying and its true.

 

[nate78]

i think Nate meant negative posts about someone on here is annoying and its true.

Er, um, no. That's not what I meant.

 

[Willie Boy]

You're correct, there are probably some who enjoy the thread and watching the fight play out between or among people on the board. My point is simply that perhaps those fights are perhaps better handled in a private way, perhaps using PMs. I feel that the arguments that take place detract from the thread topic. Often, I get excited to read a thread with multiple post because it is a topic that interests me. Entering the thread I find the OP, followed by a response and then 24 follwing posts about the correct use of the word "myriad". (love whoever picks up on the reference there).

As for thinking only about myself, or of no one else, I don't recall how you worded it, nor do I know if that was directed to me, however if it was I can only say that in thus case I speak only for myself, althogh others agree with me, I'm sure. I can assure you that thinking of myself is not reflective of how I live my life.

Also, to an above poster, my point is not that everyone be happy and nice all the time. I think my point is clear enough.

I'm sorry if this thread has caused some to question whether or not I am indeed, a woman, please see my gallery and results of a gender test to be posted later.

Peace out, later guys.

And my point was who are you to judge how a thread should be used. Nothing personal, but you only have as much right as the next guy. If a few of them are enjoying the thread, who are you (one individual) to decide whether it is an inappropriate use of the thread. You seem to assume that others will agree with you because you are some high and mighty god who has the right to judge how others should communicate. Is that truly how you view yourself? If so, you have a lot to learn!

 

[Corny]

Since I know of the thread your speaking of all to well. I shall give you my opinion.

One has to underline opinion here, because you state untrue stuff as a fact later.

Most of the times its one jub member with multi screen names leaving nasty comments under many names.
They give themselves away in their writing style etc. I do agree with you that there are some that just come here to fight with others.

This happened very rarely, and the only case where it were indeed "many names" the person did use those "many names" for other purposes. So stop telling people stuff where you not even remotely have any insight ..

 

[Telstra]

Er, um, no. That's not what I meant.

The more you post on this thread the more people will gang up on you.

Create a new silly thread and enjoy ...
Let this one go.

 

[Beachguyj]

Just live your life (Oh! ), ay ay ay.
Ain't got no time for no haters
Just live your life (Ay! ), ay ay ay.
No telling where it'll take ya.

 

[nate78]

And my point was who are you to judge how a thread should be used. Nothing personal, but you only have as much right as the next guy. If a few of them are enjoying the thread, who are you (one individual) to decide whether it is an inappropriate use of the thread. You seem to assume that others will agree with you because you are some high and mighty god who has the right to judge how others should communicate. Is that truly how you view yourself? If so, you have a lot to learn!

What? High and mighty god? You have totally misunderstood. I don't even know how to respond to this. I think you're reading a bit too much into it. I don't purport anything to be the the right way or the wrong way, I just brought up another way. If you knew me, even a little, you'd know that I don't wish to control anything or mandate how anything should work. My OP was an expression of my sometimes frustration and an invitation for discussion. I never intended to dictate how anything should be done.

It seems that you don't like me, or that you are chronically misunderstanding me. It seems like you're looking for reasons to pick a fight and to top it off you accuse me of having a god complex. It's just weird. My intention is not to fight with anyone. Either way, I wish you well. Maybe as we cross paths more and more on the boards we'll come to know eachother and perhaps you'll see that I'm the last person to have a god complex. If knowing me doesn't interest you, fair enough. Take care.

 

[Willie Boy]

If you have a problem with another member, just don't speak to them. If you have fun engaging in little fights, PM each other.

That statement there is a command. In it you tell us what to do based on your desires.

I admit, I've defended myself against people who have called me, well, most recently a "rude little fuck", but I think its high time these little fights and bitch slaps be taken to another arena and left off the threads where real things are being discussed. It's just so irritating to scroll through a perfectly nice thread on anal hygiene only to stumble across some bitchy poster correcting the OP for his misused apostrophe and accusing him of being a moron and how could ANYONE take him seriously with such poor syntax and grammar.

I mean really.

Is this the best we can do? My theory has always been that whenever I see a misplaced attack or comment like that, its some sad, miserable slob who wouldn't dare confront someone in real life, so he chooses to flex his muscle here. How cowardly. I mean, who's with me on this? Does it annoy anyone else? Does the sun make noise? What are your thoughts?

This next highlighted passage, although phrased as an opinion, comes off as quite a bit more when taken with the previous command. Your whole post takes on the air of "I don't like the way things are done, so hop to and do it the way I want!"

Honestly, that is more annoying than some petty textual bitch slapping and typed harsh words.

 

[nate78]

That statement there is a command. In it you tell us what to do based on your desires.



This next highlighted passage, although phrased as an opinion, comes off as quite a bit more when taken with the previous command. Your whole post takes on the air of "I don't like the way things are done, so hop to and do it the way I want!"

Honestly, that is more annoying than some petty textual bitch slapping and typed harsh words.

I see. That's not how I meant to come across, I apologize.