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Who is super hot/cute and really really nice BUT is also not gay? I know a guy like that, and he knows I'm gay but is cool with it? I have a friend like that, and I'm sortof avoiding him before things go into crush territory.
I'm just curious if people here have had similar situations and how they deal with it?
 
I had a situation like that - although, when I met the guy, I thought he was gay! So I was trying to play it SUPER cool because we were getting along REALLY REALLY well then I found out he was straight.... sigh.... a part of my gay little heart died that day. But then we were totally cool since then. You just have to put it into perspective - he's an awesome guy, who totally respects you, and authentically likes you for who you are. Appreciate the fact that you can have a super awesome straight guy friend like that...

Personally, I think the more you avoid, the more awkward it will be when you DO see each other (for you, at least). So, I'd recommend just getting the instances that will be awkward for you out of the way, so you can just get past it and be good friend.
 
I did once.

It was more like he had a crush on me.

His name was Andy, and we met up years later, but now I have no idea where he is.

Sad, because he was one of my best friends, ever...
 
Sadly, I go right into crush territory, and pretend badly that I don't care even if I'd be dying inside with desire. And I enjoy it.
 
This happened with one of my coworkers who I became friendly with when I started working. Then he started to talk about his girlfriend ](*,). He doesn't know I'm into guys though.
 
You think of him, his feelings, his level of comfort and stop treating him like a sex object. Even if he were gay he may not be interested. Is every straight woman interested in every straight man or visa versa? If we did a better job of coming out we could knock a lot of this shit off.
 
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