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So guys, this is my first thread in this Forum.. i need some help

Since my teenage years I am developing a intense craving to suck and fuck a dick even though I love women and cant keep my eyes away from them.

There might be a lot of reasons why I am hesitating to finally fulfill my deepest desire with a men

But my conclusion is that I want to be anonym I want to meet a guy only wearing a mask.. but even with that I feel like I neef a lot of time i cant just make a meeting and go straight for fucking…

I feel like a i need lots of foreplay and befoee the foreplay even just sitting around getting comfortable somehow and then being seduced with super tiny small steps that are officially not meant to be seductive but it is part of his plan…

I dont know…

Sometimes I even think I want to be the top sometimes i want only women.. my head is a mess… what i know for sure is i love women and pussys and women ass but i also deeply love men cock and men .. i want to fuck and get fucked with men.. it feels so intimate to think of it

What do I do… how can i find someone who would be able to do all that…
 
Likely you're bisexual , don't be afraid not to be exclusively straight
Being gay is not wrong or sinful

If you want anonymous sex , be careful ...Where do you live ?
Is there a sex club or a gay bathhouse in your area ?
You could look it up online , and if there's not one in your town , you could travel to a nearby city to get your desires fulfilled , but be cautious , finicky and careful

That's the only option I can think of where one can have anonymous sex with men ... Aside from that , by looking at nude men getting it on in those places you could really discover whether you're actually enthralled by gay sex or not ....
 
cringetest13 said:
...Sometimes I even think I want to be the top sometimes i want only women.. my head is a mess… what i know for sure is i love women and pussys and women ass but i also deeply love men cock and men .. i want to fuck and get fucked with men.. it feels so intimate to think of it

What do I do… how can i find someone who would be able to do all that…
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The problem is not going to be finding someone who would do it. There's no shortage of horny guys or rentboys who would be happy to indulge your fantasy.

But... "my head is a mess" and these very specific fantasies don't sound like they are pleasant feelings for you. It sounds very much like you are still struggling with what you fantasize about versus what you are willing to do in real life.

My suggestion? Talk to a therapist who can help you sort all of this out. Once you're more comfortable with the idea of exploring and discovering what is right for you, then you can take the leap.
 
Hey buddy, welcome to JUB. You're not alone in going through these kinds of desires when you're growing up.

You say there might be lots of reasons why you're hesitant to fulfil your desires. Could these include:
Fear of your own identity change and whether you might feel confronted by what that means about your sexuality, and how you'll feel afterward.
Cultural conditioning that might have made you think of sex with men as shameful,
Fear of vulnerability and what might happen during an encounter.
Maybe more.

There are some conflicting thoughts going on here - you want to meet wearing a mask and be seduced as part of his plan. This suggests you have fantasies of being totally submissive to whatever happens. You might also want to be the top. It's okay to be unsure of what you want until you try it, or to have fantasies of total submission, but a good first step would be to think through what is right for you, before doing anything. Ask yourself (and you don't have to tell us): do you want just physical sex or romantic connection? How might you feel afterward?

As KaraBlut says, it would be a good idea for you to work this through with a therapist. It would not be a good step for you to go ahead and meet someone while you're dealing with your own conflicting thoughts.

If, or when you do fulfil your desires, remember a couple of things:
1. Sexual encounters between men do not always have to be binary with top/bottom roles, they can be anything intimate from touching through to whatever. You don't have to fuck or be fucked.
2. Be clear about your limits, including safe sex options.

Good luck.
 
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