Ever had any nightmare hookup scenarios?

[boiseboy]

Just had the scariest experience ever, made me get really close to deleting my manhunt profile.

So a little bit about me, I'm really into dominate older guys. Like guy in their 30's-40's, it's always turned me on.

So this guy emails me wanting to hook up, he seems nice so i give him my number and we start texting. He wanted to hook up when i had to work, so I told him when i was available.
He couldnt hook up when i was available, so he planned a different time, and i said i already had plans. He then got mad and said "you're just wasting my time with your bullshit," and i told him "I'm not about to drop my friends for some complete horny stranger.
This should of been the first time to block him and never talk to him again, but i didnt.


Anyways, he still wanted to hook up. So i was drunk with my friends and he texts me saying "where are you i'm going to pick you up."
And me, drunk, texts him back saying "i'm super drunk right now and i'll probably pass out pretty soon so no" except it was more like "im SPR drun durunk rit now il probby pas out"

So he texts back saying "pass out in my car, i'll take you to my house."

i have never met this guy before

i didnt text him back and he texts again literally saying
"i'm trying to track your cellphone number now im going to pick you up"

Not even fucking kidding. He was trying to use one of those reverse phone look up systems, that you have to pay for for them to locate by satelite where a number is located. Anyways, it leads him to the wrong house and i wake up with a horrible hang over reading over my texts, and freaking the fuck out.


I'm going to go to t-mobile to see if i can block his number. That seriously scared the shit out of me. I blocked him from manhunt and my email.



Anyways, for anyone whos to lazy to read all of this
Guy wanted to hook up, i couldnt, i get drunk, he still wants to hook up, i say no, he trys to track my number but ends up at the wrong house.



Ever had a nightmare hook up experience? I doubt i'll ever do this online shit again.

 

[Dobson73]

He was probably from the Grammar Police

 

[Corny]

Well, he *was* dominant

 

[boiseboy]

Well, he *was* dominant

Haha i think i should change what i mean then. Another guy messaged me with "im going to use you right now, tell me where you live and i'll grab you from there."
I was like, what the fuck, this isnt what i mean.

 

[Spiff]

The guy really seemed like bad news if he was so desperate to take advantage of a drunk younger guy that we would attempt to trace your number. But then again, I'm sure this is par for the course with what you get from Manhunt.

 

[FPNY]

seems you two might make the perfect pair.....give him another chance.

 

[alley]

In my defense...


I just wanted to make sure you got home safe...



And maybe a blow-job.

 

[TygreBryte]

So boise, I'm glad that guy didn't find you. It always suprises me how much stuff that, from my position, seems REALLY WACKY AND SCARY, is actually out there.

I'm curious, though: When you say you want an older guy who is "dominant," what do you mean, exactly? In the past when I've hooked up with some younger guys, I've been surprised that they seem to have no opinion whatsoever about what should happen between us or who does what, like I'm supposed to make ALL the decisions. This always surprises me. Is this anything like what you're talking about?

 

[boiseboy]

In my defense...


I just wanted to make sure you got home safe...



And maybe a blow-job.

You're too kind.

 

[boiseboy]

So boise, I'm glad that guy didn't find you. It always suprises me how much stuff that, from my position, seems REALLY WACKY AND SCARY, is actually out there.

I'm curious, though: When you say you want an older guy who is "dominant," what do you mean, exactly? In the past when I've hooked up with some younger guys, I've been surprised that they seem to have no opinion whatsoever about what should happen between us or who does what, like I'm supposed to make ALL the decisions. This always surprises me. Is this anything like what you're talking about?

It was definitely enough for me to question my hooking up techniques. I couldnt imagine what could of happened if i would of hooked up with him the first day.

Hmm, good question. When I mean dominant, I mean a guy who really gets off on being with a younger guy and getting rough. The guys you hooked up were probably nervous or otherwise very very passive. The few hook up experiences I've had with older men, we usually talk before about whats going to happen (who likes what done to them, who wants what done to them).





But i think the problem is peoples different definitions of dominant. I mean dominant in bed, not anywhere else.

 

[CudDULL]

We'll maybe you shouldn't hand out your number like that so easily.

 

[boiseboy]

We'll maybe you shouldn't hand out your number like that so easily.

I fully agree. It's definitely the last time I'll ever do that.


I wasn't even aware regular people could use phone trackers. Glad it didnt work though.

 

[Críostóir]

I don't think regular people CAN use phone trackers. I think he was trying to scare you. Either that, or he's in law enforcement.

I like submissive younger guys, how about that? But you don't play with someone you don't know, or you're Looking for Mr. Goodbar.

 

[Fire]

But you don't play with someone you don't know, or you're Looking for Mr. Goodbar.

Or maybe Daddy Warbucks?

 

[Críostóir]

Or maybe Daddy Warbucks?

No, if you're looking for Daddy Warbucks you don't give him sex until AFTER he showers you with gifts.

For those who don't know, Looking for Mr. Goodbar is a movie where Diane Keaton looks for anonymous rough sex, but what she's really after is the guy who will kill her. At the end Richard Gere proves to be the guy.

 

[boiseboy]

I don't think regular people CAN use phone trackers. I think he was trying to scare you. Either that, or he's in law enforcement.

I like submissive younger guys, how about that? But you don't play with someone you don't know, or you're Looking for Mr. Goodbar.

I dont know what he used but i googled phone tracking and there's a bunch of sites you can track cellphones with. Some you have to pay for, some will give you the mapquest directions.

Plenty of sites like this.
http://www.reversephonedetective.com/



What I'm assuming is that the adress he got was the person who had this number first.



Even if he was lying, scary shit.

 

[CudDULL]

Aren't phone trackers used by parents to see where their children are...i think nextel offered it

 

[Críostóir]

Aren't phone trackers used by parents to see where their children are...i think nextel offered it

Yeah, but you have to be the owner of the account.

I'm stunned to learn that anyone can just go to a website and find a cellphone. But what's been shown here so far tracks the address of the owner, not his/her current location. Still bad, but not quite as fishbowl an idea.

 

[NedNickerson]

Just to be safe - and I don't mean to frighten you - print out all the information you know about this guy, including the texts that he sent you - and keep it in an envelope in your desk drawer.

That way, God forbid, if he does track you down and he does something bad to you, authorities will have a way to track him down.

 

[boiseboy]

Just to be safe - and I don't mean to frighten you - print out all the information you know about this guy, including the texts that he sent you - and keep it in an envelope in your desk drawer.

That way, God forbid, if he does track you down and he does something bad to you, authorities will have a way to track him down.

Unfortunately I deleted the texts, but i still do have his messages from manhunt so I'll take your advice and print them out. They include his real name and the neighborhood he lives in.