Enema: what am I doing wrong?

[rs1234]

So I'm thinking about trying anal sex for the first time soon, as it's been a fantasy of mine for a while now, and I've been trying to practice giving myself an enema. I'm going the enema route because I just think I'd be able to relax and get into it more if I was cleaned out. That, and whenever I use toys I always get #### on the toy, and I don't want that to happen when I'm with someone.

I bought those fleet naturals. The first time I tried to give myself an enema, I just used one bottle and it didn't feel like it did very much. I never really got a strong urge to evacuate...I went to the toilet probably an hour later but not a whole lot came out and I wasn't cleaned out.

A couple weeks later I tried again, this time using two fleet naturals bottles. I held it in for about 25 minutes, when the urge to evacuate got pretty strong, so I went and used the bathroom. This time, a lot came out. However, I went and played with a toy and I STILL got some #### on the toy.

Any advice? Do Fleet Naturals not work very well? Should I have tried to hold it in longer than 25 minutes? Did I not eat healthy enough that day or something (I honestly don't remember what I ate, but I usually eat at least fairly healthy).

 

[kevin23]

check you pm's

 

[Redambrose48]

Take an Imodium the day before, and when you douche you will run clear with no fear of accidents.

 

[manson122]

check you pm's

I've had the same problem, and would rather not take an imodium if I don't have to. Could you share the solution (if any) that you shared with rs1234 please?

 

[trouvé]

I've had the same problem, and would rather not take an imodium if I don't have to. Could you share the solution (if any) that you shared with rs1234 please?

I agree - would love to hear the advice sans meds.

 

[racer2438]

I just eat real light and foods high on fiber the day b4 and eat real light day of : like fruit, granola, yogurt and juice/water, I douche in the am a bit after morning dump. Then again a few hrs b4 getting fucked. I don't eat during the day. I wash out hole really good.

I am clean to rim and fuck.

 

[panda29]

I find that using an enema bag works best. Just use large amounts of worm water 2 to 3 times about an hour before.

 

[KaraBulut]

Any advice? Do Fleet Naturals not work very well? Should I have tried to hold it in longer than 25 minutes? Did I not eat healthy enough that day or something (I honestly don't remember what I ate, but I usually eat at least fairly healthy).

The problem is not the enema. The problem is the functioning of your colon. Most people can't retain an enema- it usually triggers a strong response to evacuate.

Out of curiosity, what is your diet like? Do you have problems with bowel habits?

 

[houtxstud]

So I'm thinking about trying anal sex for the first time soon, as it's been a fantasy of mine for a while now, and I've been trying to practice giving myself an enema. I'm going the enema route because I just think I'd be able to relax and get into it more if I was cleaned out. That, and whenever I use toys I always get #### on the toy, and I don't want that to happen when I'm with someone.

I bought those fleet naturals. The first time I tried to give myself an enema, I just used one bottle and it didn't feel like it did very much. I never really got a strong urge to evacuate...I went to the toilet probably an hour later but not a whole lot came out and I wasn't cleaned out.

A couple weeks later I tried again, this time using two fleet naturals bottles. I held it in for about 25 minutes, when the urge to evacuate got pretty strong, so I went and used the bathroom. This time, a lot came out. However, I went and played with a toy and I STILL got some #### on the toy.

Any advice? Do Fleet Naturals not work very well? Should I have tried to hold it in longer than 25 minutes? Did I not eat healthy enough that day or something (I honestly don't remember what I ate, but I usually eat at least fairly healthy).

The Fleet Naturals have not worked well for me. There is no active ingredient to initiate a bowel movement, and the volume of liqiuid isn't sufficient to really help clean you out. If I use a Fleet product, I use one of the regular saline laxative enemas to induce a bowel movement. I can only hold it in 2 or 3 minutes and then it works. I then typically refill the plastic bottle with warm tap water and use that a couple of times to rinse out until clear.

The Fleet laxative enema can be a little harsh on your system and is probably overkill if you have a well-functioning digestive system. I only use those if I am ...um... full. The best approach is to buy a bulb syringe (available at some pharmacies and online) that holds about 8 ounces of water. Fill that with warm tap water and inject it while standing and bending forward slightly. Don't try to hold it. Just push the water out as soon as you feel the urge. Repeat with another 8 ounces until what is coming back out is clear. Don't use more than the 8 ounces of water per fill or you will get water trapped up in the colon which can create a nasty surprise later. This method has worked successfully or me for years. If this still doesn't get you clean, you may need to invest in an enema bag and use more water.

 

[mbamike]

I have not used the Fleet Natural enemas, but I have used the Fleet saline enemas. I held the solution inside me for a couple of minutes before I had to evacuate. I then rinsed by filling the empty bottle with warm water, holding it in for a couple of minutes then evacuating. I don't like the Fleet enemas because of the santorum (slime) they create.

I went to the hot water bottle type enema bags afterwards. I count to 10 while allowing the warm water to flow inside me before pinching off the tube. Then I evacuate the water out. It takes about 3-4 rinses to get the water to run clear. This method is a real pain in the ass because you have to make sure the bag is clean before using. Mold and bacteria can grow inside the bag. This method takes me about 45 minutes which includes washing out the bag with hot-soapy water before using.

I then went back to using the Fleet bottles, but I used just plain warm water. It took 3-4 rinses to get the water to run clear. I liked this method, but the bottles become worn and started to leak. So, I had to return to the enema bag. I think the enema syringe will be my next adventure in getting clean, but as to date I have not purchased one.

Be sure to use a little lube on the nozzle of your chosen method. This will allow them to be inserted easily.

I hope my experiences will help you resolve your enema dilemma. Best wishes.

 

[Darted]

This is what has worked for me in the past: Don't eat too much the day/2 days before and honestly an enema with water works fine, you just need to keep going at it to get the water deep inside. I have a feeling your just inserting and squeezing and the liquid is running alone the top and not actually going really inside you like it should.