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First Experience....Need Advice

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Hello All! New to the JUB community and hope everyone's well.

I'm going to first start off by saying I'm 19 and in college. I'm gay, but label myself as bisexual until I can accept the fact that I'm gay. There is only one person that knows I'm gay, and thats the guy I'm talking too. Like I liked this guy since Junior year of high school and I would always wait by locker to see him past and check his facebook page on a daily basis just to see what was going on with him. I always knew he was gay, he wasn't flamboryant, but I just honestly knew he was. So Last year after I graduated High School I said WTF, and I told him how I felt through Facebook's honesty box. So we went back and fourth and I finally revealed myself and just as I suspected he was gay. So every since then (Sept-Oct) we've been talking back and fourth etc. So like two days ago he texted me and we got to chatting. So he was like so when you come home for break what we gonna do sexually. And I told him (I don't know how blunt I can be) I woudl give him head, cuddle with him, massage him, etc. This sent excitement to him because he's now so excited and can't wait til I come home. I;m excited too because since JR. year I've dreamed of being sexual with this dude and in a matter of days that dream could become a reality. The problem now is, I don't want to get insecure and not be able to handle it. This would be my FIRST sexual experience with a guy and he's states on numerous occassions he's been in sexual activity with guys before. Like I don't want to get to nervous and look like a idiot. I like the domiant role so I don't want to appear to be incapable of handling any sexual things he dishes out.

What should I do like in preparation or something, like I'm excited because it's my first time, but also a tad bit nervous.

Thanks in advance!
 
It's your first time. He HAS to know it's your first time, right? So just be honest and upfront about it all. "I've never done any of this before, so I'll be looking at you to sort of take the lead."

That said:

1. Bring your own condoms and lube. Yes, even though he's your friend.

2. Don't do anything you don't feel up to. No matter how much he says you'll like it. Just say, "I'd rather not do that yet. Can we try something else?"

3. Have fun, damnit.

Lex
 
Awww...you're only like a couple of years younger than me, but for some reason I just want to pinch your cheeks. So, our little boy is going to become a man, eh? Good for you. Let's see...advice. Well, first of all, remember the Golden Rule: Always use protection! Wrap it up, B. You may be innocent, but don't be naive. Now, since this is your first time, it's to be expected that you're a little nervous--don't be. It's all natural, everything will work itself out. Since your buddy has some experience with the love that dares not speak its name, I suggest you let him take the lead. Let him show you the ropes. As things progress, and you start to feel more adventurous, don't be afraid explore him, either. Also, don't do anything you don't want to do. No means no. Take it as far as you are comfortable going. Oh, I hope you have fun! ;)
 
The mechanical bits and pieces will all happen naturally.

You've got a crush. This guy is older, more experienced and doesn't live in the same place where you go to college.

Just make sure you aren't in over your head emotionally. That first heartbreak is tough.
 
Hey dude don't worry about your performance too much. If you're 19 and he knows you've never done anything with a guy before, trust me, the thrill will turn him on. Teaching people is HOTT!
 
'Tis the 21st... time for an update.
 
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