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Dont know if I should do it

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Telling him you want to try something new. Everything comes out while having sex and if your already friends I guess he doesnt mind letting you blow him
 
Um, he has a girlfriend. If he's really bi, and she is not just for show, then he is in a relationship. So no, you should not do anything. It doesn't somehow "not count" just because you're a different gender.
 
sure, go for it. sounds like fun.

it is, however, possible that he only tells you that his girlfriend is ok with it, and in reality she isnt. just sayin.
 
Yeah, never forget that HE'S IN A RELATIONSHIP. He's with HER, and you both need to respect that.

Honestly, I think the fact that he's with a girl right now is part of the attraction for you. It makes him appear more 'masculine' and she acts as a safety net. You can play around with him and then he can go back to her, and you don't have to worry about a relationship if you don't want one, right?

I think you're being a little sneaky here without realizing it. Try to catch yourself doing that.

I would try and find a guy who isn't in a relationship and is attractive to you. I know that takes planning and effort, but if you don't go find your own sexual partners, you're going to end up going after friends and end up with no friends. Just sayin'.
 
bn79374 said:
she knows he is bi and she is ok with it.
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If she's also OK with him acting on his bi side now and then go for it if he's agreeable.
Your biggest regret will be NOT approaching him about some experimenting.
 
if he has hinted to you about doing it, i would go for it myself.
 
Welcome. I'd be suspicious of two things. I wouldn't believe he has a girlfriend unless I met her and I wouldn't believe she's ok with it unless I asked her.
 
Seasoned said:
Welcome. I'd be suspicious of two things. I wouldn't believe he has a girlfriend unless I met her and I wouldn't believe she's ok with it unless I asked her.
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I agree.

I would also like to add that I wouldn't assume her being okay with him being bi is the same as her being okay with him having sex with a guy.
 
bn79374 said:
What do you think I should do in this situation? Will I regret doing something if I went through with it?
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It's a complicated situation and there's really two questions-
  1. Should you experiment with a guy?
  2. Should you experiment with this guy?
On the question of whether you should experiment with a guy: sure. But make sure that you're prepared for the very real possibility that you might like it. And you might like it more than you think you will. You wouldn't be the first "straight" guy to open Pandora's box only to discover that you're not as straight as you thought you were.

On the question of whether you should sleep with this guy you met: it depends. If you're friends and you both have agreed to remain friends no matter what happens, then go for it. If the girlfriend is really okay with him sleeping with guys on the side, then go for it. If you are both going to be practicing safer sex, then go for it.

But if this is going to wreck a friendship, wreck a home or put either of you at risk, then this is probably not the guy to experiment with.
 
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