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FirePhoenix

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Even fat people can get girlfriends....


wtf!!! seriously!!!
I am so pissed off right now

I'll explain the evening. My parents were going to have a get together with 2 of my moms girlfriends and since their friends were bringing their sons (one was 29 and the other was 31) my parents asked if I wanted to go. I said sure thinking o ya this is gonna be so boring. About 15-20 mins after we got to her house (trailer in a trailer park) my mom and 1 of her girlfriends went into the bedroom so my mom could talk shit about my dad (ya thin walls are fun). so the men folk and the other girlfriend (I like that one, she's nice to talk to) were left in the front room to talk, it wasn't that bad but kinda boring conversation. more or less that was the whole thing until.... after everyone else left, it was just me the girlfriend that owned the house and her son. I was saying goodbye and it was fun blah blah blah and I turned to leave and she said even fat people can get girlfriends. I was shocked at first and just kinda paused, looked at her for a second and left. She is pretty chunky herself so I don't even see how she could say something like that. Damn I wish I had that to do over again and tell her what I thought of her statement.

In conclusion even fat people have feeling!!!! :grrr:
:cry: ](*,)
(Ya I know i'm acting like a baby and I should just get over it)
 
As a fellow person with a bit more to love, I have to say that that's extremely rude to say. Yes, it's true (as is my case), but seriously! I mean, who the fuck is anybody to comment about anybody else in that manner?

Think of it this way, though-- even an idiot can own a trailer.
 
I'm not fat and never been fat, but I don't understand your problem with what she said.

Oh wait... Is it because shes fat and might be saying that as if people think that fat girls get boyfriends ,ore than fat guys?

I don't know, but I sure as hell know that I like bigger men, but don't like bigger girls...
 
Okay, that's rude, and heterosexist (what makes her think you want a girlfriend, for goodness sake?), but what can you expect in a trailer? The minute you enter a building constructed of aluminum and plywood, the ordinary rules of civilized existence cease to apply.

And I know the feeling... this summer I went to a family gathering, where several people were quite shocked at how big I've become (I'd been rail-thin my whole life, but now I'm 55 pounds overweight), and one of my cousins even commented on it... "It's so good to see you! And there's so much more of you to see!" She was just kidding, and she meant it kindly, but it cut me to the quick.

But the reality is, fat people can get girlfriends! And boyfriends, too, if it comes to that. If fat was universally disgusting, the gene for it would have died out eons ago. Just look around you at all the roly-poly couples there are in the world.

I think your mom's friend might have been trying to point that out to you and encourage you to love yourself the way you are rather than giving in to the dominant social paradigm that only the thin and fit are worthy of love. Or she might have been just being a bitch, but you can take the correct lesson away from the encounter nonetheless.

The lesson is that nobody is so ugly he can't be loved.
 
Theyoungman said:
I'm not fat and never been fat, but I don't understand your problem with what she said.

Oh wait... Is it because shes fat and might be saying that as if people think that fat girls get boyfriends ,ore than fat guys?

I don't know, but I sure as hell know that I like bigger men, but don't like bigger girls...
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It's very hurtful to be told by other people that you're too fat, and it gets really hurtful when people try to be nice by saying stuff. I mean, we know we're heavy, but it's quite unnecessary to offer unsolicited affirmations. We hear it as: "Somebody out there isn't going to care if you look like an elephant." And then it becomes an issue of feeling like we're the pickings when people are desperate.
 
TaigaStar said:
It's very hurtful to be told by other people that you're too fat, and it gets really hurtful when people try to be nice by saying stuff. I mean, we know we're heavy, but it's quite unnecessary to offer unsolicited affirmations. We hear it as: "Somebody out there isn't going to care if you look like an elephant." And then it becomes an issue of feeling like we're the pickings when people are desperate.
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OK I get it now.
 
This may be a bad thread in which to make a point of this nature, but not all people who live in trailers are hicks. Lay off. An ignorant bitch is an ignorant bitch, no matter where she lives.
 
doctorsun said:
This may be a bad thread in which to make a point of this nature, but not all people who live in trailers are hicks. Lay off. An ignorant bitch is an ignorant bitch, no matter where she lives.
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Ya I wasn't really thinking about what people would get out of the post when I made it. I live in a trailer just not in a trailer park. So the ordinary rules of civilized existence cease to apply here also. :lol:
 
doctorsun said:
This may be a bad thread in which to make a point of this nature, but not all people who live in trailers are hicks. Lay off. An ignorant bitch is an ignorant bitch, no matter where she lives.
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That was actually meant in the opposite way: that is, not everybody who lives in a trailer park is an idiot, but look at the idiot who does. Sorry if that came off a lot meaner (and misdirected) than intended.
 
I apologize for the trailer crack... my mother lives in a trailer, and I therefore hate trailers and trailer parks, and am leery of anyone who lives in one. I also suspect anyone who lives in what amounts to a gypsy caravan, people who eschew the simple necessities of plaster walls and concrete foundations.

I'm sorry that I let my personal prejudices out for a frolic. See, even I, a virtual saint among men, have my ugly side.
 
Excuse me, but a couple of my best friends live in trailers. And they're good damn people.

And we complain because people are stereotypical against US. Why do we have to turn around and be the same way?

I think I should go to bed now before I get myself into trouble.

However I still don't understand the original post. Was there a point to that?

Goodnight,

Chris
 
Sunshine...on my shoulder...makes me happy.
 
Well ... At one time I was 355 lbs ... I got down to 190 just by walking and eating less .... Went back up to 275 .... am now coming down and am at 241 .... and I have had nice, slim, cute and way Younger B/fs as they seem to seek me out ..... Don't want or Need a G/F ...
 
Maybe, sicne she's hevay too,s he was being encouraging and unintentionally came off as offensive?

But you'd know better than me since you heard her.

I've lost some weight now, just because I'm more active, but when I was younger I was really chubby and every time I saw my relatives, my autns would always talk about how fat I was and it hurt a lot. In fact, I think it's a lot of the reason why my self esteem sucks some times.

So I totally know where you're coming from.

As for weight, I think weight doesn't matter (unless you're putting yourself at medical risk). What matters to me is a good (hell no, great) sense of humor and that spark.

So of course fat people can have girlfriends (and boyfriends). Nothing surprising about that at all!
 
I tend to piss big people off because I think that I am out of shape( which I am) but have a size 34 waist. I think that it is all a matter of self image.
 
I'm fat, 296lb of blubber and its a true statement. Even fat people can get partners. I have one, of five years.

Seems like you're insecure about your size to me. Take it as a blessing, and if you're still feeling insecure, try and do something about your size rather than bitch about those comments.
 
I live in a 29' ft travel trailer, the reason is that a series of events forced me out of the house we were renting, and had only 1 month to move, I could not get an apartment is that short of time, so my parents had an 18' trailer that we set up in an RV park, lived there for a few months, then found this 29' trailer, and bought it, and moved it to a more permement spot. I really like like it! So my plan is to get a bigger unit, and a truck to tow it, then start doing some traviling!
So I guess, the point of this is to say, that not every one makes the choise to live in a tralier, It was the only means of a home I could get at the time, either a trailer or a cardboard box on the street! But now that I am in it, I like it, it is cheaper than rent, and in a few years it will be mine!
 
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