Ok, so finally another development! I did what you said, I slipped him some tongue yesterday, and...................... He reciprocated!! I actually can't believe it. It doesn't even seem real! It was quite a short kiss but I don't care! Last night when I went to bed, a rested my hands on his hips, and didn't move away when I was getting hard.
We still haven't said a word about it to one another lol so it's like it's not happening! I think I have seen enough signs now to go in for the kill, so tonight when we are lying there, I am going to try just reaching over and easing off his thong to see what happens
Wish me luck!!