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Finally confessed my feelings to my best friend.. please read

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I finally manned up and put my feelings to my best friend out on the table. His reaction was really strange, he did not freak out an all in any way, he just grinned from ear to ear, then said "im not gay" but he wasnt able to look me in the eyes when he said that. He then told me that he wanted me to move in with him and his girlfriend, I am so confused. What kind of staight guy would want a gay guy who is crushing on them living in the same place as him? What do I do next?:help::help:
 
Sounds like he might have something else in mind.
 
Sometimes a straight guy really is straight. Wishing otherwise won't make it so.

As for moving in with him and his gf, I think that is a bad idea. Do you really want to make yourself miserable especially when they get romantic? If he asks why you can't move in with him, be honest about it.
 
I agree, I think there is more to it than he is letting me know, and yes I think that it is a terrible idea. He also wants to get two of our other mutual friends to join in as well, and rent a house. I haven't agreed to anything but I am just saying.. If I was straight, and my friend was gay and told me he had feelings for me, I would NOT want them sleeping in the same house as me every night and seeing me everyday
 
If there is more to it than he is letting on, why would he be inviting so many people to live together? You would think he would want more alone time with you for such clandestine activities.

Is it possible, since you are best friends, that he just likes your company and is cool with your sexuality? Don't project your suspicions on him.
 
he is your best friend, why wouldn't he ask you to move in with him? (girlfriend or no)
straight guys aren't all homophobic nor do they think having a gay guy around will lead to something. try not to let your own idea of what prejudices a straight guy should have get in the way of your friendship.
it's possible it could lead to something, but I wouldn't try and search for clues in regular conversation and gestures. it ALWAYS goes downhill when gay guys do that.
 
Don't torture yourself by being around someone you are attracted to you and has told you he is not gay.

You did a brave thing being honest. Now do the next brave thing and go boyfriend shopping.
 
Update: Hey guys, I figured I would update this to tell you whats been going on
I thought long and hard over what to do next with this, and decided to ask him if he was bisexual. His reaction was just as I figured it would be - He looked shocked, and got extremely defensive . He started pacing around, but was still willing to stay at my house for another 2 hours, and the next day I recieved text messages from him saying that if I had told any of my friends about my suspicions, to tell them that I was wrong and he will never be attracted to any men. That night, he kept asking me to tell him what made me thought that, I told him it was inconsequential but he kept harping on it. I did a little bit of damage control, and told him that I was sorry and I put my spin on things and overthought some things, figuring I would play it safe. He still wanted to know what signs he put off, but I told him that there were some obvious things, that not everyone can see, but I can. Then he asked if they were done when he was drunk or high, and I said yeah but sometimes sober too. But my question is, what would the normal straight guy reaction be to this, no matter how good of friends the two are? Was I onto something?
 
You're going to fuck up your friendship.
 
I get the sense that you want us all to jump in and tell you he’s gay. Why? He’s got a girlfriend, he’s supposed to be your best friend, if he is in the closet – which you only think he is – which part of this situation doesn’t have train wreck written all over it?

Best case scenario for you, he’s a closeted lying cheater. Worst case, you keep pushing when he’s ALREADY told you no – an answer you don’t want to accept, and he drops you as a friend for it.

What about her? How happy is she going to be with you trying to fuck up her thing?
 
you guys are right. I have just never felt this way about anyone before, but I will just back off now.
 
You should decline the invitation. He is straight, has a girlfriend. You need to move on after that confession. He's a good friend though. He accepted you for who you are and even invited you to live with him.

Just move on to someone who can return your feelings. Unless you want to set yourself up for a heartbreak.
 
It sounds like the OP is very attracted to his best friend. I agree with the other posters it is a bad idea to move in with the guy and his girlfriend. You will only become unhappy seeing your best friend with his girlfriend. I think the OP needs to examine within himself what does he want from the guy? I mean, why ruin a good friendship? I think the OP needs to focus his attention on someone else maybe meet someone new?
 
sixthson said:
Sometimes a straight guy really is straight. Wishing otherwise won't make it so.

As for moving in with him and his gf, I think that is a bad idea. Do you really want to make yourself miserable especially when they get romantic? If he asks why you can't move in with him, be honest about it.
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I agree completely, watching them in love will be so hard and painful for you...
 
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