Those of us who have tasted the pleasures of both homosexual and heterosexual long-term relationships can be genuinely happy for those who do settle down, for those who find that long-sought happy place. I suspect that when that happens we find that we have to stay on one side or the other of the sexual orientation scale.
I am a happily married man and a faithful husband but the memory of my about eight years in long-term relationships that included three men and one lady is still very sharp. I would feel very guilty if I were to engage in any sex with a man,or a woman for that matter, outside my present marriage. I don't cheat and I don't admire cheaters. Some of us are not accepting of anything that strays from strict monogamy. Is it hard to be that way? It hasn't been for me, but I was just as faithful with my homosexual partners. "Forsaking all others" represents a commitment that one would make only to that person one wants to spend the rest of one's life with.
I can listen to the various arrangements that other bisexual men have made and I do wish them success. It would be inappropriate for me to judge and I don't. I do think it is probably helpful for those who are younger than I and facing the inevitable choices that we all have to make to know that there is at least one man who has no regrets.
Once I had experienced the joy of male-to-male sexual bonding built on the solid foundation of an enduring friendshp/love bonding, I begam to wish that others might also discover that part of their sexuality. Personally, I don't think it can happen if one is satisfied with a multitude of partners in for fun only hook-ups.
Love invites commitment; no, that's putting it too weakly; love demands commitment.
Sex is too great to ever allow it to become a hassle.
Peace!
I am a happily married man and a faithful husband but the memory of my about eight years in long-term relationships that included three men and one lady is still very sharp. I would feel very guilty if I were to engage in any sex with a man,or a woman for that matter, outside my present marriage. I don't cheat and I don't admire cheaters. Some of us are not accepting of anything that strays from strict monogamy. Is it hard to be that way? It hasn't been for me, but I was just as faithful with my homosexual partners. "Forsaking all others" represents a commitment that one would make only to that person one wants to spend the rest of one's life with.
I can listen to the various arrangements that other bisexual men have made and I do wish them success. It would be inappropriate for me to judge and I don't. I do think it is probably helpful for those who are younger than I and facing the inevitable choices that we all have to make to know that there is at least one man who has no regrets.
Once I had experienced the joy of male-to-male sexual bonding built on the solid foundation of an enduring friendshp/love bonding, I begam to wish that others might also discover that part of their sexuality. Personally, I don't think it can happen if one is satisfied with a multitude of partners in for fun only hook-ups.
Love invites commitment; no, that's putting it too weakly; love demands commitment.
Sex is too great to ever allow it to become a hassle.
Peace!
