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First person you told you're gay/bisexual?

aside from the gay guys I was having sex with?

That would be 2 of my roommates (well, ex-roommates now that we've all graduated and went our separate ways). I had been dating my current BF for a couple of months, but I was always gone; several nights a week I wouldn't come home as I was staying with Jimmy (my BF). Finally one day I was in my room working on homework and 2 of my roommates walked in and closed the door. One stood in the door way and one laid on my bed... they both said. "Alright, we're not going anywhere until you tell us where the fuck you've been going and what's going on."

It was funny b/c I dodged the question for about 15 min.. Finally one of my roommates just said, "Dude... what are you doing... are you dating someone? dating a chick? dating a dude? just tell us, we won't freak out."

and then I told them... "OK... I'm dating a guy.." then we had a short conversation about my bf, me, and me being gay ect... and both of them were cool with it.
 
I told one of my best friends after a drunken Christmas party last year. She didn't mention it again until a few weeks ago.

Although, technically, I came out when a rather unpleasant street hooker in Barcelona offered me a blowjob.
 
A total stranger.

He was making an anonymous, crank call that I picked up at 1:00 AM or so. After talking about sucking and cocks, etc. he flat out asked me if I was gay. I shocked myself when I answered that, yes, I was.

It was the first time I even admitted it to myself, and that became the first step in a long (pleasurable) journey..
 
My councillor on the phone then my wife!!!! (oops plus the first guy I slept with)
 
Wow, this thread is so... Deep. But, I like it. I enjoy hearing everyone else's stories.

Anyways, I came out at the age of 17 to my friend Daphne. Bless her, she was the sweetest person I have ever met. She was always telling me how she supported gay rights, and I thought she was hinting at me to come out.(Because, pretty much everyone speculated, but did not know.)

So, one day I just finally told her. She was 100% supportive, but she said "I did not even think you were! I just support gay rights and so do you, so I like to talk to you about gay rights" and I was like oh!!

Then, I came out to my friend Courtney. She had just moved to Austin, and she used the word "fag" to refer to someone. I wanted to see what she would say about gay rights, so I was like "honey you will get hurt if you say that to the wrong person!" She was like "you people take things too seriously.. I have so many gay friends in California and they say the same thing." So, then I was like "Oh, I am gay" because I knew she would not mind. She was 100% supportive. Then, she told Megan. She asked me first so it was good and well.

Then, she fucking told Victoria who would not let me out of the car until I told her yes. She was also supportive but treated me different for a while, as if I was like some queen. I don't like special treatment but thankfully things went back to 100% normal. Of course, she had to tell Emily, my other friend, but she did not mind.

Later on I told Felicia and Stephanie because they both knew 100% and were also good friends. But, that was all I told. This was all my senior year in high school, and I had just moved to USA.

In University I was 100% out. If you asked me, I would say yes. But, I did not blurt it out.

Now, I am back here in Québec and also just 100% out.. You ask, I tell!

Oh, and I told my parents the second year of university. My mom was/is heartbroken, but she still loves me. My dad... He is neutral.. I think he knew but did not like it. So, he is just tolerating it.
 
Joshua_me said:
Actually, I told my Grandmother first....

I had things SO built up in my mind that I was convinced that once the words, 'I'm gay' left my lips she would burst into flames and run screaming from the room.

Of course, that didn't happen.

Instead, she did the one thing I could never have imagined. She smiled, and even chuckled a little bit to herself and said, "Well, honey, I'm glad you finally told me, I was afraid I would have to tell YOU !"

*sigh*

I really miss her.
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That's so sweet. I bet she was an awesome person...|

Although I'd been "experimenting" for some time, I think the fisrt person I openly told was a colleague. She and I were sitting having lunch after work one day and during the course of the conversation she asked if I was gay and a after a second or two's reflection, I just answered "yes, I am".

It just felt right. And it was.
 
I first came out to my now x best friend. he left me I guess b/c he was afraid that he might catch it (being gay)
 
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