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Finaly i plan to come out!

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Why am i feeling so fucking panicky right now. Im almost shaking, and smiling at the same time. Ok here is the set up. I have a cousin who is COMPLETELY out, she has a girl friend of at lest 6 years. She introduces her self with her girl friend, shes so fucking brave. Anyways now that im 21 shes been calling me as of late and a few mins ago she invited me to this three day party or what ever. I accepted and well i said fuck it (to my self) im going to come out to her on the 20th! Ok yeah shes out, been out, but why am i getting so getty and panicky and the shits two weeks away. Im almost cant stop shaking what is wrong with me!
 
i have only come out to one person
and after i did, i was really shaky and smiling at the same time
and that was after, i guess i was just happy for myself
 
she understands what you are feeling and going through and will be very supportive. Take a deep breath, relax and have the talk with your cousin. It is great that your first experience coming out will be so positive and safe.

I also bet she has a host of hot gay friends that she will introduce you to.
 
Hey, congrats. The 20th will be here before you know it. The first coming out episode almost always brings a giddiness and relief and sometimes afterward blues once the excitement passes and everyone is going on like it's no big deal.

Your cousin will be happy to hear the news, I bet. And, finally someone will know and you can be real around her from now on.

That's great news. Can't wait to hear how it goes. Be sure to report back in!

:=D::gogirl:..|
 
Congratulations! It's always hard to come out to the first few people. After you get used to it, it won't be as much of an event to come out, it will just casually slip into conversations without you giving it much thought.

Good luck, and have fun at the party!
 
Ok Ok im losing my shit now. Im about to get into the shower and peace out from there. Im fucking nervous as FUCK right now! Im shaking and i have to drive! Not to be a complete post whore, but im updating this tomorrow morning.
 
Dude, this is going to be like telling your doctor you're male. Relax already. :)

Lex
 
It's not her reaction that you're afraid of.. it's the fact that once it's out.. it's out.. there's no turning back.

Just breathe and remember that it's NEVER the big issue to them as it is to us.
 
Ok here is what happen (Short version). I called her before leaving and i said i have to tell her something "huge" when i get there. So we actually wind up going to this club called the "HERE" which is literary right next door to the abby in west Hollywood. Ok i get lost, she flags me down and i park my car. Before i did anything else i pulled her to the side and she asks "Whats this news, what happen ".

Im kind of feeling weird and she just looks at me and says "What, your gay ?" . I said Yes Yeap, she laughs and says in a very playful funny manner "yea ive know that for 10 years now, get over your self where in line cmon".
Im just laughing my ass of in relief, the best part was when i told her not to tell anyone she just says "Ohhhh no, don't worry, i wont have to". I am NOT that damn obvious, or at lest i don't think i am.

Over all it was FAR beyond my expectations. I was totally out there, and nobody gave a shit, hell by the end of the night i believe i have a boyfriend, maybe two if i play my cards right (!)(!)(!)

Big hugs we ALL had, this totally brought up together. Her girl friend is so fucking awesome.
There is TONS more to tell but i said this was the short version lol.
 
OMG, I'm so happy for you, and it does feel really good doesn't it. (*8*) :kiss: (!) Now you can go on living your life.
 
Sounds good. If only I talked to my gay cousin more she could have been my support. Oh well she's married and has kids now...

Congrats.. it only gets easier
 
Soilwork said:
It's not her reaction that you're afraid of.. it's the fact that once it's out.. it's out.. there's no turning back.

Just breathe and remember that it's NEVER the big issue to them as it is to us.
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Hum i had to quote it just to say how real it is. Quick update my cousin JUST phoned me and told me that she just found out im gay! And she basically said she already knew ect. Then she hits me with it, her younger sister, just came out her to also!

This is awesome lol, im flipping out, the shits spreading like wild fire now. I don't even have to tell anybody now. Its great because so far nobody has approached me with ANY negative feed back. My cus basically said that she has done things that plenty of people don't necessarily agree with and i should just give a fuck what other are thinking about me and my life style. (!)
 
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