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First Sexual Experience - w/ a guy or a girl?

well at least you have twice as many options as straight/gay people do. go with whatever feels right.
 
I just had my first sexual experience last night and I'm finding it odd that I'm now considering the other sex. I've thought for years now that I was gay, but now after having sex with a guy, I'm almost being pulled in the opposite direction - either out of newfound curiosity or it's a reaction to a less than satisfying sexual experience. I'm thinking it's the ladder.

I find it amusing that after so many years of 'dealing,' I may not have actually needed to. Fukc off Alanis Morissette.
 
I was having sex with girls for a few years before my first sexual experience with a guy. I had never thought about guys that way at the time. I would admire a good looking guy, and maybe stare at him, but in the beginning, I had no thoughts about sex.

As time went by, things obviously changed!
 
This is a very interesting thread -- I have to go back and read them all --
High school -- Junior year -- mutual masterbation with a hot guy-- frottage, lots of touching each other -- I had a "girlfriend" at the same time -- and I could and did CREAM MY JEANS by just kissing her -- but she never let me do anything - and I mean anything else -- Later - my special friend sucked my dick and MADE ME do him -- I wasn't ready for that -- we drifted apart. Never got hard looking at Playboy -- but "The Young Physique" would leave me dripping. No problem having sex with the wife - early on -- she doesn't want to anymore - I fantasize about doing more with a guy - all the time. Labels are difficult- and often stupid --
 
My first experience was with a guy... and still is today still did not have any with girls... however.. i still get turned on by girls and guys... and after havin sex with a guy i feel extremely weird like i shouldnt have done it. Does anyone else feel like this after gay sex?
 
reddevil607 said:
My first experience was with a guy... and still is today still did not have any with girls... however.. i still get turned on by girls and guys... and after havin sex with a guy i feel extremely weird like i shouldnt have done it. Does anyone else feel like this after gay sex?
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My first was with a guy, then went "straight", now I'm bi. One thing I like about gay sex is it is weird and I shouldn't have done it.
 
My first was with a guy, I'm a little embarrased...I guess this is the
place to admit it.
I developed a huge crush on a friend when I was younger, we were
always together, one night during a sleep-over I couldn't resist
rimming him, which I repeated whenever I could, but nothing more.
He was the only guy for a number of years, I stayed "straight", until
I met Sal, another friend that turned into a crush.
I seem to be still repeating that pattern, even today, I'll keep my
relationships with women but fool around with guys now and then,
when the opportunity arises (so to speak.)
I can't say I regret it, as long as no one gets hurt. I love sex with women,
but being with a guy is so much more exciting.
 
^ Yes Woof this definately makes sense, in fact you just articulately something I feel myself. Sex without a relationship is not something positive for me.
 
reddevil607 said:
My first experience was with a guy... and still is today still did not have any with girls... however.. i still get turned on by girls and guys... and after havin sex with a guy i feel extremely weird like i shouldnt have done it. Does anyone else feel like this after gay sex?
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Reddevil: Know exactly what you mean. My first time(s) with a guy I didn't know if I felt guilty or ?. Worse still was the fact I wanted more. At the same time I'd be trying to get a date with a girl for Saturday night.
Confusing times.

But to answer the thread. My first time at age 16 COULD have been with a guy, but combination of me being naive,shy, and him being a bit on the goofy side turned me off. Instead it was a girl about 6 months later.
 
My first sexual experience was with a boy, in 7th grade. I did some mutual J/O and frottage with two of my best friends. This sort of thing continued on for several years with one of them. I always wanted to go a lot further with this dude (like let me suck him, or have him penetrate me), but I think that he was just a horny little straight dude, exploring his sexuality. The minute he figured out that I wanted to have full-blown sex, he totally broke up the friendship. Oh well ... the guy still makes appearances in my fantasies.
 
My first was with a girl. 9th grade (she was in 8th) we made out, were touchy feely, up and down, but never did any "sex". Then throughout high school I played around with a lot of "buddies" - a lot of mutual masturbation, j/o, and blow jobs. In college I switched back and forth - and finally had sex with both guys (first) and girls (at different times of course).
 
Know whats weird, I started by seducing a friend in 5th grade or so, I swallowed a lot of cum from 2 close friends in H.S. and then my senior year I got a girlfriend and started having sex with her. Been mostly girls since and have only just recently started prowling for cock again.
 
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