Exhibitionism and cheating

[willycocks]

I think if you really like him then you owe him honesty

if he is sharing his body with you then he deserves you to be completely open about what you do

if he finds out from someone other than you it could compromise things for you very much

you should be upfront and not going behind his back and 'semi cheating'

tell him

 

[misoho5]

It all depends

1.- we all have fantasies and they are (in most cases) healthy

2.- if it really bothers you not telling him, tell him, maybe he is ok with it

 

[CSI_3Stokes]

You could have sex on your web cam. Re phrasing you could fuck and point the web cam at you fucking.

 

[pinoy-pride]

well it doesn't seem like exhibitionism is cheating, just somewhat of a fetish and fantasy, there's nothing wrong with being turned on at the idea of people watching you get off, that's fairly common. you should share it with him though and see what he thinks.....

 

[evil_danger]

Share it with him, see what he says.

He might enjoy it, it could turn him on and maybe you could both do a cam show together.

He might not like it, but then why not put on shows for him, a bit of healthy roleplaying could be good here.

But if it bothers you not knowing then you have to tell him, besides if he finds out somewhere else he could be hurt.

 

[G-Lexington]

What is "cheating"? Let me put it really simply. If you're doing something of a sexual nature, and you don't want your boyfriend to find out about it, it's cheating.

If you sneak out late to give a friend a hug, that's cheating.

If you invite strangers into your house to give blowjobs to, but your boyfriend is kept abreast of these activities, that's not cheating.

So if your boyfriend knows you're camming, you're not cheating. If he doesn't, you are.

Should you do it anyway? Your choice. My personal thought is that you talk to him about it. How about if he WATCHES you cam, with him kept to the side so he's not on camera?

Lex

 

[landers]

What is "cheating"? Let me put it really simply. If you're doing something of a sexual nature, and you don't want your boyfriend to find out about it, it's cheating.

If you sneak out late to give a friend a hug, that's cheating.

If you invite strangers into your house to give blowjobs to, but your boyfriend is kept abreast of these activities, that's not cheating.

So if your boyfriend knows you're camming, you're not cheating. If he doesn't, you are.

Should you do it anyway? Your choice. My personal thought is that you talk to him about it. How about if he WATCHES you cam, with him kept to the side so he's not on camera?

Lex

I'd edit that definition a little bit to say that it's not cheating as long as your boyfriend knows you're doing it and is okay with it.

But I'd tell him either way that you like people watching you and see what he says.

 

[M4P]

But I'd tell him either way that you like people watching you and see what he says.

Keep in mind this could spell the end of your relationship

Be careful of what you wish for

 

[Seasoned]

Tell him what you like and get him to watch you on webcam or at the theater.