Finally Gonna Get To Smell My Straight Friend's Underwear!

[jubdown5]

suggestion:
If you can, take a pic and show us all what you were able to sniff,

Also (if possible) i'd snatch his undies and swap them with an identical new air that you purchased. Wouldnt it be awsome to have that stench with you 24/7?

YUm

yes that's exactly what I want to do. sometimes he bends over in front of me and his underwear show and it gets me so hot.

 

[bw92116]

Getting him drunk and passed out just to sniff his underwear is sneaky and underhanded. If he finds out, that's the end of the friendship.

But just hanging out naked together in a hotel room, or even jacking off together, is not going to break up a friendship. On the contrary in many cases it can make the friendship closer and stronger. It's a bonding thing.

If it's all above board and open, and you are just having some "boys will be boys" fun together, then everything is fine and you can still continue with a great friendship.

But if it's all sneaky and done behind his back, that is no way to grow a friendship and could end up destroying the friendship if he finds out you did that.

By the way, you state that you and him are "literally best friends." How can it be that your best friend doesn't know you are gay or bi? How can that be a real friendship if he doesn't even know that fundamental fact about you?

The things that break up a friendship are lying, cheating, stealing, using and dishonesty. Simply jacking off or getting dressed/undressed in front of the other guy does not break up a friendship.

Any straight guy who would be so offended by the sight of his friend naked or the sight of his friend jacking off in a hotel room has too many hangups. Among my straight friends, I think 50% of them if in that situation would just say, "no thanks" and laugh it off. The other 50% would be tempted to jack off themselves and would even do it if they happened to be horny. But ending a friendship over that? That's only for homophobes or extremely insecure men.

I have one straight friend (actually I think he's 10% gay) who is homophobic and recently I asked him by email to take some pictures of himself naked and send them to me by email. He refused, saying he did not want any pictures of him "sent through the mail." But it certainly didn't end the friendship, in fact his next email a few days later, on another topic, was just as friendly as always.

Oh well, it's your friendship to do whatever you want with it...

 

[jubdown5]

Getting him drunk and passed out just to sniff his underwear is sneaky and underhanded. If he finds out, that's the end of the friendship.

But just hanging out naked together in a hotel room, or even jacking off together, is not going to break up a friendship. On the contrary in many cases it can make the friendship closer and stronger. It's a bonding thing.

If it's all above board and open, and you are just having some "boys will be boys" fun together, then everything is fine and you can still continue with a great friendship.

But if it's all sneaky and done behind his back, that is no way to grow a friendship and could end up destroying the friendship if he finds out you did that.

By the way, you state that you and him are "literally best friends." How can it be that your best friend doesn't know you are gay or bi? How can that be a real friendship if he doesn't even know that fundamental fact about you?

The things that break up a friendship are lying, cheating, stealing, using and dishonesty. Simply jacking off or getting dressed/undressed in front of the other guy does not break up a friendship.

Any straight guy who would be so offended by the sight of his friend naked or the sight of his friend jacking off in a hotel room has too many hangups. Among my straight friends, I think 50% of them if in that situation would just say, "no thanks" and laugh it off. The other 50% would be tempted to jack off themselves and would even do it if they happened to be horny. But ending a friendship over that? That's only for homophobes or extremely insecure men.

I have one straight friend (actually I think he's 10% gay) who is homophobic and recently I asked him by email to take some pictures of himself naked and send them to me by email. He refused, saying he did not want any pictures of him "sent through the mail." But it certainly didn't end the friendship, in fact his next email a few days later, on another topic, was just as friendly as always.

Oh well, it's your friendship to do whatever you want with it...

no one knows I'm bi. not something I wanted to share yet. getting undressed in front of him wouldn't ruin anything because if anything he'd just turn away.

I still think you're overthinking this though. we just planned an event, are getting a hotel and I'm using the opportunity to smell some underwear.

nothing more nothing less really. I'm not drugging him, not jerking off, not asking weird questions, nothing.

 

[WorkinMan]

One thing you could try to get a good look...if he is drunk with just his boxers on, laugh at him and tell him he stinks. then get close to him and ask did you shit your pants or something? then pull them down from the back and laugh.. not that i have given this a lot of thought..haha and of course take a pic for us!! haha

 

[jubdown5]

One thing you could try to get a good look...if he is drunk with just his boxers on, laugh at him and tell him he stinks. then get close to him and ask did you shit your pants or something? then pull them down from the back and laugh.. not that i have given this a lot of thought..haha and of course take a pic for us!! haha

Lmao good idk. I think we're gonna be on Molly only tho and no drinking so I'll see what happens.

 

[jcabot]

lol well good luck.

 

[stopit1234]

bw92116, YOU NEED TO SHUT UP AND LEAVE PEOPLE ALONE!

Oh well, it's your friendship to do whatever you want with it...

 

[blackbeltninja]

I still think you're overthinking this though. we just planned an event, are getting a hotel and I'm using the opportunity to smell some underwear.

nothing more nothing less really. I'm not drugging him, not jerking off, not asking weird questions, nothing.

I think BW raises a valid point, though. While it's obvious that nobody's going to "get hurt" from this, what will happen if he wakes up or catches you in the act? It will be weird, surely - not sure what I'd make of someone sniffing my underwear, that's for damn sure, and if I was a hetero I'm not sure I'd want to wake up to a "straight" mate of mine sniffing my crotch while I slept.

Do you have an exit strategy or something plausible to tell him if you're found out? Coming out to one's friends is stressful enough when you fully intend to do it; not sure how easy it will be on either party if you're only outed through engaging in some fairly invasive fetish on an unwilling participant...

-d-

 

[goldpuma]

surely I cant be the only one who believes that this is no real friendship? Friendship is based on honesty and trust, what is honest or trustworthy in trying to take advantage of a 'friend'. Yes, I understand that you are attracted to this guy and i'm sure it's frustrating not being out and able to talk these things through with him but to try to smell him as he sleeps just seems downright odd and sneaky. what if a female friend of yours told you that while sharing a room with a guy she woke to find him smelling her panties and crotch, would you tell her 'hey thats just what us guys do to our friends when we are too ashamed to own up to our feelings' or would you say 'he's a creepy pervert'? be honest.

 

[HunterM]

^ Bingo! Well said.

 

[jubdown5]

surely I cant be the only one who believes that this is no real friendship? Friendship is based on honesty and trust, what is honest or trustworthy in trying to take advantage of a 'friend'. Yes, I understand that you are attracted to this guy and i'm sure it's frustrating not being out and able to talk these things through with him but to try to smell him as he sleeps just seems downright odd and sneaky. what if a female friend of yours told you that while sharing a room with a guy she woke to find him smelling her panties and crotch, would you tell her 'hey thats just what us guys do to our friends when we are too ashamed to own up to our feelings' or would you say 'he's a creepy pervert'? be honest.

good point!

I'll let you guys know how it goes still.

Figured this would be a hot thread like the "Sniffing Underwear" thread with 17+ pages

 

[bw92116]

You should let him know that you think he's hot. Don't get into a discussion of gay/bi/straight; men are really not interested in the discussion. Tell him he's hot. Men love that. Even if he's not interested in you, he'll still like you for boosting his ego. And that may open the door a bit in his mind for a little fun play with you. And it will likely strengthen your friendship, because he will know you better and you won't have any big secret to keep from him.

 

[jubdown5]

You should let him know that you think he's hot. Don't get into a discussion of gay/bi/straight; men are really not interested in the discussion. Tell him he's hot. Men love that. Even if he's not interested in you, he'll still like you for boosting his ego. And that may open the door a bit in his mind for a little fun play with you. And it will likely strengthen your friendship, because he will know you better and you won't have any big secret to keep from him.

thanks for the tip. definitely hate having the secret, but it's hard to come out with it!

it would definitely be for the better if I do though. I'll keep you guys updated.

can't stop the thoughts from running thru my head either!

 

[munchinmike]

I personally think that you should come out to him and if he asks if you have any feelings for him in that way then just tell him that you find him attractive and think he hot. Do this before you go to the concert that way you'll both know where you stand if anything happens

 

[BiBlackMan]

I have no sage advice, just my own experience. My best friend is straight, very handsome and has always been very supportive of me - something that is quite mutual. I am bi-married, closeted and relatively inexperienced when it comes to male/male sex and male bonding. Several years ago my friend and I were in the same business and saw each other very frequently, even though we live 1500 miles apart. Long story short I fell in love with him and with my feelings felt "desperate" to feel some kind of physical connection/bond with him. I wanted to massage his feet, perform oral sex to completion - anything to feel close and special to him. I guess it was all about wanting to have a bonding experience with him.

At one point we were sharing a hotel room together - one of many such times. While he was in the shower at the end of the day I took his used briefs out of his luggage and smelled them for several minutes. It was heaven - everything I wanted it to be: sweaty, musky, imitate, smelly, HIM. That several minutes of bliss, however was not worth the months of feeling guilty because I betrayed our friendship and his trust.

He doesn't know about that smelling incident, but I have since told him I was bi and that I had feelings for him, and even confessed my desire for some kind of bonding experience - like jerking off together. Since telling him the guilt has gone away, and to a large degree so have the feelings of love I have for him. Now I want a really close, open, honest, trusting, loving friendship with him, whether we ever have a special bonding experience or not.

My point is: be careful what you wish for and what you do. The way your friends cock, ass or feet smell is not the basis of your friendship. I totally understand wanting to experience those things, but it's the whole guy that counts and not the sexual objectification of his body or smells. Don't ruin your friendship for a few minutes of enjoying his aromas.

My two cents.

 

[mcbrion]

Jubdown, BW isn't overthinking anything. He's just being more conscious of it than you're letting yourself be. You're 20, man. Geez, some of us have 3x as much experience as you have. Listen up, and learn something here.
I do agree with BW that taking advantage of a drunk guy is a no-no, although it's clear that a lot of guys don't think that's bad. Lets look at it this way: what do you think a woman would do if you got her drunk and were sniffing here or doing sexy stuff when she was unconscious? Let me see.... never speak to you again, maybe?
Lust is lust. Just don't pass it off as "it's no big thing." It might not be for you, but for the other guy? It might be a deal-breaker.

 

[bw92116]

Thanks, good post.

Jubdown5, do you want to have a relationship with him, or with his underwear?

 

[AlmondMilk]

keep us updated

 

[jubdown5]

Thanks, good post.

Jubdown5, do you want to have a relationship with him, or with his underwear?

just his underwear really lol, but of course a relationship would be good, but also probably unrealistic

I personally think that you should come out to him and if he asks if you have any feelings for him in that way then just tell him that you find him attractive and think he hot. Do this before you go to the concert that way you'll both know where you stand if anything happens

thanks for the advice from you and everyone else!

 

[Bi Married Male]

Knowing that fabric touched those balls is hot.