First Experience with a Male

[xyxyxy]

Haven't had one, don't know anyone, and too chicken to actually do something with a random. Yet I have a sniffies account

 

[BiBtm64]

Haven't had one, don't know anyone, and too chicken to actually do something with a random. Yet I have a sniffies account

It's understandable to be shy about meeting a random stranger for sex, when you've never had any experience with a man. Sniffies (and many similar apps/websites) are very hookup focused. Maybe try to get chatting, get to know some guys and see where it leads. Be honest that you have no experience.

I see from some of your other posts that you'd be looking to top, or have your dick sucked. There are plenty of guys out there ready and willing to help out with those things, let me assure you.

 

[hotguy88]

It's understandable to be shy about meeting a random stranger for sex, when you've never had any experience with a man. Sniffies (and many similar apps/websites) are very hookup focused. Maybe try to get chatting, get to know some guys and see where it leads. Be honest that you have no experience.

I see from some of your other posts that you'd be looking to top, or have your dick sucked. There are plenty of guys out there ready and willing to help out with those things, let me assure you.

Yeah I get the whole being shy. I've had a few other guys before who ghosted me or got flaky and weird. My current buddy started as a random cocksucker for fun and now we're having the best sex of our lives double penetrating tight pussy together almost every weekend

You just never know

 

[72-Jay]

Haven't had one, unlikely that I ever will (but believe in 'never say never')
I couldn't with just some random.. I'd have to get to know the guy pretty well, before even considering doing anything.

 

[BiBtm64]

Yeah I get the whole being shy. I've had a few other guys before who ghosted me or got flaky and weird. My current buddy started as a random cocksucker for fun and now we're having the best sex of our lives double penetrating tight pussy together almost every weekend

You just never know

I think the ghosting, and flaky / weird guys are a part of the hookup experience. Many guys who are are bi/curious and still figuring themselves out are uncertain or uncomfortable about their sexuality. They crave man-sex when horny then other times they think "WTF did I do?".

I'm certain there are many guys on apps who are just tire-kicking and have no intention of meeting. I suspect some get off on the fantasy and enjoy leading other guys along, probably jerking and cumming about it at home while you're waiting to meet them. The tire-kickers and time-wasters are part of the game, unfortunately.

I think some guys in straight relationships feel guilty or are worried they'll be found out. These seem to be flaky but they're just re-evaluating what experiences they want and what's more important to them. We shouldn't judge; we don't know what's going on in their lives or their minds. I've met married men in their homes and been fucked on the marital bed, they've enjoyed it a few times then it suddenly ends. I can understand that.

You're right about the best sex with a good buddy, when you know each other and are comfortable, know what makes each other tick, that's the best - and any random hookup can turn into a buddy.

You're right, you just never know.

 

[hotguy88]

I think the ghosting, and flaky / weird guys are a part of the hookup experience. Many guys who are are bi/curious and still figuring themselves out are uncertain or uncomfortable about their sexuality. They crave man-sex when horny then other times they think "WTF did I do?".

I'm certain there are many guys on apps who are just tire-kicking and have no intention of meeting. I suspect some get off on the fantasy and enjoy leading other guys along, probably jerking and cumming about it at home while you're waiting to meet them. The tire-kickers and time-wasters are part of the game, unfortunately.

I think some guys in straight relationships feel guilty or are worried they'll be found out. These seem to be flaky but they're just re-evaluating what experiences they want and what's more important to them. We shouldn't judge; we don't know what's going on in their lives or their minds. I've met married men in their homes and been fucked on the marital bed, they've enjoyed it a few times then it suddenly ends. I can understand that.

You're right about the best sex with a good buddy, when you know each other and are comfortable, know what makes each other tick, that's the best - and any random hookup can turn into a buddy.

You're right, you just never know.

Right? I mean even me for a long time the idea of actually doing it with a guy was weird... I had a friend about 10 years ago who tried to get me into it and it fell flat then so I get it. Theres this vibe about not being straight that is hard to get past sometimes and I know not everyone is just being mean but it's part of the cycle for sure. I felt weird on the apps for a long time too like it was never a thing I did all the time it would be a few days I would really get into it and then delete them

I did suspect years ago though that once I found the right guy the sex was gonna be fucking unbelievable and yeah it is now for sure after all that. Even my buddy has mentioned how lucky he is to be doing this with me but like even now there's a chick involved. We still don't do much on our own really and we're pretty much straight when she's around

 

[BiBtm64]

Right? I mean even me for a long time the idea of actually doing it with a guy was weird... I had a friend about 10 years ago who tried to get me into it and it fell flat then so I get it. Theres this vibe about not being straight that is hard to get past sometimes and I know not everyone is just being mean but it's part of the cycle for sure. I felt weird on the apps for a long time too like it was never a thing I did all the time it would be a few days I would really get into it and then delete them

I did suspect years ago though that once I found the right guy the sex was gonna be fucking unbelievable and yeah it is now for sure after all that. Even my buddy has mentioned how lucky he is to be doing this with me but like even now there's a chick involved. We still don't do much on our own really and we're pretty much straight when she's around

I totally get it. You're confused by thoughts of "am I still straight?" and you feel awkward, you're trying to understand yourself and why you're doing it. In the build-up / craving / fantasy stage we're horny and driven by the desire for the physical act. In the reality of the act itself, we make a connection with another human who is also driven by desire. That whole connection is more deep and complex, and can be harder to come to terms with.

We grow up shaped by our heterosexual drive and what is expected of us. Sex with a woman is, by and large, pretty straightforward (getting it isn't, don't we know, but once it's a done deal, the act itself is). There's a dick, and a hole (or 2, or 3, if she agrees). She and you both know she's going to be penetrated. If we're nice and gentlemanly about it, she'll have an orgasm beforehand (or 2, or 3). We're conditioned to take the lead do the fucking.

Then we give in to our cravings and try it with a man. It's more complex, both physically and in terms of sexuality. There are two dicks. What goes where? Who is leading and who's submitting? Maybe it's agreed beforehand, or we figure it out as it happens on the spur of the moment. Either way, there are more complex thoughts and roles that can't be packaged up neatly by gender. It's especially so (and I write from experience) as a bi/curious receiver. To be fucked, and to suck a dick, are, by definition, roles designed to please a man with my body. That puts man-sex so far outside of our preconditioned heterosexual "norm" that there's a lot of processing needed to come to terms with it. Some guys accept that it's a good thing for them, some don't.

The role of the top - having one's dick sucked, or fucking a male ass, I think many men can justify to themselves as simply a release, making the questioning and doubt easier to deal with: "I'm not gay; I just like to get off" / "she won't suck my dick/do anal, so I'll look elsewhere". I've given relief to many otherwise straight guys and the pattern is nearly always the same: they're horny and driven by need, then when they get off they come to their senses and realise what they've done, then another time they need it again. I've found that by putting them at ease, not being weird, and being trusted to keep their secrets, they'll keep coming back.

Hopefully you and your buddy can enjoy some man-time as well as the girl. You could try being not altogether straight when you're having a threesome. The possibilities are endless.

 

[hotguy88]

I totally get it. You're confused by thoughts of "am I still straight?" and you feel awkward, you're trying to understand yourself and why you're doing it. In the build-up / craving / fantasy stage we're horny and driven by the desire for the physical act. In the reality of the act itself, we make a connection with another human who is also driven by desire. That whole connection is more deep and complex, and can be harder to come to terms with.

We grow up shaped by our heterosexual drive and what is expected of us. Sex with a woman is, by and large, pretty straightforward (getting it isn't, don't we know, but once it's a done deal, the act itself is). There's a dick, and a hole (or 2, or 3, if she agrees). She and you both know she's going to be penetrated. If we're nice and gentlemanly about it, she'll have an orgasm beforehand (or 2, or 3). We're conditioned to take the lead do the fucking.

Then we give in to our cravings and try it with a man. It's more complex, both physically and in terms of sexuality. There are two dicks. What goes where? Who is leading and who's submitting? Maybe it's agreed beforehand, or we figure it out as it happens on the spur of the moment. Either way, there are more complex thoughts and roles that can't be packaged up neatly by gender. It's especially so (and I write from experience) as a bi/curious receiver. To be fucked, and to suck a dick, are, by definition, roles designed to please a man with my body. That puts man-sex so far outside of our preconditioned heterosexual "norm" that there's a lot of processing needed to come to terms with it. Some guys accept that it's a good thing for them, some don't.

The role of the top - having one's dick sucked, or fucking a male ass, I think many men can justify to themselves as simply a release, making the questioning and doubt easier to deal with: "I'm not gay; I just like to get off" / "she won't suck my dick/do anal, so I'll look elsewhere". I've given relief to many otherwise straight guys and the pattern is nearly always the same: they're horny and driven by need, then when they get off they come to their senses and realise what they've done, then another time they need it again. I've found that by putting them at ease, not being weird, and being trusted to keep their secrets, they'll keep coming back.

Hopefully you and your buddy can enjoy some man-time as well as the girl. You could try being not altogether straight when you're having a threesome. The possibilities are endless.

Fuck yeah bro I mean he's been one hell of a cocksucker a few times but pretty much when the chick came along the focus became her and I don't regret it. We try to save our orgasms for her. And for me personally I still would rather be destroying a pussy but it's nice to know it's there for sure. Theres definitely endless possibilities if things change but yeah right now we both agree this is the best sex we've ever had and I can only imagine what it has felt like for her

 

[ricksvca]

I think the ghosting, and flaky / weird guys are a part of the hookup experience. Many guys who are are bi/curious and still figuring themselves out are uncertain or uncomfortable about their sexuality. They crave man-sex when horny then other times they think "WTF did I do?".

I'm certain there are many guys on apps who are just tire-kicking and have no intention of meeting. I suspect some get off on the fantasy and enjoy leading other guys along, probably jerking and cumming about it at home while you're waiting to meet them. The tire-kickers and time-wasters are part of the game, unfortunately.

I think some guys in straight relationships feel guilty or are worried they'll be found out. These seem to be flaky but they're just re-evaluating what experiences they want and what's more important to them. We shouldn't judge; we don't know what's going on in their lives or their minds. I've met married men in their homes and been fucked on the marital bed, they've enjoyed it a few times then it suddenly ends. I can understand that.

You're right about the best sex with a good buddy, when you know each other and are comfortable, know what makes each other tick, that's the best - and any random hookup can turn into a buddy.

You're right, you just never know.

Great post. My first three experiences with men were with three strangers (a HJ, then me giving a BJ and finally receiving my first BJ from a man and reciprocating).. My fourth experience was with a very good friend who was gay and it involved him giving me a BJ. I enjoyed being with him so much that we had a sexual relationship that lasted off and on for 15 years. It was the best male on male sex I have ever had.

 

[magicdick]

My first few times were when I was young and just exploring and figuring things out. But later in life, in my 30's the ONLY thing I'd done was suck or be sucked by another man. But one night in Carlyle PA, at the Fly J truck stop, there was this young Mexican guy cleaning the showers. I'd seen him a time or two and could tell that he was gay. But by the time I'd gotten to that truck stop, all I wanted was food, shower and sleep.
But this night, I was headed back to my shower, when he passed and we made eye contact. I guess the eye contact thing is real. Because at that moment, I could tell that he could tell I was attracted to him. He instantly became sexually attractive.
After getting into my shower and locking the door, he knocked. I had gotten about 1/2 hard thinking about this new experience, so when I opened it, and could see it was him, I opened it enough for him to see my cock. He reached for it and at the same time in his fucking sexy spanish accent, said if I need anything, to just let him know. He stood there with my cock in his hand for a few seconds and started rubbing back n forth. I told him I'd need a fresh towel in about 20 minutes.
20 minutes later I had S,S & S, and was ready for the knock on the door.
When it came, I was totally nude and had a rock hard cock. He entered and went straight for my dick. In his mouth and down his throat. That boi sucked me off and took my load like nobody's business.
After about the third visit just like this, him sucking me off, or fucking his tight sweet ass, one night after a long passionate kiss, with each other rubbing each others cocks, he looked me straight in the eyes and said, "Tonight, I want your ass." OMG, I had a toy in my semi. But it wasn't as big as his cock.
So I hopped up on the counter and put my legs over his shoulder. His cock touched my asshole with a little nudge. He let a long, carefully guided stream of spit out, and I felt it drop just above my ass. Then his fingers rubbed in around my ass. I felt his fingertip on the edge, and then slowly entered my ass. He was very gentle, but didn't stop til it was all the way in. It was a little uncomfortable and he could tell, so I hopped down and bent over the counter, with the mirror in front of me.
Once again I could feel the head of his dick pressing against my ass. But this time, he pressed harder and harder until the head was inside. OMG, the pain was awful. I kept moving side to side, and other directions trying to find a way to make it stop hurting. At the same time, he was pressing on my back trying to get me to bend my knees more. But doing that, made it hurt even worse. By now, he was about 1/2 in. and I was about to call the whole thing off, when he forced my hips down. Suddenly, EVERYTHING changed. The pain was almost all gone and pleasure started taking over.
This is when he slid the rest of his cock in and started slowly fucking me. The more he fucked, the better it felt. I must've been really enjoying it, because he had to put his hand over my mouth to keep me quiet. I think I said things like "OMG, I love your dick inside me. FUCK ME FUCK ME." and a few other things.
Our balls would slap each other with every stroke. The way his cock felt as it would slide in and out of me was one of the best sexual pleasures I've ever felt.
Just before he came, I could feel his cock swelling, getting thicker and harder. When he blew his load inside me, the warmth of it just made me feel so submissive. As if I was so pleased with myself to have been that enjoyable to him. I fell in love with him. right then and there. I turned to him and kissed him 1,000 times more passionate than I've ever kissed a woman.
His cock was clean so I bent down and sucked what little more cum I could get out of it, then kissed him some more.
I hated to see him leave the room.
The next few times I stopped in their, he was off duty. Then one night, I asked the other attendant about him and he said he's switched jobs. So I never got to see him again.

After close to 15 years now, I still think about him. His hard body, beautiful cock, the way he kissed. And every once in a while, I smell something that reminds me of him.

Isn't getting fucked an intense and at once a sublime pleasure? Only been fucked 4 or 5 times and only started 2 or 3 years ago. Now I stipulate: If I'm blowing you, you're going to fuck me.

Babe, you should use paragraphs. Easier on the eyes. This was almost TL;DR.

 

[snakeeater1]

My first time with a male was when I was drunk one night and had a friend, who I didn’t know was gay, fuck me in the ass!

 

[HornybiHubby59]

My first time with a male was when I was drunk one night and had a friend, who I didn’t know was gay, fuck me in the ass!

Did you like it?

 

[HornybiHubby59]

Isn't getting fucked an intense and at once a sublime pleasure? Only been fucked 4 or 5 times and only started 2 or 3 years ago. Now I stipulate: If I'm blowing you, you're going to fuck me.

Babe, you should use paragraphs. Easier on the eyes. This was almost TL;DR.

You are right...it definitely is a "SUBLIME PLEASURE "..

 

[snakeeater1]

Did you like it?

I was certainly surprised, but I loved every inch of dick!!

 

[Tritonm4]

I had my first gay sex in 20 years yesterday. I love going to nature trails and getting naked , playing with my anal toy and jerking off. I started using sniffies see if I could get someone to come and fool around with me, yesterday I was out on a trail when a started talking to a guy on the app. he was in a hotel a couple miles down the road, we talked about what we were into and I made the decision to go to his hotel room, oh Im sooo glad I did! He answered the door naked and told me he was just about to jump in the shower real quick,while he was doing that I stripped down and waited for him while I watched some porn for inspiration. He came out of the shower and layed down on the bed on his back. My brain just took over and without even thinking about it I leaned down and started sucking his cock. It was soft at first, and the first uncut I've ever touched but I took to it with as much enthusiasm as I ever have eating pussy, which I love. The feeling of his silky smooth cock head rolling around my mouth was so alluring. I didn't think I was that into sucking cock but I guess I was wrong! I sucked him hard, pleasantly surprising myself with the taste of his precum. I sucked on his dick for a few minutes, playing with his ass and sucking his balls, He got up and turned his attention to me. I leaned over the bed and spread my cheeks to give him full access. Prior to coming to his hotel room I had been toying my ass for a while and I even though I thought I was ready I was prepared for some pain, but it never came. He lubed up my hole and pressed in. His dick wasn't by any means small but my ass took it in like it was supposed to be there! I had anal with my best friend when I was a teen but it was nothing like this. Every thrust of his cock into my ass was better than the last. I haven't had pleasure like that before ever. Not with tightest pussy or ass. I honestly can't believe how amazing it felt even writing this now. He fucked me for what felt like 20 minutes before flipping me over and putting my legs on his shoulders. I could not get enough. I needed him to fuck me as hard as he could, and he did. After 30 ish minutes I felt him tense up and he pulled out of me and came on my cock and balls. I hadn't even come yet and I felt so sexually satisfied that I didnt even really feel like I had to. Like a gentleman he got on his knees in front of me and cleaned the cum off my dick, then sucked me. Before long I could feel it in my balls and I let him know I was about to cum. He released me and I came hard onto his chest. I have had amazing sexual experiences in my life but that one feels like it's going to be my heroin, I'm going to chase that dragon forever. Hopefully I'll catch it a lot I have tentative plans to meet up with him again before he goes home. If I do I want to film him pounding my ass for posterity.

 

[BiBtm64]

I had my first gay sex in 20 years yesterday. I love going to nature trails and getting naked , playing with my anal toy and jerking off. I started using sniffies see if I could get someone to come and fool around with me, yesterday I was out on a trail when a started talking to a guy on the app. he was in a hotel a couple miles down the road, we talked about what we were into and I made the decision to go to his hotel room, oh Im sooo glad I did! He answered the door naked and told me he was just about to jump in the shower real quick,while he was doing that I stripped down and waited for him while I watched some porn for inspiration. He came out of the shower and layed down on the bed on his back. My brain just took over and without even thinking about it I leaned down and started sucking his cock. It was soft at first, and the first uncut I've ever touched but I took to it with as much enthusiasm as I ever have eating pussy, which I love. The feeling of his silky smooth cock head rolling around my mouth was so alluring. I didn't think I was that into sucking cock but I guess I was wrong! I sucked him hard, pleasantly surprising myself with the taste of his precum. I sucked on his dick for a few minutes, playing with his ass and sucking his balls, He got up and turned his attention to me. I leaned over the bed and spread my cheeks to give him full access. Prior to coming to his hotel room I had been toying my ass for a while and I even though I thought I was ready I was prepared for some pain, but it never came. He lubed up my hole and pressed in. His dick wasn't by any means small but my ass took it in like it was supposed to be there! I had anal with my best friend when I was a teen but it was nothing like this. Every thrust of his cock into my ass was better than the last. I haven't had pleasure like that before ever. Not with tightest pussy or ass. I honestly can't believe how amazing it felt even writing this now. He fucked me for what felt like 20 minutes before flipping me over and putting my legs on his shoulders. I could not get enough. I needed him to fuck me as hard as he could, and he did. After 30 ish minutes I felt him tense up and he pulled out of me and came on my cock and balls. I hadn't even come yet and I felt so sexually satisfied that I didnt even really feel like I had to. Like a gentleman he got on his knees in front of me and cleaned the cum off my dick, then sucked me. Before long I could feel it in my balls and I let him know I was about to cum. He released me and I came hard onto his chest. I have had amazing sexual experiences in my life but that one feels like it's going to be my heroin, I'm going to chase that dragon forever. Hopefully I'll catch it a lot I have tentative plans to meet up with him again before he goes home. If I do I want to film him pounding my ass for posterity.

Good for you! When your ass so wants the dick, it relaxes, accepts it and you feel complete. It's hot that you finished facing each other, so you could see each other's faces and he could finish you. Technically it's your first in 20 years, but you should consider it your FIRST gay sex done right, and welcome to the joys of being fucked. Hope he pounds your ass again, and you get many more to come.

 

[lckmyass]

I was certainly surprised, but I loved every inch of dick!!

And now your addicted l bet

 

[Tritonm4]

And now your addicted l bet

I am sooooo ready for more!

 

[lckmyass]

I am sooooo ready for more!

Wrap your mouth around this babe

 

[BiBtm64]