Finding A true friend

[armyGaiboi]

My love and friend ship life...Sucks!
My life has never been easy or full of the many fun things a normal child grows up with. I was raised by my dad and my mother was a drug addict who was really never around me. Growing up I lived with my twin brother and my dad, it was not till I was about 12 that my dad "Hooked" up with my mom now who i really don't know why i call her mom but whatever. I had to always clean the house, making dinner, yard work, and even perform well in school of which i never did to well. I moved out when i was 18 and joined the military when I was 20. Before I even joined i was Way overweight at 320lbs. i soon lost a lot of it to join the army. I came out of closet at 21 when i returned from Basic training. During my time in the military i was with over 25+ guys and none turned into serious relationships, not that i did not want it to but that they mostly could not handle being with me or whatever. I left the military and what little and worthless friends that i had with it. And tried to start a new life......I made a couple of friends and was going from job to job not able to settle down.

That was a year and 3 months ago that i got out of the military. I have moved again and turned away from my so called friends. I am not into drugs, and i only drink when i am with a group of people. I would like to find true and honest people as friends. I don't play games, and i am very blunt and honest on the things that i see. I live in Florida, Orlando area and looking for friends.

24 yo, 225lbs, between 5'11'' - 6'0 tall, blond hair, blue eyes and very funny.

 

[armyGaiboi]

I dont live near yea, but if you wanna chat online let me know .. your cute as well! Have a good day!

LOL...thanks sure we can talk online...

 

[giorgiobaby]

You are cute, don't try to look so hard for love. It will happen when it happens. Try to get in with some of the local gay groups that have things in common with you, it's a good way to meet guys with some of the same interest that you have and if you don't meet someone that way, the guys you do meet might know someone. Good luck, welcome to JUB.

 

[Oklahoman09]

That's rough man, life is definatley funny that way but it's definatley true that there are very few people you will ever really consider 'friends' in your life, mostly acquintances. I hope things are looking up for you, everything works itself out! If you were in Oklahoma I'd say we'd go out for a beer and some chicken wings lol!

 

[nautiboyjeff]

Hang it in there guy. You are in one of the toughest spots in life. Trying to figure out what you want to do, who you want to be with. Just be the person you want to be with. I had a rough start with friendships, but I found some of the best friends in the whole world and they have been my rock for 10 years. You have made it through the hard part (high school and living in the terrible home), so just work hard, MEET TONS of people and keep the ones you like and throw the ones you don't back into the pond of life.

Jeff

 

[DBSKIsMine]

Sounds like you've had a pretty rough life. I always feel bad when I hear stories like this because it makes me remember back to telling my parents how unfairly they treated me when really I had a very good life. I hope things start to turn around for you.

I don't live in the Orlando area right now, but January of next year I'm actually moving there permanently for work once I've graduated from college. You should PM me or catch me on AIM sometime to just chat. I'm pretty friendly and don't bite...hard at least.

 

[armyGaiboi]

Not to sound mean...but I don't need a pity party....LOL I have dealt with more shit when i was in the military then home life... tho it was ruff for me.