Fantasizing about anal

[rs1234]

Hey what's up. New around here. Just looking for general thoughts/advice.

I've always identified myself as straight. Always had crushes on girls growing up; never checked out guys out on the street, but a hot girl would make my head turn; never felt an emotional connection to a guy, etc. But over the last few years I've definitely had a lot of sexual fantasies about guys. BTW I'm not trying to figure out if I'm bi, gay, straight, or whatever. I don't really care about labels. I'm probably bi--or "heteroflexible"--but that's not what this thread is about.

Thinking about taking a cock in my ass makes me crazy horny. I think a lot of it is the idea of surrendering to another guy like that. Like maybe I'm on my back with my legs in the air, grabbing my ankles, when he comes on top of me and we start to fuck. The thought of just letting go and submitting to the pleasure, while our bodies grind together, while looking deep into each others eyes while he enters inside of me is so freaking erotic. Just writing this is making me really hard

So I think I'd like to try this, but I want to be safe and not get any diseases or anything. I'd probably do this out of town on a business trip or something, so I can experiment where no one knows me. Should I post an ad on craig's list? Check out a gay bar? Check out ads somewhere else on the web? How do you meet a normal, dude for NSA sex?

Do you think I should shave my hole and clean myself out with an enema? Should I shave anything else? Although I don't body shave, I am naturally not a very hairy guy, which some guys might like.

Also, I would never do this without the other guy wearing a condom. I'm scared of like the condom falling off and either the guy doesn't notice or doesn't tell me. Is this a very unlikely scenario and am I being overly paranoid?

I'm still fairly young (mid 20s), work out a lot and keep myself in shape, so I think there's guys that would be willing to help me out with my fantasy

Feel free to comment about specific questions I had. Or if you just have comments in general, that's cool too.

 

[palemale]

I think the general view is that Craig's list is a bit skanky. You might want to join an on-line site like Manhunt, Adam4Adam or gaydar.

 

[Darkflower]

Have you ever "practiced" before?

Along with cleaning yourself up inside (I think the Health and Wellbeing forum here has suggestions for preparing to be penetrated), I was just thinking you might want to get a smallish Dildo and/or butt plug and some lube, and get some practice opening yourself up back there.

 

[FlaMan]

clean myself out with an enema?..most definitely unless you want a big smelly surprise. yes I think you are being overly paranoid..condoms are not 100% safe and sometimes they get a small tear in them and yet you may never see it..and if you are distracted by thinking the condom is going to come off then you wont be enJoying the good ass fucking you are wanting so much.but its a whole lots safer than BB..and dont shave..just place an ad on craigslist or Men4Sex Now (pic also) stating exactly what you are wanting to do and I am sure some guy will answer...although if going out of town to do this you really should take a few precautions since you know nothing about the guy...If you talk by phone make sure to write his number down and put it where it can be found..address is good to if you can get it..I use to go so far as to look as to look at his car tag and then call myself with the number...dont let any of this scare you but remember a few safety rules on your part..and dont be afraid to say No and walk away..but do say it kindly! And if ever iN Tampa Fl area I would be very happy to help you with your "need"...and send you back home smiling and sore..

 

[mbamike]

I was in your situation at the beginning of this year. I had long fantasied about getting fucked by another guy.

I read all of could about the subject; this site was a big help. Then I decided to do it.

I opened accounts on Manhunt.net and Adam4Adam.com. I decided I would do the deed when I was out-of-town on a business trip.

I told the guys that replied to me that I was a "gay virgin." Some rejected me, but I found a guy who was willing to pop my cherry ass.

I cleaned myself out with a Fleet enema before we fucked. It was great! We kissed and embraced just as if I was in bed with a girl. I sucked his cock, another first for me.

The hookup was supposed to have been for one night, but we ended up spending the entire weekend together, except when I was in meetings.


I hope this helps! Good luck!

 

[cklover]

My advice is just do it. You won't regret it. Sucking a cock and taking a cock in your ass is the most wonderful experience you will ever have. Also take note of the advice given above my post. There is one thing to remember though; once you experience your first man to man sex you will want more and more.

 

[prudyprudestein]

You must satisfy you anal urges before you chicken out. You will enjoy it with a guy who takes his time and makes sure you're satisfied. I am sure you'll enjoy it a lot.

 

[rs1234]

Darkflower-Yes, I've practiced before. I've stuck a toy up there before. I don't do it very often, but when I have it felt awesome. It's helped me have some of my most intense orgasms.

cklver-that's kind of what I'm afraid of haha. I'll do it once and it will be really intense. Then I'll be thinking about when I'll do it again all the time.

 

[heat10]

I first tried anal w/a guy this past summer and it's ok for me. He rims me, which feels great, and then fingers me a bit and then fucks me. Maybe it's the angle, but we're still looking for the one that just feels awesome.

The first time he fucked me, I was on my knees and he was going in and out and then he had me lay down and he mounted me again from the back and started again slowly. That motion, plus my cock rubbing on the towel I was on, I had a super intense cumfest. Felt awesome! I'd say try it, but be safe.

 

[bike10]

The first time one sucks cock is total delight and getting your cock sucked by a guy or guys. When cums to cock sucking it guys who know how to deliver the best oral delights.
When it comes to fuck take time as said to clean out take shower with your buddy. Watch as much gay porn to see how guys fuck. It will be one great feeling the first time and you will be back for more. Don't foreget those condoms.

 

[cesco]

I agree!!!!!!!!
Cock is like Doritos....you cant just have one.....my first assfuck was incredible and it still makes my heart beat. holding a lovers swollencock in your mouth when he comes has no substitute....GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!

My advice is just do it. You won't regret it. Sucking a cock and taking a cock in your ass is the most wonderful experience you will ever have. Also take note of the advice given above my post. There is one thing to remember though; once you experience your first man to man sex you will want more and more.