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Fighting in a relationship?

MMMonsterBoy

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Do you believe that a relationship needs those intense arguments? That the constant bickering is what makes the relationship? Or is a relationship with seldom minor arguments not passionate enough? Is drama a part of the relationship?

As crazy as the question sounds, I've witnessed a lot of people claim that verbal fighting is a sign of the passion. Is there any truth in that? I'd like to hope not...
 
Depends on what you are seeking. Some people like to fight, then, make up. That is what they are "into."

If you watch the show "Cheaters" you will notice that some people will call the show, have PI's follow their lover around, then, catch the lover cheating. Then they make up. ?

With me, I wouldn't tolerate anything more than 3 or 4 arguments. 3 strikes you're out, bud.
 
No, If you both give a bit of compromise there will never be a need for fighting.

It's kept us together for 25 years.
 
MMMonsterBoy said:
Do you believe that a relationship needs those intense arguments? That the constant bickering is what makes the relationship? Or is a relationship with seldom minor arguments not passionate enough? Is drama a part of the relationship?

As crazy as the question sounds, I've witnessed a lot of people claim that verbal fighting is a sign of the passion. Is there any truth in that? I'd like to hope not...
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Fighting all the time wouldn't work for me, but maybe it works for others.
 
Fighting is something I would classify as unhealthy in a relationship. There needs to be discussion and compromise, not fighting. Fighting opens the door to too many unwanted emotions, such as doubt, envy, fear, etc.
 
Constant bickering is a relationship on the brink. It is not a healthy relationship at all.

Expect disagreements from time to time because we are all humans. Agree to disagree. Just because the person disagrees with you does not mean you're wrong and he's right or vice versa. It's a different perspective based on each person's background, education, life experiences, and etc.

Resolve disagreements/conflicts with discussions...not yelling and fighting. Sometimes the resolution is you two cannot agree on this issue and just leave it there. Move on and focus on what you two have in common.
 
There is no need for fighting. Disagreements are gonna happen, but I see no need for screaming, saying things that are said just to hurt and I do not accept physical violence.

Oh and there is still passion without fighting.
 
well me and my bf bicker a lot. Been together for 2 years and we tend to realize that most of these arguments/huge debates are too stupid to get hyped up for. It would happen everyday.... we hate drama! lmao
 
There are not strictly rules.
When we began to fight, was the beginning of the end.
But can't speak for others, in Spain there is a well-known say:

- Fighting loves are those most beloved.

I can't disagree more.
 
Disagreements will happen from time to time but constant bickering and fighting isn't the sign of a healthy relationship in my book.
 
castoono said:
There are not strictly rules.
When we began to fight, was the beginning of the end.
But can't speak for others, in Spain there is a well-known say:

- Fighting loves are those most beloved.

I can't disagree more.
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Your post reminded me of Vicky Cristina Barcelona, especially the fighting.

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I am a huge hot head

I get so angry so quick I just lose it.


But literally 15 minutes later I physically/Emotionally/Mentally cannot stay mad. I lose all my steam.

The trick with me will be removing myself from that situation ASAP and having a guy who gets that.

I think fighting is fun, I am a big nagger and like to mess with people but they never take it seriously.


A relationship that is just fighting would have to be analyzed by the people in it, they are the only ones who know what place the conflict is coming from.
 
It depends how the couple feels while it is happening and afterwards. We fight a lot because of issues going back to childhood and genuine differences of opinion. It depends on the couple.
 
I like to debate and get a little riled up, but not yelling and screaming. It's too hurtful. Why would you want to yell and scream at someone you love?
 
i think some level of fighting is healthy - means u care

my bf and i fight a little

make up sex is really good
 
chance1 said:
i think some level of fighting is healthy - means u care

my bf and i fight a little

make up sex is really good
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Agreed, fighting does lead to great make up sex.

I get into constant disagreements with my boyfriend, but we also discuss the problem before things get too out of hand.

Actual fighting that involves yelling though, doesn't happen often. I think there would be a limit too how much actual fighting I could take.
 
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