embarrassing trouble.

[bumstead53]

Thanks for your help karabulut, i've never heard of Marfan Syndrome before but i do not think i have that, i looked it up really quick and i didn't notice that stood out with me and the syndrome. although there was a mention of a chest indent or something like that, and my dad has an indent in his chest but its believe to be from he being steped on by his uncle while he was a baby. I know there is no need to post a picture at all, i was mainly thinking of it to get a other people opinions on it. so far i'm still against it mainly being shy. i believe a big problem with me believe something isn't right is just me seeing the rest of my body and seeing other guys whos dicks look proportion to their body while mine isn't and i just get insecure about it. thanks again for the help. its just one of those things that you have to live with i guess..

 

[jockboy01]

I think you're fine. Assuming you have pubic hair and all... it's just normal and nothing physically wrong. And the average is 5.5 inches. Don't worry about the internet inches, they're all wrong.

 

[alley]

I'd trade you mine slighly above average dick to be 6'5---I love tall guys---

 

[bumstead53]

Thanks jockboy01. i feel a bit better about it, but still not to great i guess.
alley1234 i would trade but i like being tall how about you get to be tall and i still get your slightly above average dick, which of course you can have too

 

[KaraBulut]

I believe a big problem with me believe something isn't right is just me seeing the rest of my body and seeing other guys whos dicks look proportion to their body while mine isn't and i just get insecure about it. thanks again for the help. its just one of those things that you have to live with i guess..

Bumstead53: I don't think that it is a matter of living with it. You have a perfectly average dick with an above average height. As long as your dick gets hard and you know what to do with it, you will never have any problem finding someone who will have all sorts of fun with your average dick. And at 6'5", everyone is going to know when you want into the room- you will never have a shortage of attention.

No go work on your self-image and find someone to have some fun with.

 

[alley]

I'll share the dick any time---

 

[Romantico]

bumstead53, you do not sound below average to me. I myself use to be pretty self conscience because I felt the same way. I have a very thick bush and know if I trimmed it more my dick would look bigger,but I'm happy and my girlfriend is happy with what I got.By the way, I myself prefer a guy with a smaller dick. TRUST ME, guys with smaller dicks do very well. My opinion, your concerns are understandable,but you have nothing to worry about.Good luck!

 

[walsh0829]

bumstead...nothing to be embarrassed bout bet u look good in and out of clothes

 

[drhladnjak]

As others have said above, you're within the normal range and there's nothing you can do to change it at this point anyways. The sooner you accept what you have, the sooner you'll be content with your body.

One of the hottest guys I was ever involved with had a dick about as big as yours. He was A LOT of fun, a total sweetheart and I don't think I once felt or saw his dick in a non-hard state despite dating for a while.

Yes, other guys will judge you, but honestly why should you care what they think? If they're so focused on something so unimportant and unchangeable, would you really want to be friends or date them anyways?

 

[bumstead53]

Romantico, i've tried shaving my hair to a shorter length and yes it does make it look bigger, but to me it still seems like its not what it should be. I do wish it was a lot thicker than it is though. if it was thicker i'm sure it wouldn't be as a big problem as i've seemed to make it on myself. i cant say forsure though, just me taking a guess that i'd feel a bit better about that. maybe after i do something with someone and they tell me i'm fine then i'm sure i'll feel better, thanks for your assistance though, it helped me quite a bit seeing you yourself had this same problem.

walsh0829, lol thanks. but personally i dont think i look that great without clothes mainly becuse i personally think i'm overwieght. everyone tells me i'm not, haha.

drhladnjak, Its not so much what other people think about it that bothers me, i mean yes there is that part played too, such as if i were to have been peaked on by a friend i'd be really really embarassed considering my height and the myth of big feet big dick. It bothers me more than the thought of what others think though becuase i do agree that if thats all they think about then why would i be with them. I think you should be with people that like you for you not for something you may or may not have.

 

[walsh0829]

i bet u are fuckin sweet..let me be the judge on the way u look without clothes send me a pic...

 

[Corny]

walsh0829, lol thanks. but personally i dont think i look that great without clothes mainly becuse i personally think i'm overwieght. everyone tells me i'm not, haha.

since one always tends to criticize oneself too much - they are probably right

 

[bumstead53]

Corny, I am probably just judging myself to much, but i still believe i'm a bit fat, they just tell me it suits my body shape.

walsh0829, I'm pretty shy about pictures because of me judging my looks too much, so i dont think i could send a picture. maybe if i can i will. sorry walsh.

 

[walsh0829]

I think it is very hard for people to accept their own physical self image... and i think this is true even for people who would be considered "HOT". One of the guys in my cycling group is beyond comprehension HOT. At the gym he's had modelling offers, even just at the store or out and about.

But... lol, the poor bastard has the worst self image i've ever seen. he doesn't believe anyone when they say he's gorgeous and has a great body.

Its hard to say you like your body... we're always thinking there's something we need to improve upon.

I'm a heavier guy. And I have always been concious about it to the point sometimes where it interfers with my willingness to be with some guys.

I don't like being told I'm cute or sexy because it is in contrast to how i see myself... but I'm comming around. lol. it is very hard to accept yourself sometimes.

you've made some good points everyone seems to find faults in themselves, if it wasn't weight or "hotness" it will be something else.
bumstead when u decide to take a picture, in or out of clothes hit me up cause i'm sure ur fine to look at.

 

[bumstead53]

Thanks guys, I'll agree that everyone can be too judgmental of themselves. Its just in human nature. Some worse than others. I'm sure after awhile I'll be able to come around and know that i look fine, I have somewhat after months of people telling me I look fine. lol. Anyway thanks a lot again guys!

Walsh0829, if I do take a picture to post on here it would be clothed for a first picture forsure. But yes I will let you know when or if I do. Either way I'm still shy guy in general so I dont really like pictures lol

 

[Corny]

a friend of mine once said
"one of the hardest challenges in life is to look at oneself in the mirror, acknowledge the fact that you are not flawless, and that this will never change because it is a good thing"

 

[3nipples]

Haven't you ever noticed that you tend to overlook flaws in others? The pimple on the nose just doesn't bother you as much when it's on somebody else; in fact you hardly notice it.

Other people are like that too. Those "flaws" that you're stressing over aren't the most important part of you and they aren't what other people notice about you.

So give yourself a break.