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I agree with Lex, a quick email was a great sort of action. I dated a guy for three months and we fought a lot and I ended up breaking it off with him because "sorry" just didn't cut it anymore. I know he was truly sorry, enough was just enough. I know this isn't very reassuring, but it will just hurt you more to get your hopes up. The best thing you can ask for right now is to talk to him and get some closure about the relationship. But you are only 19, you have a long road ahead of you. If I didn't break up with him, I wouldn't have found the amazing guy I am in love with right now!!!

But I wish you good luck in your endeavors and if you ever need to chat you can hit me up :D
 
ucfknight12 said:
I agree with Lex, a quick email was a great sort of action. I dated a guy for three months and we fought a lot and I ended up breaking it off with him because "sorry" just didn't cut it anymore. I know he was truly sorry, enough was just enough. I know this isn't very reassuring, but it will just hurt you more to get your hopes up. The best thing you can ask for right now is to talk to him and get some closure about the relationship. But you are only 19, you have a long road ahead of you. If I didn't break up with him, I wouldn't have found the amazing guy I am in love with right now!!!

But I wish you good luck in your endeavors and if you ever need to chat you can hit me up :D
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Thank you. Just an update, it's been a full day and still no response. I really am starting to fear the worst. I guess it's something I knew was possilbe when sending the email.
 
I suspect this was just the excuse he needed to end the relationship...it was over in his mind before you even had the argument. What you did wasn't that bad...not bad enough to end a relationship over anyway...and besides, you apologized and admitted you were in the wrong. He was partially to blame for it too by ignoring you in the 1st place and then not being sensitive to your feelings. He is immature and a coward for texting you the break-up message...and then not replying back to your email. He's not the type of boyfriend you want or deserve (and his hag sounds like a real bitch too!)

It's sad that it's over...but now you've learned a lesson that you can apply to your future relationships...as well, know to look for someone that will be more considerate and mature.
 
>>>Thank you. Just an update, it's been a full day and still no response.

You've done what you need to do. Now take some time to feel miserable, and kick the walls, and play lousy music...then get up, get out there, and start again. And take along the lessons you've learned.

Lex
 
So I looked at his MySpace page and saw that his status said “feeling really sick.” I decided I’d show him I was thinking of him my making him some good ‘ol homemade chicken soup. Swung by his apartment, he wasn’t home. A friend suggested I call him, and I did. He answered, luckily, and said he could meet me later (although he was really hesitant about it).
When he said it was okay to go over, he asked that I wait downstairs. When he finally came down, he had all my things that I had left there. Needless to say my heart sank a little bit. I gave him the basket (I wasn’t sure what was wrong with him, so I included some teas, crystal light, throat lozenges, Advil PM, and a king sized Kit-Kat…since it’s his favorite). He started talking, and I’m not even really sure what he said (I was nervous and visibly shaking) but it went something along the lines of whatever he did he did because he loved me.
I was completely and totally speechless, and all I could say was “I hope you feel better” and left.
 
OK, no more soup, no more myspace/face book/text/phone/smoke signals/esp, no more accepting the blame, no more.

I don't see what you did as so terrible in the first place. Frankly it sounds like he wanted out, and would have pushed until he got a situation that he could blame on you.

Yes it sucks. So pick up your pride and walk. We've all been there, it's not the end of everything, you will find another guy.

You've done more than you should have - what with the soup and all, and now you just have to chalk this one up to experience.

Go wallow with a friend, have a few beers, stick a few dollars in some gogo boy's jock, find some no strings consolation, do something, anything that will distract you from sitting around by yourself.
 
I'm sorry that you are going through this :( But I have to agree, its time to move on... give him time and maybe one day he'll tell you true reasons as to why he ended it, but for now just go enjoy being single... I know its hard to take in, but TX is right... if you ever need to chat PM me
 
I concur. It's done. Stop waiting for a phone call, block/delete him on facebook, and start getting on with your life.

Lex
 
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