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Yes. When I was the boss and employees did not like my secretiveness of pending decisions I had to make.
 
Sometimes. But in my case, it's usually me thinking I've done nothing only to find out that some people took a benign comment completely out of context.
 
Not really. If I piss off a whole lot of people, I'm almost always aware of it...and I usually get that Homer Simpson "d'oh" face going.

Lex
 
Dude, is there something you're trying (not) to tell us? Inquiring minds want to know...
 
I feel like that all the time... are they mad at me? Is it because of something I did? What did I do? How can I make up for it if I don't know what it was I did? What kind of moron am I that I can do something to make everyone mad without knowing it was going to make them mad? How can I find out if they're really mad without asking, since asking would either make them blow up at me or else make them think I'm crazy?

But then, I am crazy, so I don't suppose it's much consolation to know I have this trait in common with you. ;)
 
Swellegant said:
I feel like that all the time... are they mad at me? Is it because of something I did? What did I do? How can I make up for it if I don't know what it was I did? What kind of moron am I that I can do something to make everyone mad without knowing it was going to make them mad? How can I find out if they're really mad without asking, since asking would either make them blow up at me or else make them think I'm crazy?

But then, I am crazy, so I don't suppose it's much consolation to know I have this trait in common with you. ;)
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I'm the same way. I really don't want to make people angry at me. Whenever someone seems a little short with me, usually they're only having a rough day or something, but I automatically wonder what I did that upset them. I know, I'm crazy.
 
I have HORRIBLE rejection issues.

It has taken me years to finally tell myself that there is no way I'll ever make everyone happy.

I truly understand the weird headspace thing.

You should see my desk. :(
 
Strange that you should ask because I got a comment from you the other day which then mysteriously disappeared.

I was wondering if I had done something and somehow you had managed to delete it.
 
Yes but I prefer to surround myself with folk that will just come out and tell me why i've pissed them off in the first place. I hate passive aggressiveness and can always spot it and call someone on it.
 
dpnice said:
Strange that you should ask because I got a comment from you the other day which then mysteriously disappeared.

I was wondering if I had done something and somehow you had managed to delete it.
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Yeah I've had one or two of my comments disappear when a thread (or its attached post which spawned the comment) got removed. Even if a comment source LEAVES JUB, the comment still remains - except that there is no longer a name attached to it. For example there are 3 or 4 rather old comments from "he who shall not be named" (his city was part of his name) and the comments are still there, but decapitated of their author's name.

Gery, look for a PM in the next few days. Recent days have been PACKED like crazy amid a lot of travel, etc. Hope we'll be back in touch soon.
 
I piss people off all the damn time, and I never remember what I've said that's bugging them. It usually takes short replies or the silent treatment from the offended person before I realize I'm in the dog house w/ them. It's almost never my intent to piss folks off, and I attempt to guard my words so that I don't do so. Of course, more often than not, I fail and inevitably, someone is hurt by my blunt remarks.

However, instead of being upset w/ myself for offending the person, I usually get pissed right back at their childish, passive-aggressive, behavior. If you're pissed at me, have the balls to admit that you're pissed at me. Why not? It's not like I yell at people or throw punches. I'll think about the issue, I'll apologize and will try my best to not tread in that area again. How else are we going to move forward? Sheesh.

So, Mr. Pianoman, have you signed a peace treaty w/ those folks yet?
 
No, not really. I don't think a whole lot of people are even aware that I exist. But if I have - good! They probably deserve it.
 
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