Erectile Dysfunction at 19?

[breatheH20]

Yeah, definitely not a chronic chronic user here. I can count on one hand how many times I've done it in my life, so no prolonged use here. Well, I'm thinking it has to be Psychological. I managed to get off today, and feel a bit horny or whatever. So, I don't know what it was, but I feel like it's starting to go away... Thank God!

 

[justaguy1988]

That happens to me sometimes. It will go on for a week maybe two and I have no interest in sex and I am doing good to get it up enough to even be able to jack off. But then it goes away. I don't know if its just from being depressed or what. But now browsing the boards I get hard just reading some of the posts and stuff and I've got my rock solid erections again.

 

[Gabe2006]

Maybe your just pressuring yourself to get an erection?

 

[DavidNY]

I read somewhere that something like 90-95% of men aged 24/25 (or something very close) reported not being able to get an erection on at least one occassion. It just seems that this just happens sometimes and there's no need to get too concerned unless it persists for (I'm guessing something like) a few weeks or more.

The same thing happened to me a few years ago and I was also around your age. Somehow I just wasn't concerned and maybe that helped keep the stress factor away but a few days later I was back in business. I never wondered what happened or what seemed to have changed the 3-4 days later. Anyway, judging from your last post your dick seems a little sleepy but awake. Good morning!

 

[tallguy297]

Guys....relax. This is like the "who wanks" myth...20% admit it and 80% lie.

Look, despite the fact that we might not look like real men, or that it might somehow make us weak or that our sex drives might not be as good as the next guys....ALL OF US AT SOME TIME OR ANOTHER WONT BE ABLE TO GET IT UP. Its normal. There are a lot of reasons...most psychological.

We all have ranging sex drive and we are all subject to different stresses and enviroments. All of these things can affect your ability to get it up.

But what affects it most of all is worrying about whether or not you'll get it up.

You are normal honest open guys. There is almost certainly nothing wrong with you...believe it or not you cant control the process of getting an erection. Sure you can stimulate it or whatever but the processes are well outside of your control. But you can stop it with stress and worry, distractions and fear.

The difference between you guys and everyone else is that you're not afraid to ask and share something that a whole lot of others dont have the guts to.

Relax, enjoy the moment, let yourself fully immerse into the situation be it a wank or something with your partner. Dont rush it, dont stress, let your whole body be aroused and turned on. Most of all dont force it. Take a break from trying...and your body will tell you when its ready...listen to it and stop trying to take control.

 

[BlueLantern]

I have the same problem... I think it is more of thing with the mind.. I can jerk off but I am sort of frigid with other guys hands.

I so depressed

 

[breatheH20]

It'll be fine guys.. the more you worry about it, the longer it will stay with you.. for me it was about a week... then afterwards, I did it with the BF back to back 4 times!

 

[bj026]

I'm kinda having the same drama but I think it's cuz of being in a lull without a partner for a while. No problem with self cranking, having morning wood and even "spongies" during the day when certain "thoughts" pop up. But hooked up the other day with an acquaintance and it was a no go...at least with them trying to crank me. Frustrating as hell, especially cuz the acquaintance is a total hottie. I'm hoping that with more consistency, I'll get my groove back.