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ex is setting me up with an ex

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So my ex is setting me up with one of his exes. Things ended badly between them but he insists that we'd be perfect for each other and I've decided to let him set up a meeting/date between us.

Any thoughts?
 
landers said:
So my ex is setting me up with one of his exes. Things ended badly between them but he insists that we'd be perfect for each other and I've decided to let him set up a meeting/date between us.

Any thoughts?
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Might as well have coffee / date and see for yourself. No harm that I can see.
 
Just_Believe18 said:
Awkward...

Surely there are other men you can pursue?
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Normally I would agree with you but, I seem to have hit a bit of a dry spell. And it's not a complete blind date, we've been talking a little and I've seen his facebook.
 
Ignore the negative responses.

Everyone's life situation is unique.

Meet up with him and see what happens.

If the two of you did click though, you'd have to set some pretty firm boundries between the two of you and your common ex.
 
landers said:
Things ended badly between them but he insists that we'd be perfect for each other

Any thoughts?
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Hmmm. That could be taken a couple of ways!

Anyway, good luck. Let us know what you decide to do and, if you meet up with him, how it went.
 
Can of worms comes to mind at the thought.
 
josher said:
Ignore the negative responses.

Everyone's life situation is unique.

Meet up with him and see what happens.

If the two of you did click though, you'd have to set some pretty firm boundries between the two of you and your common ex.
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I've already set up some firm boundaries with the ex (from here on to be known as Ben), it was part of going from being in a relationship with him to just friends. I figured any additional boundaries needed would just be an extension of the ones already established.

averageguy said:
Hmmm. That could be taken a couple of ways!

Anyway, good luck. Let us know what you decide to do and, if you meet up with him, how it went.
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The prospective blind date (we'll call him Scott) is on vacation for another week so we won't be meeting until he gets back. But I'll let you guys know what happens with it either way.
 
volcom1206 said:
Call my cynical, but this sounds like Ben is getting back at you in some weird way with Scott. Either that or Ben is comparing you to a guy that is really a jerk (“things ended poorly but he insists that we are perfect for each other”).

No matter what the case, I would be intrigued. I guess there is no harm in trying, unless he really is an awful human being and you have heard bad stories from Ben about him.
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Ben listened to bad advice from a friend who as it turns out wanted to sleep with Ben and, based on that advice, Ben ended the relationship with Scott. I've thought that Ben might be trying to get back at me for something but, I honestly have no idea what that could be and it would be so out of character for him that I really don't think that's what's going on here. The more likely explanation is that Ben's trying to right some perceived wrong, probably the emotional damage he did to Scott and I when he broke up with us.
 
I MET SCOTT!!!

We arranged to meet for coffee near where we both live (turns out he lives about 10min from me) and actually had a great time. He's uber cute and really sweet. We got all matters concerning the mutual ex out of the way first and then just talked about random stuff, drifting from subject to subject until we realized how late it was. There wasn't an instantaneous spark but there was definitely more than I've ever felt on a first date before. Hopefully I'll get a second.
 
dont go. hide.
its like saying i dont want him.
you take it.
bad.bad.bad.
 
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