Man this forum is miserable. I've been on here a few years, never really posted much- but please, you guys are like the cess pool of the gay community in many ways. Get off the internet, get a life- and stop all the goddamn, self-inflicted WHINING. Yeah, being gay men made you different. And it sucks and it feels weird. But it's your faults you're staying this way. Grab your own balls, be a man, or nobody else will find you sexy either.
1. Stop pining after straight guys or guys you can't have. It's annoying. Do you *like* emotionally torturing yourselves? When entering a relationship it should be about what you can do to help one another, not how far he throws a football. A big reason why you can't find love is you're too busy worrying about how much of a man he's acting like.
2. Stop thinking that anything in life comes easy and free, including healthy same-sex relationships. Well you know you're gay. But society doesn't owe you anything. I'm sorry real life can't be like some gay disney movie where everything perfect fucking happens. Yeah homophobia sucks. But... well, what are you gonna do? Whine and be emo the rest of your lives about it, or are you gonna continue your lives? Are you gonna internalize society's shame or are you going to assertively fight back the best you can? You can't help society get used to your gay ass if you're just on the internet all the time, or if you won't come out- you just like to play secret kissy-kissies with your straight friends.
3. Because of how society is, you have to help yourselves and be more independent minded than straight people usually, as no sadly- your relationships won't be beefed up or coddled as much as theirs. But if you're really in love, why should that matter? Or is it really just a lust thing hmm? Look you can't act like you're on the side of righteousness and equality by wasting yourselves away underground in some sort of weird sex thing.
4. The gay porn fantasy and straight guy worship are just a natural evolution of coming out. I could post the details why but it doesn't matter. Understand it's just a phase, and learn to move on from them by interacting with all types of guys in REALITY. You are not a gay porn fantasy, you are you- and learn to find out who you really are, instead of a fucking media image. It's all part of growing up. DO NOT ACT LIKE DAFFYD FROM 'LITTLE BRITAIN.'
5. Gay voices are fine. Men that walk gay, talk gay and can't catch or throw are fine in the world. Leave it alone. You can actually *gasp* learn to find them sexy. Because sexuality doesn't exist in a vacuum. You are still obligated to treat people ethically even in a sexual contract. A real human being isn't some sick fantasy you have.
6. I've been with every type of gay porn fantasy before. And they're boring, and selfish.
7. Wake up. Stop being slow suicides. What would Larry Kramer say to you if he saw you now? Live every day as if it was your last, and be bold , adventerous. Things will come in time. But not until you work or try. Don't be a typical fag that just gives up. Like Dan Savage did, strangle that weak insecure faggot deep down in your spirits and let the TRUE YOU shine forth.
8. Instead of worrying about your next sexual thrill (that will come naturally) worry about how you can help yourself and help make the world a better place.
That's all. You basically know what to do. So stop all the goddamn fucking whining already. You're fine. You're just gay. Post something positive/contructive. Not just a whine. And I'll end on that note 'whining about whining' so you can see how ridiciulous you're being.
Take care of yourselves, and each other.
My time on the internet and these gay forums must cease. Enough already. I have to ascend to meet a higher echeleon of gay men.
1. Stop pining after straight guys or guys you can't have. It's annoying. Do you *like* emotionally torturing yourselves? When entering a relationship it should be about what you can do to help one another, not how far he throws a football. A big reason why you can't find love is you're too busy worrying about how much of a man he's acting like.
2. Stop thinking that anything in life comes easy and free, including healthy same-sex relationships. Well you know you're gay. But society doesn't owe you anything. I'm sorry real life can't be like some gay disney movie where everything perfect fucking happens. Yeah homophobia sucks. But... well, what are you gonna do? Whine and be emo the rest of your lives about it, or are you gonna continue your lives? Are you gonna internalize society's shame or are you going to assertively fight back the best you can? You can't help society get used to your gay ass if you're just on the internet all the time, or if you won't come out- you just like to play secret kissy-kissies with your straight friends.
3. Because of how society is, you have to help yourselves and be more independent minded than straight people usually, as no sadly- your relationships won't be beefed up or coddled as much as theirs. But if you're really in love, why should that matter? Or is it really just a lust thing hmm? Look you can't act like you're on the side of righteousness and equality by wasting yourselves away underground in some sort of weird sex thing.
4. The gay porn fantasy and straight guy worship are just a natural evolution of coming out. I could post the details why but it doesn't matter. Understand it's just a phase, and learn to move on from them by interacting with all types of guys in REALITY. You are not a gay porn fantasy, you are you- and learn to find out who you really are, instead of a fucking media image. It's all part of growing up. DO NOT ACT LIKE DAFFYD FROM 'LITTLE BRITAIN.'
5. Gay voices are fine. Men that walk gay, talk gay and can't catch or throw are fine in the world. Leave it alone. You can actually *gasp* learn to find them sexy. Because sexuality doesn't exist in a vacuum. You are still obligated to treat people ethically even in a sexual contract. A real human being isn't some sick fantasy you have.
6. I've been with every type of gay porn fantasy before. And they're boring, and selfish.
7. Wake up. Stop being slow suicides. What would Larry Kramer say to you if he saw you now? Live every day as if it was your last, and be bold , adventerous. Things will come in time. But not until you work or try. Don't be a typical fag that just gives up. Like Dan Savage did, strangle that weak insecure faggot deep down in your spirits and let the TRUE YOU shine forth.
8. Instead of worrying about your next sexual thrill (that will come naturally) worry about how you can help yourself and help make the world a better place.
That's all. You basically know what to do. So stop all the goddamn fucking whining already. You're fine. You're just gay. Post something positive/contructive. Not just a whine. And I'll end on that note 'whining about whining' so you can see how ridiciulous you're being.
Take care of yourselves, and each other.
My time on the internet and these gay forums must cease. Enough already. I have to ascend to meet a higher echeleon of gay men.
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