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First time and I took nine inches in

DJ1990

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Okay first of all...I feel really proud of myself and don't try to ruin this accomplishment for me. Yes...it was my first anal and I took it like a soilder....the whole nine inches. I also gave my first real blowjob. It was super fun sucking it and licking it and he didn't expect me to deepthroat so yay.

It really hurt but the worst part was that I felt like I was about to poop..I kept asking the guy to take his dick out and he wasn't even following my orders that much. I wanted him to take it out too that way I know it's not my poop coming out...k? He just kept telling me to relax. How the hell am I supposed to relax when I feel like I'm about to poop...there were tears when he first started...anyhoo...at the end it became really enjoyable but still painful because my butthole wasn't used to this. Then I took the subway home and I kept farting. I couldn't control it....literally...but it wasn't gross farts just little ones that had no smell to them.

Also he really loved cuddling and kissing after so that was a plus.
 
Oh one more thang... I got tired of the bottom position so once in a while my legs just started shaking like crazy.....it was akward but I interrupted it with laughter.
 
cool ,good on you , i hope the next ones even better :D
 
The feeling like you are going to poop is from not relaxing, that's why he was telling you to relax.

As long as you had a bowel movement relatively recently before sex it shouldn't be an issue if you are relaxed.

The key is to relax and it will not feel like that. When you are new to bottoming it feels like that because the only other time you are used to something in your anus is when you are pooping lol.

Although it could be the size of his dick too. Sometimes I still get that feeling if the guy is that huge.
 
What a difference with my first receiving anal, I hardly felt anything and the guy with one of the smaller dicks I have even seen congratulated me on how relaxed I had been... ah, nineteen years old, such fine willing bowels I had back then.
For me the key to relax is to really like the topping guy andd feel abandoned and eager to be penetrated by him, which means I am not actually a real versatile, but we all knew that already lol
 
SoundWave said:
That's awesome!! Congrats!

You'd never practiced with a dildo before? That way I knew what to expect the first time. lol. Glad you had a good time tho!
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Lol. Yea I never wanted to get a Dildo..I was fine just masturbating.
 
hotatlboi said:
The feeling like you are going to poop is from not relaxing, that's why he was telling you to relax.

As long as you had a bowel movement relatively recently before sex it shouldn't be an issue if you are relaxed.

The key is to relax and it will not feel like that. When you are new to bottoming it feels like that because the only other time you are used to something in your anus is when you are pooping lol.

Although it could be the size of his dick too. Sometimes I still get that feeling if the guy is that huge.
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Hehee I know that's why I kept telling him to take his dick out and then put it back in because it reassured me that I'm not pooping.
 
belamo said:
What a difference with my first receiving anal, I hardly felt anything and the guy with one of the smaller dicks I have even seen congratulated me on how relaxed I had been... ah, nineteen years old, such fine willing bowels I had back then.
For me the key to relax is to really like the topping guy andd feel abandoned and eager to be penetrated by him, which means I am not actually a real versatile, but we all knew that already lol
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:D I am nineteen too.
The guy wasn't really my type honestly...but what can I do I like really masculine guys that are like 6'5 but not a lot of them out there.
But his dick was really good though.
 
thatgirl said:
Was he the black guy who's dating your friend?

Sorry I just remember you constantly going on about wanting big black peen. Or was it latino peen? I don't remember.

Congrats on the buttsecks tho. :gaysex:
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No it wasn't him lol....he's straight that friend is a girl.
Yeah I like the blacks and the latins.
This guy was italian and puerto rican.....i thought he was more on the white or italian side.
 
Wow good for you. Hopefully your experiences will only get better as you learn to cope with anal - happy practicing :)
 
DJ1990 said:
The guy wasn't really my type honestly...but what can I do I like really masculine guys that are like 6'5 but not a lot of them out there.
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Yeah, I've felt more pain on so much of that than on a couple of really big dicks. But with time and money you may eventually come to satisfy all your craves and needs.
 
Ha ha, yeah the farting thing was probably the most surprising thing about anal sex!

And your virgin hole took nine inches the first time? Holy smokes.
 
I'm glad you had a good time. That's the most important thing, although starting with a monster wiener is pretty amazing.
 
I had the same experience.lol I was constantly tense unable to relax because I kept feeling like I was gonna make a mess. The first time was the worst while the second time was much better. He even fked the cum outta me so I guess I did enjoy it after all. But the pain is a btch and the penetration still made me shiver. =/ But anyway congratulate for having recruiting a 9 inch cock. Ive never seen one and very determined to empirically encounter that. :D
 
CONGRATULATIONS on getting your cherry popped! Nine inches is very impressive! The real measure is the girth of the cock! Thicker cocks will stretch your hole more and give you more sensations.

The reason you feel like you need to poop is because your ass is not trained to take something into it. Your whole life, until recently, you have been pushing stuff out of it.

To train my ass, I bought a butt plug and wore it a little each day until I could wear it for about two hours without discomfort. This will train the ass to take in a cock, remove the need to poop feeling , and help you to relax the next time you get fucked. I also play with my ass using dildos, but you have already stated that does not interest you.

Also, I douche before I hook up too. This way I know there is no shit up there to come out.

I hope this information helps! Again, Congratulations!
 
i'm totally jealous. i've been a top my entire life and have been thinking about what it would be like to bottom for a guy like the one you describe. you're lucky to have had that experience..
 
Practice makes perfect.

Next time, try sitting on it first until your sphincter is fully relaxed. It'll be easier of you to control the amount you take in and your partner won't be able to thrust as deep. Sitting on a dick also helps stimulate your prostate gland, where the real sensations come from. A few guys I've fucked that way have had hands free orgasms wile sitting on my dick because I was rubbing against their prostate. As you get into it more, then try a different position. As others have said, you need to relax.

As you become more experienced, it won't feel like you need to poop. You'll recognize the difference between the two sensations. The farts were because of your stretched sphincter muscle. It's not used to being open so wide for so long.

Trying different positions will help with the leg cramps.

Remember to always play safe.
 
Lube said:
Ha ha, yeah the farting thing was probably the most surprising thing about anal sex!
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Mr-Pickles said:
Congratulations and all, but there was TMI for my prudish ears :P
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Then it might be a bad idea for me to mention the time the excess lube acted like an enema. !oops! :badgrin:

Hard-up1 said:
I'm glad you are able to share transparently: a lot of guys who are new to sex are thanking you for it, even if they may be lurkers here.
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^ that
 
FPNY said:
i'm totally jealous. i've been a top my entire life and have been thinking about what it would be like to bottom for a guy like the one you describe. you're lucky to have had that experience..
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Take a weekend trip to Atlanta....it shall be easy I imagine as long as you like it black.
 
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