First Time Advice For Str8 Guy

[cptfitdude]

'Sup Everyone

So check here, let me lay it down like this, im a str8
guy, who has a very healthy sex life, healthy indeed
with chicks. But recently i met a guy that we got on the disscussion
of sex, then moved to male sex. Not unlike most str8 guys and completely
freaking out, i listened and asked questions, coz he's a bi guy, more to the
ladies side aswell. And having the high sex drive, and obsession with sex
that i do, im really keen now to go full out with one of my mates... and why
i still classify myself as str8, is the thought of guy on guy fucking is hardcore
and im an adnventurous dude, so definitly gets me going, however, i'll never
leave my girls, but obviously what they dont know, wont hurt them (not like im
in a relationship at the moment, free lance ) But dont get me wrong, i have
nothing against bi or gay guys, if anything i should hold the award for str8 guy
having so many gay friends... they rock !!

But now to the main part, 2 of my best mates are like me, and find it hardcore,
dig the fact of fucking around, but still being with our chicks....

So i've already gone into the terrortory of getting head from a dude and giving
which was fucking fun, not gonna deny it in the slightest, and the rumours guys
can give better head, deffinitly true !! but now also being the horny, active 19yr
old that i am, the more sex the better, and my mate agrees... so i wanna go now
to the next step, to fucking, but i would like advice and info, not only fucking but
ever since i saw this porn vid once where the guy got pounded and cummed without touching his dick, i've been keen on getting pounded. was a vid on Sean Cody and im sure alot of you know that shit is fukn hot !!

So any info, advice on fucking, and being fucked for the 1st time, and how to
achieve most pleasure and minimal pain, even though im sure i can handle it.

Would really dig and appreciate it

 

[evanrick]

what does being straight have to do with anything? what do your girls have to do with anything? is it not cheating if some guys dick "accidentally" ends up inside your butt?

you have nothing against gay or bi guys, why would you? are you just finding it difficult to accept that you are attracted to men?

if thinking of yourself as straight helps you discover a new part of yourself then im all for that. we are here to support you, so welcome to jub!

 

[cptfitdude]

Dude.... like people always say... ONE step at a time... its rushing that can make people miss out on awsm experiences... so im not gonna do that, i dont agree with "labels" but im tryna explain from my possible understanding, so i can get the ryt info and advice, sorri if its demeaning...

 

[cptfitdude]

Okay, yeah.... now that i look at it again, it came out VERY rong... Sorry everyone... Evans ryt... its more comfortable like that for the meanwhile...

But PLEASE, any advice and info, i'd really appreciate it

 

[Seasoned]

Some guys do little to no preparation for anal sex. Playing with and teasing the hole is a good start. Use plenty of lube. Always play safe. Sitting on a dick will allow you the greatest amount of control.

 

[HornyHenry]

If you want your anal cherry broken so you can enjoy getting fucked you need a gentle Top who has a small one. If you can find a patient Top who has 5" or smaller, he is the best man to break your ass cherry. Best way is to first suck on the man's dick to get it hard and feel it in your mouth which will also give you an idea of how it will be up your ass. Once he is hard, lay on your stomach and spread your legs while he smears ample water-based lube on his condomed dick. He should also spit on your asshole before mounting you.
The important part is he enters you slowly, especially when first entering your spincters. Relax your ass ring(spincters) as much as possible. Ideally he will go slowly, likely taking over a minute from entry to hilting himself in you. He should lay on your back while you get used to his dick buried in your ass, then he should start slowly fucking you, speeding up over a period of several minutes until he can fuck you fast enough to get his rocks off.
After he cums you may be anxious for him to withdraw but you may be able to rest while he rests on your back with his dick hilted in you for a minute or two.
You will feel the pain of getting your cherry broken but it wont be anything like the horrible pain from an ass-shredding pounding a new punk gets from a team of horny jockers when they turn him out in prison.
You will feel like you need to take a shit after the Top withdraws from your ass the first few times you get fucked.
Most guys I fucked said they began getting used to it after about a dozen fucks and began enjoying getting fucked after about a couple of dozen fucks. After about forty or fifty fucks you should be able to take a good pounding without getting ripped-up inside.
As for being the Top, find a seasoned hole so you can enter and fuck him without any need to worry about how he feels when you fuck him. Your purpose of fucking him is the same as using any other hole, to enjoy getting your rocks off.

 

[redbomb]

good luck cptfitdude, keep us posted

and thanks for the info Henry

 

[conrad]

Let me say that if your openness to sex on the other side of your sexuality is not evidence to you that you really are not as Str8 as you have been thinking you arem do think again!

But that is of no matter really. You are young and are discovering that males can be good friends. I think I even have a hint in what you say that you do in some ways find certain males sexually attractive.

And, that persistent desire to feel your ass penetrated by a guy's cock may not fade from your thinking. And, don't believe what you hear about the pain. IMHO some men have not learned to distiguish pain from discomfort. Yes, even with my patient and caring partner there was discomfort (think of the time you were constipated and the bm you needed was dammed uncomfortable to get out) and remember that even a rock-hard cock can be lubricated to go in easier. You need time and a zone of absolute privacy and lots of lubrication. For me anal sex was highly enjoyable because my partner (had only three all in long term relationships) was always a guy I had come to love before we had sex.

I'm not really into giving advice, but since you asked I will venture a thought on what works. Forget the labels. Stick to one partner at a time. On your journey into the fullness of your unique sexuality I hope you will not forget the beauty and the wonder of it all. Where love is present there is no need for seduction. Both partners come to the point where sexual expression is wanted and indeed needed. That kind of sex has a way of confirming the friendship/love that has already come to exist between you. Such sex stengthens the bond. And such sex is fantastic.

Keep your serendipity level high. By that I simply mean be ready to recognize the boons that come into life unexpectedly. Be prepared to grasp them and profit from them. Sometime that boon is a new person, a potential friend and...

And, remember: You don't need a coach in any of this. Our ancestors have been coming together in sex for thousands of years. The Creator provided you with those persistent animal urges to make you part of the survival of the species. But, you were also provided with a brain (the most potent and underrated organ of sex) to direct your urges and keep you out of trouble.

We learn by doing. May your journey be a happy one in every respect.

 

[jhwalker]

Just another note: some of us experience no "pain" at all in anal sex, even the first time! It all depends on your degree of arousal, the size / shape / firmness of your partner's penis, etc. So while you should probably expect a bit of discomfort the first time or two (though it didn't happen that way with me), don't assume it will be like giving birth to a baby or anything like that

 

[twtrob]

It took me a while to have success with bottoming I tried about 3 times before I was able to get it in. The first three times i tried, it hurt like hell and I couldn't walk without feeling this burning sensation. Then surprisingly about the fourth time, when I was completely discouraged and not thinking about the situation it just slipped in. Its a weird feeling. Its hard for me to explain. I remember when I was a virgin and I asked one of my friends what bottoming felt like, he told me it felt something like when you swallow a pill and you haven't drank enough water. Like you feel the pill slowly moving down your throat. I guess it's kinda like that but without the pain. I would recommend not being tense and relaxing, oh yeah and have a a lot of patience, cuz it might not work the first time, especially if the person fucking you has a sizable dick.

 

[EJMichaels]

There is some good info here:
http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=272148
(sort of a FAQ about anal sex)

Plus, fearing pain can make you tense up and guarantee it will hurt. Let it hurt a little and you might find it goes away quickly.

 

[clicker]

If you want your anal cherry broken so you can enjoy getting fucked you need a gentle Top who has a small one. If you can find a patient Top who has 5" or smaller, he is the best man to break your ass cherry. Best way is to first suck on the man's dick to get it hard and feel it in your mouth which will also give you an idea of how it will be up your ass. Once he is hard, lay on your stomach and spread your legs while he smears ample water-based lube on his condomed dick. He should also spit on your asshole before mounting you.
The important part is he enters you slowly, especially when first entering your spincters. Relax your ass ring(spincters) as much as possible. Ideally he will go slowly, likely taking over a minute from entry to hilting himself in you. He should lay on your back while you get used to his dick buried in your ass, then he should start slowly fucking you, speeding up over a period of several minutes until he can fuck you fast enough to get his rocks off.
After he cums you may be anxious for him to withdraw but you may be able to rest while he rests on your back with his dick hilted in you for a minute or two.
You will feel the pain of getting your cherry broken but it wont be anything like the horrible pain from an ass-shredding pounding a new punk gets from a team of horny jockers when they turn him out in prison.
You will feel like you need to take a shit after the Top withdraws from your ass the first few times you get fucked.
Most guys I fucked said they began getting used to it after about a dozen fucks and began enjoying getting fucked after about a couple of dozen fucks. After about forty or fifty fucks you should be able to take a good pounding without getting ripped-up inside.
As for being the Top, find a seasoned hole so you can enter and fuck him without any need to worry about how he feels when you fuck him. Your purpose of fucking him is the same as using any other hole, to enjoy getting your rocks off.

After a dozen fucks/ holy cow that's along time to finally get to enjoy anal! Are you sure ? And after 40-50 you should be able to enjoy a good pounding? Wow, sounds like anal ain't too natural if it takes so long and is so painful. This has always scared me.

 

[csf915]

Hey man -- first off I want to commend you on your openness to something new.

I think we all get totally wrapped up in labels and orientations, and it just confuses things when basically what we're talking about is simple, healthy and normal sexual curiosity.

It's funny, I know so many women who've had serious lesbian experiences but decided they prefer men, but thought nothing of it -- but for guys it's still a slur on their masculinity or some dumb shit like that.

I agree with a lot of these other posts -- take it one step at a time, and just enjoy yourself -- there's no time limit -- I would just say that whomever you DO decide to let fuck you, you should feel really comfortable with -- maybe someone who you've done other stuff with before.

For me my first experiences were really uncomfortable, so I shy away from getting fucked until I know a guy really well -- though I know a lot of guys who had amazing first experiences -- but it was ALWAYS due to a great teacher, which I didn't have.

Have you ever been rimmed? Every straight guy that I've ever fooled around with, NO exception, goes INSANE when I start licking his ass -- it's one of those areas that straight women rarely go, and it's a totally new paradise for them -- I'd start with that, and when the time feels right, take it from there...

Hope this helps you out -- good luck man -- I'm really impressed by you...

 

[Flexuality]

I'm a psychiatrist and have been studying bisexuality for a long time, and it sounds to me like you fit the "supersexual" type. In other words, you are mostly interested in women but too interested in sex to pass up on trying other flavors. Don't get hung up on labels. (It sounds like you and your friends aren't.)

About anal sex, you've gotten a lot of good advice, but let me add a few suggestions. There is no "anal cherry" to "burst." It can feel great every time, if you're relaxed enough, or it can hurt every time, if you're too tense. This may sound counter-intuitive, but it's a lot easier if your partner is really hard. If he's a bit flaccid, then it's a lot more difficult to slide in. Also counterintuitively, you might find it helps to "push out" with your ass hole, against the head of the cock, rather than squeezing shut, which is the instinctive reaction. The asshole is a bit wider from top to bottom than from side to side, and dicks are wider side to side, so it might help for your partner to straddle you sideways the first time, and you can lie a bit on one side with your top leg bent up at the knee to expose your ass. But don't let the gymnastics distract from what needs to feel comfortable. You can also prepare yourself with vaseline and a dildo or your own fingers. The point isn't so much to stretch it out ahead of time but to make you feel comfortable with the feeling and confident in your ability to accomodate.

 

[cptfitdude]

Hey Everyone !!

Just gotta thank you all very much, you all been very helpful and understanding from my aspect... u dudes are legend...

Me and this guy have been fooling around on weeekends
now and then wen we away from friends, sucking, jacking
etc... and both now decided im gonna get fucked, which im
very excited about. Seen alot of advice for the first guy
should be not so big and small but decent, but my problem
is my friend is fukn big, like these porn vids with big dick
guys, im talking bout 22cm and thick.... which is hot and a
turn on wen suckin, but is this still cool for fucking?
not gonna hurt my ass or damage anything? lol, dunno how
much or how far a ass can take a dick....

But otherwise i would also like to know if its appropriate
to post pics or vids of this either on here or xtube?

Thanks everyone !!

 

[redbomb]

i second that!
please, i encourage you to post a video lol

good luck and have fun!

 

[interpolic13]

go for it dude

 

[palemale]

Hey Everyone !!

Just gotta thank you all very much, you all been very helpful and understanding from my aspect... u dudes are legend...

Me and this guy have been fooling around on weeekends
now and then wen we away from friends, sucking, jacking
etc... and both now decided im gonna get fucked, which im
very excited about. Seen alot of advice for the first guy
should be not so big and small but decent, but my problem
is my friend is fukn big, like these porn vids with big dick
guys, im talking bout 22cm and thick.... which is hot and a
turn on wen suckin, but is this still cool for fucking?
not gonna hurt my ass or damage anything? lol, dunno how
much or how far a ass can take a dick....

But otherwise i would also like to know if its appropriate
to post pics or vids of this either on here or xtube?

Thanks everyone !!

My first time was with a guy who was 9". He was patient and knew what he was doing and it was great. Didn't even hurt the next morning. Just breath, relax, have him rim the hell out of you and use a lot of lube.

 

[alli-berri]

Videovideovideovideovideo

 

[hanzosword]

Yes please cptfitdude post the video on xtube and give us the link. This all sounds very hot and I'm wanting to have my first time getting fucked soon too, but I don't have a close buddy to handle that for me right now lol. I hope you enjoy it when it happens! Keep us posted...