Blueboy369
JUB Addict
Hello Boys,
I need some advice. I have recently found out that my uncle, who owns a home with a few apartments, has been renting an apartment out to the woman who broke up my mothers first marriage many years ago. My parents have each remarried other people and this woman is my fathers ex. My father (and I use therm loosely) stayed close to my uncle and apparently has taken advantage of my uncles kindness and moved this woman and my half brother to my uncles home. I was also kept in the dark by my father (what a piece of work) and my favorite uncle for at least three years. This is my mothers favorite brother and the fact that he and my father have hidden this from us is very hurtful to me. They should have just said the truth from the beginning. My uncle can rent to anyone he pleases and doesn't need anyone's permission. The issue is in the lie and cover up of the situation. My dilemma is, do I tell my mother and risk damaging her relationship with her brother? My father is really the orcestrator of this "bag of shit". On a side note, my fathers ex has been nothing but kind to me and I care about her well being. She is not doing well health wise and my half brother is living there too. I don't want to rock the boat but no one is more important to me than my mother. I hate to feel like I'm keeping anyone's secret from her. It's a hard decision because I love all parties involved. Expose the truth and risk burning a bridge between my mother and her brother or back away slowly and not allow my fathers and uncles drama to affect my mothers life. Spare her feelings or spill the tea?
I need some advice. I have recently found out that my uncle, who owns a home with a few apartments, has been renting an apartment out to the woman who broke up my mothers first marriage many years ago. My parents have each remarried other people and this woman is my fathers ex. My father (and I use therm loosely) stayed close to my uncle and apparently has taken advantage of my uncles kindness and moved this woman and my half brother to my uncles home. I was also kept in the dark by my father (what a piece of work) and my favorite uncle for at least three years. This is my mothers favorite brother and the fact that he and my father have hidden this from us is very hurtful to me. They should have just said the truth from the beginning. My uncle can rent to anyone he pleases and doesn't need anyone's permission. The issue is in the lie and cover up of the situation. My dilemma is, do I tell my mother and risk damaging her relationship with her brother? My father is really the orcestrator of this "bag of shit". On a side note, my fathers ex has been nothing but kind to me and I care about her well being. She is not doing well health wise and my half brother is living there too. I don't want to rock the boat but no one is more important to me than my mother. I hate to feel like I'm keeping anyone's secret from her. It's a hard decision because I love all parties involved. Expose the truth and risk burning a bridge between my mother and her brother or back away slowly and not allow my fathers and uncles drama to affect my mothers life. Spare her feelings or spill the tea?
