Ever experience being ignored by other gay men?

[attallaborn]

Hey guys,

I have been wondering this for sometime. Are there any hot guys or guys in general , out there, that have ever experienced being ignored by other gay men? Even within the instance of a glance or a wink?

If so, how many times has it happened and how does it make you feel? Anyone experience this but then turn it around??

 

[refujiunderground]

yeah i've been ignored by other gay men. fuck them. they don't know what they're missing out on. if somebody feels that i've done that to them in which i'm 100 percent sure there might be a guy or two that does feel i've done that to them, either they didn't tell me (i'm not a guy that likes to make the first move or play the game where i'm supposed to figure out if a guy likes me or not by subliminals, him waving bye to me or whatever, i don't know if you don't tell me straight up.) or i guess i wasn't interested. then again, if they got me before october of last year, then the reason was i was closeted and struggling to deal with my sexuality at the time. i was deeply closeted and i wasn't ready to come out to play. it wasn't their fault. some of those guys if they were still interested could still get with me if they wanted to but that was the past though. i'm moving on to the next chapter. stay tuned.

 

[palbert]

I think we all have - and it goes both ways. Nothing to get too involved about.

 

[Mr-Pickles]

I'm rarely the one who does the approaching when I'm into someone, so luckily I don't think I've experienced being ignored in that way.

 

[PKMO]

Sure, some people just won't be interested in knowing you. Such is life.

 

[attallaborn]

Sure. If someone is interested, I'll just move on with my life. And I did find a guy interested in me, and now we are dating. So all is fine.

And yes I have ignored certain people too... if you're not my type, you're not my type. I can't go with someone I'm not attracted towards. I won't be rude about it though. If someone comes up to me, I'll just politely decline.

Do you consider yourself to be a hot guy? And by type, does that mean height, race or body type preference? A hot guy is a hot guy, right?

 

[attallaborn]

Thanks for the replies guys..It seems like you all kinda figure it to be a "whatever" type thing..

I was recently at a gay event (loaded with hotties) and no one talked or even remotely payed attention to one another..

When out with my beautiful, straight girl friends--they ALWAYs get some kind of attention from men...If not even approached, they eventually get a good eye-fucking or something. Strange the gay scenes don't throw hints like that..

 

[TheOscar]

Are you talking about like just like going up to them and blatantly flirting with them? Or just in any context?

If in any context, I think it has most definitely happened to everyone. Just recently this guy wanted my number and I gave it to him, but later that week when I saw him, he didn't even bother to say "hi" or anything. Kinda weird, but I felt he was ignoring me. >.> Though he acknowledged me today. Hmm.

But I tend to not ignore people, unless I'm distracted with something in my mind, but I usually pay attention and am polite even if I am not necessarily interested in them. And you never know, anyways.

 

[attallaborn]

Happens a lot. I think it happens a lot more online.

Yeah, the on-line dating scene is tough. Being ignored is a right of passage, lol. Guess that's why you see so many guys half naked in their profile pictures lol. And guess that's why some guys strip down at gay clubs...all for attention

 

[CowboyBob]

I've been ignored by other gay men. I've also ignored gay men myself. Everyone has. You don't have to connect with everyone and everyone isn't going to connect with you. That's life.