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Two weeks ago I went with a friend to a gay party. His boyfriend couldnt come so he asked me to chaperone him. Im not that into the gay scene that much but I thought what the hell.

At the party it was very busy, and of course he was flirting away and left me to my own devices, I was getting bored so I talked to some random guys untill I spotted the most gorgeous guy, and I mean gorgeous, model material so to say. I thought, why not, and chatted with him a bit. Only for a minute because he was on his way out with some of his friends (girls).

After some time my friend and I decided to hit another bar before going home, and of course mr. gorgeous is there as well. I ignored him a bit, but he comes up to me and we talked some more, then he asked me outside and we kissed. He asked if I was interested and my morals gave way and we went to his place, or so I thought.

While walking he says to me that he lives with his mom so we need to find a hotel (I live in another city) we eventually grab a taxi and take a room in quite an expensive hotel (I was too horny to object).

In the room we get to business, shower together, have sex 4 times that night (not safe btw but we both were tested recently, still stupid I know). We slept in each others arms untill he had to leave to work. He is a manager in a clothing store. I walk with him untill we are in front of the store and he, on his own initiative gave me his tel. number. His phone was dead so I told him I would text him later so he would have my nr as well.

In the train back home I wanted to text him, but I found out that somehow I didnt save his nr correctly! I could die!

The next day I try googling him, first name and name of the clothing store, and I got a hit. I checked on facebook whether he was the real deal and sent him a message, that I lost his nr. and a friendship request.

Within half an hour I found out that he blocked me on FB! And I havent heard from him since.

Do you think I scared him off by sending a message, or was he too embaressed to face me, or didnt like the date as much (but then why offer your tel nr?) Im quite confused and dont know really what to do... Should I visit him in his workplace? Or try to contact him in another way to find out what went wrong?
 
Well, you had a hot night. It was what it was. More than likely it was a one-night stand. The signs are saying that it probably all it was.

Go get STD testing. Keep your fingers crossed.

Enjoy the memories but it's probably time to move on.
 
Maybe he was cheating on someone and did not want the person who he was cheating with show up on a public page...
 
You didn't scare him off by sending the message. He may have been cheating. You could ask your friend if he knows him or knows someone who does. I'd be interested in getting his story if it's easy to do. I wouldn't show up at his job.

Get tested and always be prepared with condoms.
 
I think it's possible you scared him off. Maybe he's just a private person. I've hooked up with guys I've met on grindr only to be ignored after the fact. I don't understand it, but it happens. Maybe he regrets it or he was just looking for a hook up. Maybe you'll see him again. It is his kind of fault for telling you of the place he works at :p Next time make sure you save the number correctly.
 
I guess you guys are right, and I should leave it at that what it was: a one night stand. I only had the impression it could be more, but maybe he was cheating, could be I guess..

I dont go to that city a lot, so my chances of running in to him are slim... I wish I wasn't that emotionally attached.

Thanks for your advice guys, and btw I got tested and Im fine.
 
Maybe he didn't give you the correct number in the first place.
 
Well it still bugged me, so I did some snooping around. And I found out that... the guy has a boyfriend who was away on vacation.

Somehow this does not bother me at all, and I actually feel relieved this experience ended badly had nothing to do with me.

I'm also glad you guys stopped me from going to his store, he would have been too embaressed. On the other hand I guess he deserves a bit of embaressment, lol
 
So he really was/is a cheater. Good thing it was just a one-night stand and you didn't get involved any further.
 
Maybe you SHOULD confront him. I know I would. I would've wanted to know his reasons.
 
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