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I don't know many straight guys who can talk about gay friend's boyfriends without obviously changing the subject since gay life grosses them out so your buddy sounds ok to me - he might need to grow in understanding, but I don't think he meant anything homophobic at all, or else he wouldn't talk to you about it, or be your friend


and straight guys look at male-female dating that same way often so I am sure he meant you no disrespect
 
Sounds to me like your friend needs alittle education in the RELATIONSHIP Dept. . Str-8s don't have the lock in on Relationships ... WE ALL can and do have relationships ..
 
I think he's just misinformed and buying into the sterotype of gay men. I'd settle for a good relationship with less sex. I do have straight friends I can talk about sex with. I don't give graphic details.
 
sounds like he's not getting any. i've heard a few straight guys think that being gay you can have sex anytime because "you're both dudes and all you want to do is fuck. you don't have to worry about all that girl bullshit." some of us gay guys actually like the relationship stuff.
 
was he truly being serious? sounds like a bullshit conversation i would have with one of my straight friends. don't forget also, a lot of gay guys think the same thing.
 
Personally your friend needs a good slap. Words won't sink in, but the fact that you are extremly offended enough to hit him might. Yes there is sex in gay relationships, like there is sex in healthy straight relationships but it isn't the only thing.
 
Though the relationship comment seems out of line. Gay men that I have known have been more sexually driven than straights. Even as I read books by written by gays, it makes you guys sound like animals. Describing "slut" phases that "all" gay men go through where they fuck uncontrollably. I take it with a grain of salt but sadly many gays reinforce the idea. I don't judge because due to my situation, sex has always been a nasty neccisary evil. So I tend to be a bit harsh on those who even overtly enjoy the idea of it.
 
If you prick us, do we not bleed?
if you tickle us, do we not laugh?
if you poison us, do we not die?
and if you wrong us, shall we not revenge?
 
I always chocked it up to the fact that most men are usually more sexually motivated than woman. So, two men, together will be more sexually active than women.
 
There is more to a relationship than sex. I enjoy the romance and partnership of being in a relationship. Yeah, the sex is a plus but sex alone does not satisfy me.
 
Of course there is. I was just stating gender trends. The inverse being seen in Lesbians who, as a whole, have less sex than everyone else.

Sex has always been the gateway to cuddling for me. Much in the way that for some guys I have known, dates are the gateway to sex.
 
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