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Fat-guy Fetish

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This is aimed at pretty much everyone, but with an emphasis on big guys.

I'm a large guy and I've started to find that in the bear community, big guys are often times treated like a commodity. Many times, I've found myself feeling less like another part of a friendship/relationship/conversation and more like the tool for someone to fulfill their fat-guy fetish. I'm sure that's not what these men want to convey, but sometimes it's down right objectifying.

Has this kind of feeling crossed anyone else's brain as well?

Chris.
 
Everyone gets objectified on the bear/chub scene - that's kind of the whole point!Whether one's into chubby,muscles,hairy,leather etc it's all about the physical on the scene,esp at bear runs,clubs etc
 
I'm well aware of the shallowness of humanity. I am. I'm certainly not immune to the effects of that. I guess it's just always shocking to me when it does happen.
 
Women have felt the same why for as long as they have been around. Sometimes when something is attractive some men ( and some women ) treat it as a prize. I admit that i have thought of guys that I am really attracted to, as my god given fuck-meat. I have always tried to think of the subjects of my attraction as people and distinct individuals but some times i have slipped. Luckily I have never actually treated some one that way yet.
 
Maybe I do not mind being a sex object sometimes, but I do want to experience intimacy on long term basis, as well, which is hard to get into.
 
bullpupuk said:
i dont see a problem here....i quite like being a sex object!
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I think what he is trying to day is he is tired of one-word conversation. He is looking for some human substance somewhere. He's tired boring and shallow people that cannot seem to carry on an intelligent conversation. I totally get it.
 
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