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First gay experience

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Im 24 love girls I just got out of a year and a half relationship with a girl who cheated on me. I found this guy on craigslist, very gangsta black guy with a grill. He was really quiet, really polite and way bigger than me and muscular. we smoked a blunt (shit mids as big as a coffee stirrer. i had a couple shots of tequila before he came and he had a little. I sucked his dick and he fingered me and licked my ass. he was a little too rough and quick but i kinda liked it. I know I liked sucking his dick. It was huuuge. I have no idea who to talk to about this
 
My friends are good people, but some of them are a little homophobic and I dont want this getting out
 
I grew up in a poor suburb very. Most of my friends are from middle school and my middle school had a lot of white trash in it so everyone who grew up with that has trouble not thinking of man on man is grosss. I dont have any gay friends, there werent many out of the closet gay people in highschool and i just never became friends with any of them. then I went to art school for a while and there were a bunch of gay guys there but Im really awkward talking to most people and then I got shitfaced drunk and told the guy living across from me that i didng care he was a fag. I apologized to him but I dont imagine he forgave me.
 
im sorry if this is not the place to post this. if theres a different section i should put it in Im not joking around Im kinda freaking out
 
It's best to talk to guys you know are gay.
The fact that the guy licked your ass seems a good sign.
 
Relax and don't over think the sex. If you like the experience, you are at least bisexual. Since you liked having your ass licked and fingered, you may like to bottom. Just make sure you only have safer sex. If you think he may be too rough, but you want to bottom, you may want to find someone with a smaller cock and more gentle style, or have a talk with him about going easy when both of you haven't been drinking and are high.
 
Welcome Dtay84. I know that sometimes people don't actually want advice, so much as they just want to be heard. Of course, if I just read and don't comment, you don't know that I've heard you! So here's my comment.

It sounds like you're really upset. "Kinda freaking out," as you say. I don't know if it helps you to know that a certain amount of freaking out after your first gay sex is totally normal, especially (I think) if you've been in heterosexual relationships before.

This is a safe place. Say whatever you need to. You don't have to worry about this getting out, because you're anonymous here. Don't leave it open on your computer when you're out of the room!

I hope you post some more.
 
I feel sort of the same that the other guys here have already said, I don't really know what to say since I have no clue about what advice you're looking for. Although I read you and feel free to post more. It's pretty normal to be freaking out after having had your first gay sexual experience, even for the ones who considered themselves gay before experiencing anything.

hope this helps you.
 
Welcome to JUB!

You just need someone to talk to? Sounds like you're a little freaked out by the experience. That's ok, it's pretty normal.

While chatting online can be therapeutic, you might want to find a local, real person to talk to. Where are you located? Have you tried Googling for a local gay organization?

Feel free to ask more questions here or PM me.

You'll be ok. (*8*)
 
If you like sucking his dick, then you are at least bi, if you like getting fingered and rimmed then you are most likely a bottom, I would experiment some more, but as someone else posted... try finding someone more gentle (probably with a smaller dick) and you should attempt to do it mostly sober. Alcohol (at least) can cause some people to be unnecessarily rough
 
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