feelings and sex

[lapafrax]

How would you describe the feeling of anal sex?

 

[aussieduo]

Heavenly if done properly, hellish if not

 

[slobone]

Top or bottom? It's two different things, innit?

 

[cynicus]

Is it Elvin who sometimes says, "Oh, oh. I opened the wrong thread"? Ditto.

 

[pjlikesporn]

pain giving way to the ultimate pleasure. how can something that hurts so much hurt so good?

 

[Andreus]

hmm

I feel incredibly connected when I am inside someone or when someone is inside of me

as a bottom, I feel really proud to be giving a man so much pleasure and having him take that pleasure from my body is intoxicating... it overrides the physical pain with such intense mental joy that it is incredible

as a top, i feel both empowered and greatfull that someone is giving me something so wonderfull. I feel like i have been given the oportunity to make both of us feel wonderfull

 

[Lube]

pain giving way to the ultimate pleasure. how can something that hurts so much hurt so good?

Ack! Don't tell me it still hurts after doing it a while.

I may give up my 'conditioning' experiments.

 

[cynicus]

Jack Hart says in his book Gay Sex that "Most gay men have no interest in anal douches. But some prefer to fuck a partner who's just had an anal douche because it eliminates most contact with fecal matter. Others like to have one before being fucked. It's merely a matter of preference" (p. 81). In another place he says, "A good fuck can get messy. You and your partner may both want to shower afterwards" (p. 17). This is information that did not make my day, but I am curious about how men feel, pro and con, about various messes. I cannot imagine not having a pile of, oh say, a dozen towels right handy and I know how I would feel about it.

But being somewhat sheltered and totally inexperienced in anal intercourse, what would I know about it?

 

[Andreus]

I just use the bathroom right before and keep a box of cottonelle wet wipes handy for right after...

really it has never been a big issue... most guys I have been with have been really clean in there

 

[operafan]

Yep, I'll go along with the comment of feeling really connected. (Which we are, of course.) It gives me so much pleasure to be fucked and to have him playing with my dick or tits - it's a lot of feeling going on all at the same time. Since I want lots of things going on, I almost never doggie style because I don't feel as connected.

 

[puka-pride]

i dunno how to explain it.. every inch of my body tingles and I can't seem to be able to get control... spasming... moaning... its like a teasing every part of me at once... it feels so good its almost too much to handle.. but you never want it to stop...

 

[luminum]

Being vulnerable in all the good ways.

I'd also agree with puka's assesment.

 

[Teddybear71]

As a top, I'd say it feels pretty darn good! It's an extremely powerful sensation to be so intimate with your partner...

In fact, I'd love some now, haha! Guess I'm just very horny tonight!

 

[TonyComstock]

Pain? Either your partner is hung like a pony or you're not doing it right.

 

[Andreus]

Pain? Either your partner is hung like a pony or you're not doing it right.

or both...lol

I am on the large size and I tell a new sex partner to just give me five minutes to help them get into it

if it hurts really bad after five minutes, its not going to work at all

 

[MidnightPrism]

if it hurts really bad after five minutes, its not going to work at all

You give up too easily. If at first you don't succeed try, try again

 

[Christopherb36]

A Thin Line Between Love And Hate

 

[goldfinchca]

It is so fine when someone you care for is inside...and lies still....hard...you seem to feel his entire body and soul inside you...not moving....breathing on the back of your neck....and then...ahhh.

 

[dolphwasser]

It can be the closest of connections - becoming one together - bodies joined and flesh together. The feeling of skin to skin, the sharing of motion, and the sharing of love.

It can also be the utmost form of degrading punishment if not done with kindness and caring.

 

[bayern20]

Since I dont have much experience..is it a normal occurence to spot things on the condom after you get out?