The Original Gay Porn Community - Free Gay Movies and Photos, Gay Porn Site Reviews and Adult Gay Forums

  • Welcome To Just Us Boys - The World's Largest Gay Message Board Community

    In order to comply with recent US Supreme Court rulings regarding adult content, we will be making changes in the future to require that you log into your account to view adult content on the site.
    If you do not have an account, please register.
    REGISTER HERE - 100% FREE / We Will Never Sell Your Info

    PLEASE READ: To register, turn off your VPN (iPhone users- disable iCloud); you can re-enable the VPN after registration. You must maintain an active email address on your account: disposable email addresses cannot be used to register.

First time anal?

Joined
Jul 3, 2011
Posts
15
Reaction score
1
Points
0
I just had my first experience of anal over the weekend. I have to admit I probably wasn't ready and it hurt. The only thing I could think of was the tip of his dick going in and pain, pain and pain. It did ease up after a little while.

So, I'm curious to know how was your first ever experience with anal and how could I be better prepared next time? :badgrin:
 
my first time hurt like h^ll. The guy was about 8" to 8.5" . We didn't have enough lube. So if you try it again make sure you have enough lube on hand and go slow.Until you become use to him being in you.
 
Same here, the first and only time I tried bottoming was as part of a flip-fuck, and we didn't have access to lube, aside from what was on our lubricated condoms. That was fine for my buddy because he was an experienced bottom, but I had to make him stop right away because even his tip hurt too much to go in. Also, back then I'd never even put my finger up my hole, so in retrospect I realize it was doomed from the start.

Use a ton of lube, and relax your ass beforehand with a hot shower or bath if you can. If you've never put anything else up your asshole, practice with your lubed-up finger (which is pretty fun for its own sake).
 
- There is an entire thread and discussion about "First Time Anal" as "heir-to-the-wind" has mentioned.

- My first time bottoming was an extremely painful ordeal too. My top was older than I was and he had a large cock. I was whimpering, moaning and squealing when I was naked and ass up. My top's cock head was relentless pushing forward and I was shocked in how hard cocks get. Even though we were well lubed up, I remember graphically the painful moments my virgin anal ring was being stretched and the incredible sharp pinching that came with it. I cried out loud in surprise when my top finally penetrated me and wailed and moaned loudly when his steel hard cock was going in and out until he finally bred me a cream pie.... I remember the cum, blood and lube when my top tenderly was dabbing my raw butthole after... take your time, lube up well!
 
My first time hurt, and I had been toying with my tailpipe long before that so I had plenty of practice. Getting past the sphincter is always a bit painful, but once the pleasure kicks in it's paradise. Make sure if a guy is going to fuck you that your hole is clean: learn about enemas, get a soapy finger up there while showering rinse well. If you have the type of shower head that's attached to the wall, get a hand held shower, that makes it very easy to keep a clean ass. Don't eat a large meal hours before getting rammed.
The best way to make bottoming easy is to use dildos or butt plugs often, whenever you jerk off is best. It can get tiring for your arm to be shoving a Dildo in and out, especially while jerking. Get a Dildo with a suction cup base, it's a life changer. You can stick it to most any surface (the shower wall is great, getting fucked in the shower is heaven) and then ride it hands free. Start off with a normal penis sized Dildo (6 or 7 inches), starting off with a big Dildo will hurt until you gain some experience. Think of getting fucked like driving a motorcycle: you don't just hop on and go without knowing what to do. Use LOTS of lube (if the Dildo requires water-based, don't use oil based) and insert a little, pull almost all of it out, then insert further than last time. Keep repeating until it's buried to the balls and your eyes roll back in your head. If you have to grit your teeth so the entire house doesn't hear you cry out in joy, you're doing it right! Just don't quit, the pain of insertion is temporary and you will learn to endure it. Over time even the pain of getting split open by a big shaft feels amazing. All of us have the same internal organs, it's painful for everyone to learn to take it. But think about how many people love getting fucked in the ass: they all were virgins at one time. Sometimes I want my boyfriend to ease into my hole gently, other times he lubes me up and shoves it all in with one thrust and I LOVE it! So don't be surprised if you go from "take it out, it hurts!" to "FUCK ME HARDER! FASTER! OH GOD YES!". You be on your back with your legs behind your head in no time. And don't forget the joy of fucking a guy, try topping too!
One reason you might have had too much pain was the position you were in. Were you laying on your stomach and he was on top pumping away? You want to be in a position where he can't just slam it in all the way, you want control. Try riding him: sit down on it and you can take as much as you want. Make sure you jerk off when you get fucked, not only does it feel good, it takes your mind off any pain. The main reason getting fucked is so awesome is the orgasm. When you cum while getting shafted, it's the most intense orgasm ever. Some guys (myself included) can sometimes get rock hard and shoot an insane load hands free.
 
Back
Top