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Facebook FAG?

Plus if music alone made you a fag, you would be the gayest one in the village.
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*points out how you essentially called him a fag right back.*

not exactly using gay in a positive sense here are you, that's sure to send a strong message on how you feel about homophobic language.
 
Given that people have their own preference in word usage, in this kinda society...you kinda have to develop a thick skin. I also don't like that word... I wouldn't even call it upon someone else. I'd think of many other expletives though XD

But going back to the topic, there are a lot of us who are struggling to be comfortable in our own skins. Just remember that not everyone understands that struggle especially if the person is straight and never had any thoughts of being gay. Next time, just take a breath and keep your cool. Lots of people like to push buttons. Just breathe.
 
Whether you're bisexual or gay, either way you're attracted to guys and you'll eventually have to wake up and smell the coffee if you want to have a fulfilling relationship (with either a male or a female) and live a happy life.

A response like you made to a friend who teased you about being gay, probably in jest as guys tend to do to other guys, will only make it harder for you when you do eventually decide that you've wasted enough time being insecure and want to step out of the proverbial closet.

If he is an amazing friend as you suggested, is this not an ideal opportunity to set the record straight and say 'you know what - you're right, kidding aside yes I am gay. As my friend I would appreciate it if you tried to support me with that and for the record I don't appreciate you calling me a FAG'?

So in answer to your question 'was this an appropriate reply?' - it depends on what purpose it was meant to serve.

Have a think about where you want to be in a few years time, it might help you to start thinking about how to get there by making a few small steps now. Best of luck :-)
 
I've been hoping we'd get an update that the OP had apologized to his 'friend' and that they'd had a real talk about all of this.

I doubt, though, that the OP actually paid attention to any posts that didn't validate his behaviour.
 
I think it was appropriate, a bit too serious because it's missing a ";P", but equally insulting. It's not clear if the guy knew that the OP is gay. Or bi. Hmm... how can a bisexual person be offended by being called gay if he can prove that he's still into women?
 
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