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Maybe its a sign. I came across a thread where a guy was looking to meet other married guys and it just pissed me off. But in that thread someone warned about being blackmailed. I am going thru a problem with a married guy right now and frankly I am now thinking of how to expose him.

I would not have dated him if I knew he had a wife and kids. I asked him once whether he was involved with someone else because he can be nervous and paranoid. And we never go out to regular places, only in the "gayborhood" where he won't be seen. I even think he has a separate gay phone. So I got suspicious and found out he has lied about so many things - his age, where he lives and works, even where he went to school.

Some will call me a psycho but I had to know so I went by his house - just watched it a few times. And I saw his wife (I assume) and kids. I would hate to hurt them, but they deserve to know.

I am not bold enough to just go knock on that door. And she would not believe me without evidence. So I have been collecting some.

I think it might be better to go to his job. I could just go and say I am there to have lunch with my boyfriend and see how he reacts.

What I don't want is money. That is too easy - and too illegal. No, I want him to face his family and friends and himself.

I just thought of a good way to expose him. I could appear at his church. I wonder if he even goes. He is such a hypocrite.
 
Perhaps I shouldn't comment since I've been absent from the boards for 2 years, but exposing someone who isn't ready or doesn't want to come out of the closet is as bad as anything he's done to make you upset with him in the first place.
 
Wow, so one guy thinks scams should not be reported and another thinks a guy who cheats on his wife and kids with a guy is a victim.

Boy, this gay thing is a racket. You guys have only convinced me that I must expose him. But I also realize that I need to have solid evidence - like a high res pic of him sucking cock.
 
Walk up to that house when you know she is there and he is not, rap on that door or ring the bell, and have a face to face conversation. Tell her who you are, and thought she should know that, and then share the evidence. It is time for him to man up.

Then move on. Hopefully, you are now a wiser man.
I hope you have a clear picture of you fucking his ass,
and the two of you in a kiss and embrace.
Shep+(!)(!)(!):wave:
 
Hot White Trash said:
Wow, so one guy thinks scams should not be reported and another thinks a guy who cheats on his wife and kids with a guy is a victim.

Boy, this gay thing is a racket. You guys have only convinced me that I must expose him. But I also realize that I need to have solid evidence - like a high res pic of him sucking cock.
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Actually, you are the one trying to turn him into a victim. Yes, what the guy is doing to you (and his family) is wrong. But do you want justice, or revenge?

If you want justice, make an anonymous call to his "wife" or send a letter explaining that she maybe needs to have a talk with her husband.

If you want revenge (to hurt him) you are no better than he is. I don't condone his cheating, but to strike back out of spite (when you can more easily walk away with a lesson learned - be a bit more cautious in your hook ups) is just as despicable as cheating. He's an asshole, don't turn yourself into a bitch because of it.
 
Shepherd 2 said:
Walk up to that house when you know she is there and he is not, rap on that door or ring the bell, and have a face to face conversation. Tell her who you are, and thought she should know that, and then share the evidence. It is time for him to man up.

Then move on. Hopefully, you are now a wiser man.
I hope you have a clear picture of you fucking his ass,
and the two of you in a kiss and embrace.
Shep+(!)(!)(!):wave:
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Honestly, I could never do that. As much as it sounds like I want or love drama, I do not (I don't even watch so-called reality tv). I would confront him in private but truthfully I would be afraid of it turning violent and either way a fight goes would not be good. So the best I can do is confront him either at work or at another public place like church.

Writing this stuff out helps. I have a clearer head now, not fucked up by emotion. Its a matter of right and wrong and adultery/infidelity is wrong and in some states a crime.
 
Since there are kids involved, I would definitely drop it and drop him. Don't be the homewrecker here, let him do it himself no matter how wrong you think he is. I recall my parents divorce when I was young and the experience was not something I would wish on any family. My happy little world came to a screeching halt over the course of one summer. The circumstances were different, but the end result I'm sure would be the same for their kids.
 
Hot White Trash said:
Maybe its a sign. I came across a thread where a guy was looking to meet other married guys and it just pissed me off. But in that thread someone warned about being blackmailed. I am going thru a problem with a married guy right now and frankly I am now thinking of how to expose him.

I would not have dated him if I knew he had a wife and kids. I asked him once whether he was involved with someone else because he can be nervous and paranoid. And we never go out to regular places, only in the "gayborhood" where he won't be seen. I even think he has a separate gay phone. So I got suspicious and found out he has lied about so many things - his age, where he lives and works, even where he went to school.

Some will call me a psycho but I had to know so I went by his house - just watched it a few times. And I saw his wife (I assume) and kids. I would hate to hurt them, but they deserve to know.

Revenge is a boomerang

I am not bold enough to just go knock on that door. And she would not believe me without evidence. So I have been collecting some.

I think it might be better to go to his job. I could just go and say I am there to have lunch with my boyfriend and see how he reacts.

What I don't want is money. That is too easy - and too illegal. No, I want him to face his family and friends and himself.

I just thought of a good way to expose him. I could appear at his church. I wonder if he even goes. He is such a hypocrite.
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Revenge is the worst adviser ever. Once you will regret having taken revenge. Leave that guy alone. Revenge usually turns against you and you don't know how it will happen and when. One of his children or other family can feel so hurt they take revenge after 20 years. Revenge ALWAYS leads to revenge. That's useless.
 
You have to be realistic. Firstly, if you expose him anomously or publicy, he will know that you are the one who did it and you may be subject to physical retaliation/harm. You cannot throw the rock and hide your hand.

Life is not a soap opera where people learn the truth and just faint or slap somebody's face. If you ruin someone's life, with or without justification, you must anticipate the very real possibility of a boot (or bullet) between the eyes.

That's just how things are these days.
 
Be careful there.You're talking about destroying this guys life and outing him to his family..Not that the guy isn't a coward and a douche,but is it really your place? Some people might flip out over something like that and you may end up hurt.Is this guy worth getting shot over when his wife serves him with divorce papers?

Just wash your hands of him and move on.He'll trip himself up sooner or later,without help from you..
 
i agree with the pimp, this is NOT a soap opera where you get to move on.
you need to take the high road here, if he's cheating on his wife with you who is he cheating on you with? you would only make yourself look foolish by trying to out him at work or church and open yourself up to a lawsuit maybe.

just drop him cold and if he asks why then say let's discuss it over dinner with your wife. i'm sure that will be the last you hear from him.

don't be the stereotypical crazy queen, just don't[-X
 
The wife needs to know. If you haul tail without notice, he'll just find another plaything and the web of lies and deceit continues. He could possibly bring home a STD.

If y'all were in the wife's shoes, you'd want to know that your husband is not only cheating on you (possibly with more than one guy before), but is gay/bisexual.

For those saying protect the kids, we don't know if they have a happy marriage. They could be bickering daily. A hostile home is not one to raise children in. He's gonna slip up one day; he can't hide his secret life forever. Divorce or a gigantic disturbance in their marraige is inevitable.

But for your physical safety, it may be best to just leave him be. Things could go from a soap opera to a Lifetime movie fast.

I say tell the wife anoynmously. You said he's with you in the gayborhood. If he asks you, just say someone from there could've told her. You guys are in public, surrounded by crowds of people. There's a chance at least one person knows his wife.
 
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