Embarassing question?

[silversmith1213]

It's not surprising that with a rather well endowed boyfriend you feel out of place and/or jealous, but what you need to realize is that he obviously loves you, and nothing about your penis is going to change that. Besides, if he didn't like it he wouldn't be a good boyfriend anyway. Average wee-wees are just as affective as the larger ones, and quite frankly its something you can't control, so not something you should worry about.

As for the enhancements, drop it. The penis is not a muscle, it cannot be exercised. The penis does not benefit nutritionally differently from any other part of your body, and therefore supplements are useless. The penis is simply a tissue, and you can't enlarge it any more than you can a finger. Surgery is possible, but you don't have a physical problem, you have a mental problem. So overall, enjoy yourself and try not to think of such vain issues.

 

[Corny]

That lack of confidence is probably a bigger turn-off to him more than anything.

I can only speak for me, but for me this is very true. If I date a guy which I like .. I must be liking him, right? And if that guy sits there just lamenting what is all bad about himself, I feel like I should run away (and I have done so in the past). There is not much that is "unsexier" (in regards of a character), than missing self-confidence.

I don't think there should be that much of a fluctuation in size, especially erect. It affects the balls too, sometimes they'll be low-hanging and other times they look like they're cold even when they're not.

I'm not sure about what exactly we are talking here. You balls position changes all the time. It has a lot to do with temperature, but I hope you already know that. Just drop the pants now, and look at your balls. You will notice that the scrotum is almost constantly "moving". So sometimes you have low-hangers, sometimes not. The size of your testicles however is always the same.
An erected penis is not exactly the same lengths every day. Sometimes erections are harder, sometimes they are weaker. I can't imagine that there is that much of a difference for you, but maybe you just fall for an optical illusion. Use your measuring tape, instead just comparing in the mirror - I am pretty sure your size will be about the same every day.

 

[KaraBulut]

Those of us who have been around can assure you that penis size has little to do with ability. The best lovers are seldom the ones who have the biggest dicks. And the worst lovers either have the biggest dick or are the biggest dick (or both).

Just because your bat is big doesn't mean you have a clue how to hit the ball out of the park.

If you're really serious about this guy and want to keep him around, stop focusing on those few little inches on yourself and start focusing on him.

 

[G-Lexington]

Welcome to JUB!

He obviously likes you. And he obviously doesn't care about your dick size or how your balls are behaving. Sex is supposed to be fun, damnit. So go enjoy his larger cock, and let him enjoy your average one.

Lex

 

[Blueboy369]

I read somewhere that the hottest sex is when both partners are trying to get off. Everyone deserves pleasure and it doesn't matter our size in inches. Next time you have sex just keep your mind on having a great fucking time! Enjoy!

 

[looseliam]

Well, I'm not sure of the size difference, but I will say this:

I have turned away one man because of his size: it was too big.

I have never thought "this is too small."

File it away, if you can. It really isn't as important as other lead you to believe.

 

[Seasoned]

"Honey, do you ever notice how my dick can be different sizes both when it's soft and when it's hard"? No? "Can we spend the afternoon naked so I can show you what I mean"?

 

[rareboy]

It isn't always a competition, you know.

Just relax.

You're together and there must be more than looks and cock size that is making you happy.