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hothole724

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Hey everyone. So I will be going on my first date tomorrow and I think we were going to go on a hike and then maybe get some drinks afterward. This will be my first date ever in my life and I don't know if I'm looking for anything that serious because I'm going back to school in a week or so. When it comes to first dates, are there really any rules or anything? I don't know if I'm looking to have sex with this guy, we did just meet, but if things go well, would it be entirely inappropriate to sleep with him? Any advice would help!
 
hothole724 said:
Hey everyone. So I will be going on my first date tomorrow and I think we were going to go on a hike and then maybe get some drinks afterward. This will be my first date ever in my life and I don't know if I'm looking for anything that serious because I'm going back to school in a week or so. When it comes to first dates, are there really any rules or anything? I don't know if I'm looking to have sex with this guy, we did just meet, but if things go well, would it be entirely inappropriate to sleep with him? Any advice would help!
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I am probably the worst person to give you advice on this, but the way I see it, the first date is never the right time to give it up.

I am more of a fan of a 3-4 date progression leading up to the "big event," but that's just me.
 
If you click, why not. It is only sex for heaven's sakes. It isn't as though there isn't a lot more where that came from.
 
I think you just need to go with what feels right to you and don't worry about what others think. Here's wishing you a great first date!!! Let us know how things go.
 
I would resist going all the way if he wants it. If he is interested in you, he will respect you more. You should be prepared though in case you get caught up in the moment. Be sure to take condoms.
 
I've had sex on the first date and don't have a problem with that. If the guy is interested in you then he should be interested if you have sex on the first date. But if you don't want to have sex on the first date, then you shouldn't have to.

Justlove, rareboy is in a long term relationship, what about you?

I myself am in a 3 year relationship with someone who I had sex with on the first date and our relationship is not all about sex. I hate it when people speak out of ignorance, but I suppose I was foolish to expect anything better from you.
 
hothole724 said:
...This will be my first date ever in my life ...I'm going back to school in a week or so. When it comes to first dates, are there really any rules or anything? I don't know if I'm looking to have sex with this guy, we did just meet, but if things go well, would it be entirely inappropriate to sleep with him? Any advice would help!
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If you were already sexually active and in light of the fact that you are going back to school in a week, normally it would make sense to do whatever you felt like doing at the moment. As long as you play safe when you do it.

However, since this would be your first time, maybe you should take things a little slower. Your straight peers have been doing the dating thing for a while and you have a little catching up to do.

Regarding first date, there are no rules. Just go into first dates with an open mind, with the idea that you're going to have fun whether anything comes from it or not.

On first dates at the end of the night, if you had fun and enjoyed the other person's company, say, "I had a great time and I'd like to see you again". And set a time when one of you will call the other person for a second date. Don't say you will call unless you want to call. And keep your word about calling.

As for sex on the first date: If the other person is hot but you don't have an interest in anything serious with them. then do whatever you want to do at the moment. If you think there might be more than just an attraction between you, then maybe move things a little slower. The important thing is don't be pressured to do something you don't want to do. If you don't feel right about having sex with someone on the first date, speak up and walk away.
 
Ok so the date went well - we just went shopping and had some lunch together. It was just nice to talk to someone else who is gay because I'm not really out to anyone and haven't experienced much at all, so it was a breath of fresh air. I invited him to come over to my house next week for dinner and maybe he'll sleep over :). Ill see where things go, definitely don't want to a relationship before I go back to school though. Hopefully it doesn't get too complicated. Thanks for the advice!
 
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