Dude, r u gay?

[Jo-thin]

Sup guys!
Ok last time most of you probably seen my other thread
about the typical fallin in love with a straight guy thing!
well my plan was to tell him! so I did in text late sunday night

well he thought I had a crush on a girl and was trying to help
me tell "her" how I felt about her when it was really
him that I liked!!!! well he told me "dont worry dude. You're a good guy. Just keep ya head up!
and I told him that I am in a different situation! and he said "Dude you're putting
too much presure on youself! Just think I'm da shit!!! Works everytime!"then I told
him I never saw it that way, and I dont think I'm going to do it (tell her) but really him.
then he says "Man you better do it. If you dont no more sex. and I mean it this time. j/k I
have faith in you! I wanna sex you up" thats exactly what he said then I told him "Should I really
tell you why I can't?" then he says "Fo sho. U can tell me whatever dude. I wont tell. Give u
my word......... and dis dick!! j/k but nah really I'm here 4 u man" so then I sent him a long
text about my ex Gf and the girls I liked! then told him that the girl that I want to tell
is a guy!!! then he texts me back asking "Dude r u gay?" then I told "him nah I like girls too!
and I asked him "you're not freaking out are you?" then it took awhile for him to reply! I was
gonna cry cause I thought he wouldnt talk to me! so he replies and says "so you're bi? Nah man
I'm not freakin out. You're still my mutha fuckin homeboy!! so then you're bi?" then I told him
yes I just dont tell people at all only u know!" then he repiles "with a thats cool its your choice man!
then he askes me so this Mystery lady is a dude right?" and I told him yes but he doesnt know its him
that I like! I'm not planning to tell him! Dont want to freak him out!

But he totally is supporting me! he gave me advice as if he was on JUB!!! lol
he said "your trying to keep this bi thing quiet right? If he's not fellin you
then he can tell someone eslse and start rumors! n he askes me do you think he's bi too?"
so I tell him i dont know if he is! and i asked him not to tell no one! cause he has the proof!!
then he says "dont worry man I will erase the messages and he told me "Ya still one of
my bestfriends and he thanked me for my trust with him.....!
and he started to joke he was like yep you're my little queer and it was just awsome!!! he was cool!
But I'm sad that he isn't like that! Again I was fooled!

He still treats me the same! he still hugs me and says dirty things to me! He really likes this
one girl so I have no chance! I do feel good for coming out to 1 person and I only knew him for like
5 months! I have closer friends that I hang out with and they dont know! I am so so so deep in the
closet I can barely see the light!!!!

One thing I did learn by telling him is that a guy can be sexually playfull all he wants but
that doesnt mean he's gay/bi....... just means hes comfortable around you! Only way is ask!
But I hope he does come around and you know hit me up!!! lol HE'S SO HOT!!!!! I'm trying to get over
him but I cant! he's so so so sweet! He even took random pictures of me on his phone! I mean
what straight guy does that! like especially if u just met him! Our styles are totally different!
He's in to hip hop he's a wigger! and I love rock and metal but for sum reason we still click!
he is the best!

 

[-Lance-]

omg....... ha ha ha....wow

 

[Rex]

I wouldn't tell him you have a crush on him.

You're very lucky that he was that cool with you being bi. Most straight guys would take it the wrong way.

If you tell him you have a crush on him, you're just going to push him away from even a friendship. He clearly isn't gay or bi from the sound of it so just keep it to yourself.

 

[Providence]

Yeah, most straights assume gay guys like every single guy in the world! So it's surprising he didn't ask if it was him. He may think it's him but doesn't want to ask.

He's a good friend though! You're lucky to have him. I'm not entirely sure whether or not you should tell him you're crushing on him.

 

[Jo-thin]

yeah If I did tell him I liked him he would probably tease me more! lol
But he such a good of a friend I even want to cry of happiness..... I'm at shock that I did it though!!!!

Yeah but every guy thinks that!

 

[Blueboy369]

That's so cool. I'm glad you broke the ice! If something happens, let it happen naturally.

 

[Jo-thin]

thanks sure will
he did call me I keep wondering why! its too late to call back! i was asleep when he called

 

[Raincoat Massacre]

Hurray run on sentences...

 

[Jo-thin]

we are closer than ever!
not sexualy but we talk about everything and anything!
I told him the guys I find acttractive and he tells me his problems!
It's crazy how not all straights are the same! some are can actually help you with your situation!

I still think he can have a little gay in him! lol but I doubt it! Im just glad I came out to him