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The tooth is irrelevant. Are you just looking for excuses or do you really think he could be so shallow?
 
3nipples said:
The tooth is irrelevant. Are you just looking for excuses or do you really think he could be so shallow?
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Well, you can't suck dick with a broken, jagged tooth in your mouth.


And would YOU naturally flirt with someone if you saw a busted tooth every time they smiled?
 
On the tooth problem, call your dentist. Most will work out some type of payment for dental emergencies. If he (or she) put it in, he may even do the repair free of charge. If he doesn't offer at least a discount, pick up the phone and call around. You can also check with your county or city health services to see if they offer any type of dental services. Don't let it go or the problem will become far worse. Right now they can probably just glue it back on. If you wait, you may need a whole new cap.

Don't let a broken tooth hold you back. Get some alone time with him and see where things go.
 
Nomenclature said:
Well, you can't suck dick with a broken, jagged tooth in your mouth.


And would YOU naturally flirt with someone if you saw a busted tooth every time they smiled?
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Well I thought this was about meeting him outside of work to get to know him better, maybe become friends and maybe more... and a broken tooth would be irrelevant...

but I realize I was just assuming, as you never actually stated that intention... you just think he may be interested in you and that makes you think you have a chance to maybe fuck him... well fair enough...

for what it's worth, yes, I would flirt with someone with a broken tooth. Why the hell wouldn't I?
 
3nipples said:
Well I thought this was about meeting him outside of work to get to know him better, maybe become friends and maybe more... and a broken tooth would be irrelevant...

but I realize I was just assuming, as you never actually stated that intention... you just think he may be interested in you and that makes you think you have a chance to maybe fuck him... well fair enough...
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A) You're all implying that I should hook up with him. I'm just saying that would be impossible now.


B) I can't even eat or drink anything anymore. How can I possibly go out anywhere to lunch like it was suggested previously?



for what it's worth, yes, I would flirt with someone with a broken tooth. Why the hell wouldn't I?
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Because you wouldn't sleep with absolutely anything.
 
I'm not really thinking that this broken tooth should be the be all and end all. If you explain to him what happened and perhaps invite him to see a movie with you then you can still cultivate a friendship and perhaps more. I would hope that he wouldn't be so shallow as to reject you because of a temporary issue.
 
Just about the only update for now is that I have, in fact, gotten my tooth taken care of, and I HAVE been trying to talk to him since. . .but he's always either very tired and stressed out from work, and just not in a good enough mood to talk, or - like earlier tonight - EXTREMELY shy.

It's kinda pissing me off, because for the longest time, he was so talky, and touchy-feely with me. . .and now he either acts like i'm not even there, or he fucking hides from me behind the counter, and seems to die of embarrassment when I try to get him involved in the conversation, or make the slightest "Hi, I noticed you" sort of observation to him/about him.



I hate that this is fucking with my head; I just want a clear answer on whether or not the "signals" I was getting actually even meant anything, or if it was all just some kind of misunderstanding in my head. I'd even be able to put all of this at rest if I found out he's straight, or gay and not interested in me as a friend or anything like that.





Fffffffuuuuuuuuuuuu-
 
Perhaps if you had made a move earlier, you wouldn't be in this situation.
 
Congratulations on getting your tooth fixed. I know that took some doing on your part, but I'm sure it was worth it.

While your tooth was broken did you shy away from him a bit? My guess is that he may be feeling just like you; not sure what to make of the signals and wish it would stop fucking with his head. He's probably trying to protect his own feelings by keeping a little distance.

Now is the time to follow my earlier advice about finding some activities that you can causally ask him to join in outside of work. The key is getting some alone time with him. I'm sure if you put your mind to it, you can make it happen. Good luck!
 
or if it was all just some kind of misunderstanding in my head.
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It was all just a misunderstanding in your head from what I read.
 
"I don't have time for girls", that's what I would say to my co-workers lol.

From that description he sounds so gay. Every young straight man has time for girls...and if they don't, guess what? They don't want girls.

You'll just have to be friends with him so he can trust you enough to tell you he likes dick :).
 
prince123 said:
Anything new today ?
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Well, since you asked:


For a little over a week now, everyone in the store noticed that he's been acting. . .weird; He's distant and not himself lately, and he HAS been called out on it. I know him a little better now than I did before, and i've noticed that when he's upset, he acts like certain people never even existed, and he'll keep up this attitude until he's snapped out of it. When I catch him in a good mood, he's really talkative, pays a lot of attention to me, has a bit of a cocky/flirty attitude, is touchy-feely and is always smiling and joking around. Other times, he's just exhausted from working doubles and isn't in the mood to talk.


So, I figure it's just a bit of a bad time right now, but i'll try to stay friendly and see what happens.


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In other news: I came out to one of the female employees tonight. I didn't deny it, and playfully told her not to judge. She was in disbelief and said "I have a gay relative. You're FAR from gay. . ." In my head, I lol'd at her basing "gay" on stereotypical behavior. I know she was shocked, but i'm not sure if she really believed me.


Basically, to sum up everything: I don't know right now, but we'll all find out together soon.
 
For the past few times he's worked, he completely ignores me. When I try to talk to him or ask him a question, he'll look at the other person and basically give me his answer through them.

He was the one who began being friendly with me. I begin talking to him and try to get to know him better, but then he just shuts down completely and decides he isn't interested.


So, unless anything magically changes soon, I think it's fair to say this isn't going anywhere. He's done talking to me, and i'm done giving a crap about trying to figure him out. If he is gay by some chance, then he should just go be gay with someone who can put up with his shit. :lol:
 
Nomenclature said:
For the past few times he's worked, he completely ignores me. When I try to talk to him or ask him a question, he'll look at the other person and basically give me his answer through them.

He was the one who began being friendly with me. I begin talking to him and try to get to know him better, but then he just shuts down completely and decides he isn't interested.


So, unless anything magically changes soon, I think it's fair to say this isn't going anywhere. He's done talking to me, and i'm done giving a crap about trying to figure him out. If he is gay by some chance, then he should just go be gay with someone who can put up with his shit. :lol:
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sounds like you tried. He's either uncomfortable with you being gay or he's gay and can't get himself to accept it so he acts disinterested. Either way you tried and it's his loss. I've had similar situations happen and you get to the point where you just give up. For whatever reason he's decided to distance himself. I think your smart to move on.

Steven.
 
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