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Have you ever been turned down or have you ever turned down someone because his penis was too small?

I'd like to know your stories.
 
I haven't been turned down at all, nor have I turned down anyone with a smaller dick.

But most guys I talk to seem to prefer cock sizes larger than 5 inches, anything below that is a deal breaker for them. I do see some posts like that but then others who say they enjoy smaller sizes. Not sure how small they go.
 
If I like the guy I should like his cock and vice versa - there is usually no followup if I don't like the guy or he doesn't like me !!!!
 
I prefer smaller ones because I can get the whole enchilada in my mouth and tickle ny nose in the guys pubes.
 
I've never had it happen to me - but then...never mind!
No, the size of a guys' cock has never been an issue for me... It's the chemical reaction that makes us interested, and that usually will be obvious before any baring of skin happens.
 
No and no.

I have, however, turned down someone because he was too big (for me.)
 
nope .. but it is a huge turn off if the other person is shy/insecure about it.

if somebody tells me in advance "but but but .. my cock is really small" - sorry I am not interested any more.
 
Thank you all for your replies. I hope some more people answer to this.
The reason why I ask this is because all through my teenage years I was really selfconscious about my size, and I believe that made me shy about having sex. As I grew older and realised I was quite average, size became a non issue. But I was recently with a guy who had a very small penis. I was not very confortable bringing his size up in conversation with him but I imagine that in this world where everywhere you go you hear "bigger is better", it must be awful to be small. Specially so small.

Please, keep the stories coming!

Cheers!
 
Almost never.

The one exception was when a guy felt my cock through a towel in a bath house and declined to go further. His loss!
 
No on both counts, but I could see it possibly happening if someone was below 4 inches.
 
HouseOfLove said:
Thank you all for your replies. I hope some more people answer to this.
The reason why I ask this is because all through my teenage years I was really selfconscious about my size, and I believe that made me shy about having sex. As I grew older and realised I was quite average, size became a non issue. But I was recently with a guy who had a very small penis. I was not very confortable bringing his size up in conversation with him but I imagine that in this world where everywhere you go you hear "bigger is better", it must be awful to be small. Specially so small.

Please, keep the stories coming!

Cheers!
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It really does suck cause I started to notice a few postings in the Show Yourself off section. I think it was the show your soft cock thread, was just skimming through the pages and noticed a member who would post their pictures of their cock. All the other guys who posted their picture had someone commenting on how hot their dick was, but this one member just continued to post pictures of his dick and this went on for about 3 to 4 pages.

Even on the last page nobody complimented his pictures. So what is the point of this sad story? Its that size really does matter and that people take notice to bigger sizes than smaller ones.

So when people get pissed off just because they are insecure or shy about their penis size you should put yourself in their shoes so you really know how it feels to have people tell you that your cock is tiny or small. The insecure or shy people can't help it when the media and porn put a huge fixation on how hot a bigger dick is.

Just like how fit guys are suppose to be beautiful and attractive and overweight guys are ugly and unattractive. You can control your weight by exercising and losing it. But when it comes to dick size you are stuck with it, unless you have surgery but even that is a dangerous procedure to have.

It's really difficult for people to be happy with their size when they always see people wanting bigger. Sometimes I even think its a lie when I hear people say they will suck smaller sized dicks under 4 inches cause most of the time people post "I won't suck anything lower than 5 inches."

Yeah I get it's a "preference" and people will enforce their preference on others, but come on! You can't just get up and grow three inches to your dick like people can lose 50lbs of weight.
 
I dated a guy who had a small one. It just wasn't very attractive, like being poked with a pinky. He was an ass anyway, probably used to being rejected.
 
No and No.

However, I have turned down guys on Manhunt and A4A for being too big.
 
"Run what ya brung"

The largest sex-organ of the body is the skin...

The most influential sex-organ is the imagination...
 
Size is the issue to me. To its what that cock delivers from bj or hand job a load of cum.
 
mbamike said:
No and No.

However, I have turned down guys on Manhunt and A4A for being too big.
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I have very rarely been on chats and hookup sites, but on the rare occation I've been on them, it seems as though guys will only hookup with guys who have big dicks. Especially those who call themselves exclusivly bottom...
 
hookup sites, cam4 and similar are not a mirror of the real world. neither is porn.

here is an old thread with a few pics of fit lads with smaller penises:

http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=291598

but even on those shallow websites i doubt the guys in this thread would be turned very often - if at all. why? they have well trained bodies, the other eye candy for gay men ;)

but the same thing applies here: you won't find guys with bodies like that en masse in the real world. just as you won't find many 8inchers in the real world. both is not very common - and that's why the people are so "hot" for it.
 
I won't lie,I'm on the small side myself,and it's something I used to be really self-conscious about when I was younger.After I started having sex though,it became less of an issue.Of course it's probably worth mentioning that I'm a receiver,so my size never really comes into play.

I've never been outright rejected,but a few years ago there was an incident with one of my ex-boyfriends.We were drunk off our asses after a party,and after a little heavy,drunken foreplay we were about to get down to business for the first time in our relationship.When he gets me naked he kind of looks me over,and when he gets to my dick he says:"Looks like I'm going to be the top with you."

That was the first time someone had mentioned my size negatively and I was so embarrassed.If I hadn't been drunk the mood would have been killed.I did get pissed though when I get his pants off and found out he wasn't that much bigger than me (like an inch :mad: ).He apologized the next day and was all "That shit doesn't really matter,we can still have a good time."I got over it,and we did have a good time for a little bit,but he's one the less missed ex-boyfriends.

I don't think would ever reject someone for being small,seeing as how I'm far from hung myself it would be a shitty thing to do.The smallest penis that a boyfriends ever had was four inches,and he was one of the best lovers I've ever had.Shit,when we're both single we'll hook up whenever we can.
 
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