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Ever wonder what happened to your bullies?

Thanks to Facebook mutual friends, I know most of them never ventured far out of that sleeply little town of 2,500 people or ran back shortly after college once they realized they weren’t as “big” in the “real world”. Had to go back to their legacies of farming, parents businesses, and high school sports.
 
G-Lexington said:
Another I ran into at some random event. We chatted pleasantly, and didn't bring up the past.

Lex
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Now that you mention it, my secondary school bully had one or two also-rans who were all hat and no cattle. Tough-talking guys as long as he was there too. When he got suspended, they no longer dared to stand up to me and dropped out soon after anyway. Between the ages of 16 and 18 I was widely respected in school because of my own grades as well as my family's reputation.

Anyway, what you reminded me of is I also ran into one of those guys a few years ago. He recognized me, was friendly and polite and a bit apologetic about "our" behaviour as kids. What else could he do? I was at the opera on a first night and he was there to pour us drinks. I could have humiliated him but of course I didn't. I hope he will remember me as friendly and polite as well.
 
Zeno Lorea said:
Now that you mention it, my secondary school bully had one or two also-rans who were all hat and no cattle. Tough-talking guys as long as he was there too. When he got suspended, they no longer dared to stand up to me and dropped out soon after anyway. Between the ages of 16 and 18 I was widely respected in school because of my own grades as well as my family's reputation.

Anyway, what you reminded me of is I also ran into one of those guys a few years ago. He recognized me, was friendly and polite and a bit apologetic about "our" behaviour as kids. What else could he do? I was at the opera on a first night and he was there to pour us drinks. I could have humiliated him but of course I didn't. I hope he will remember me as friendly and polite as well.
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Is he hot ? :lol:
 
Never bullied: just hunted on two occasions by the KKK. Does that count? Wasn't interested in direct contact, as you can imagine, so don't remember their names. And in high school, nobody picked on me, because even then, I was one of the most "built" (as we used to say) guys in my class. Besides, everyone knew that Blacks all carried knives in their pants pockets, so other than the "n" word, people didn't mess with any of us (14 Black kids between 9-12 grades and 1500 White kids).
I still like all these people: they were just a product of their parents' brainwashing. I see 'em at the class reunions and on Facebook. So, I know who the ones were who were prejudiced (that was the word we used in the 60s, when someone didn't like you for your skin color), but hey, that was their problem, and as long as they didn't make it mine (and they didn't), I was civil to them.
 
Harke the Boeotarch said:
Nobody in my life has treated me as badly as I deserve.
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Nobody but yourself.

peeonme said:
I know where they are, no one else does though....:lol:
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One ended up in jail, and another killed himself. I don’t miss either of them.
 
I don´t know.
I try to forget about them. Why do I need to remember it, if it´s past?
The bad actions made by bullies belong to them, not to the victims. The good part of it is that the victim has a capacity to be free, because it was not his choice, so, there is no guilt for the victims. So, the mistakes remain to the bullies, like marks on them.
 
You know...they've mostly faded to blur. They traveled in packs and I made the choice not dwell on the things they said to me. There was never any physical abuse. It was always verbal. Besides I saw everyone of them naked in the shower in 9th grade PE. Nothing impressive there.

I do remember my bully's name from 3rd grade. He wasn't just my bully he was everybody's bully. He had been held back and he was a year older than the rest of the class. And two years older than me.

I saw his name on facebook, seems he's Highway Patrolman these days.
 
I still find it hard to admit that I was bullied, before the 6th grade it was just the family, I was their target. How adults could get any pleasure from tormenting a 9 yr. old who's dad had just died is beyond me.
The worst one was my mothers half brother. He was in his 30's and homeless when my dad died and ended up on our couch for 3 long years. He never worked, my mother bought his cigarettes, his clothes and even spent $1900. on a car for him, that was a chunk of money in 1962.
He went on to steal my dad's wrist watches and some tools, all along tormenting me in any way that he could.
He died of lung cancer back in 1983, he was in his early 50's. What a sad life.
 
Looking at some of these remarks, I think I was a bully to a few people. I truly regretted it as I become older. I wish I could go back and apologize to them now. :(
 
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