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First time around the block..

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Hello everyone, im 19 and recently moved to chicago...I have never been with a man but i have decided to go for it. I really dont know what to expect.. anyone have any advice for a virgin or stories of your first? Recomend older guy or young? I'll try to throw up pics later to properly introduce myself....
 
I would recommend Steamworks bathhouse. You can look around at other guys wrapped in towels and decide just how much or little you want to do. Some guys want to touch only, some oral, whatever. Instead of a locker you can get a room with video. You can get worked up with videos and then venture out into the open areas. If you don't want much contact there are glory holes. Also a hot tub, steam room, sauna, sling room, and on and on.
 
trobert said:
I would recommend Steamworks bathhouse. You can look around at other guys wrapped in towels and decide just how much or little you want to do. Some guys want to touch only, some oral, whatever. Instead of a locker you can get a room with video. You can get worked up with videos and then venture out into the open areas. If you don't want much contact there are glory holes. Also a hot tub, steam room, sauna, sling room, and on and on.
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a young 19 year old guy is new to a city and wants to meet people and you send him to a bathhouse?

dude. do yourself a favor. avoid the public disgusting sex houses, and go to the local college/university and make some friends there. hang out with dudes your own age, go to some parties, expand your social circle - and date and experiment with guys who are in the same boat you are.

don't go to a bathhouse where a bunch of old dudes want to put your ass in a sling. that's disgusting.
 
Not all bars are alike, nor are all bathhouses. I would not patronize a place that did not have gym bodies, young, etc.

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Sweetie, stay out of steamworks. I find it to be a rather creepy place. But for some, it works.

Things happen when they happen. Something like this can wait - no need to rush things. Whatever you choose, be safe and have fun.

Oh, welcome to JUB and welcome to Chicago.
 
Don't go out to public places to find sex, especially on your first time.

No judgments from me, BUT ... It definitely isn't a good choice for a FIRST experience!

The best idea was mentioned before, make some friends take it from there. Don't be to anxious to get it over with because you'll regret it in the long term.

Good luck, be safe!
 
u know what u do, meet up with me..lol. we could just hangout..im in chicago..18m.

message me..
 
try to find someone your own age dude. Maybe hang out first, see if you're into each other. If you are, it'll be a much better experience, and not so mechanical. And remember to be safe.
 
I don't recommend bathhouse either on your first time! you might practically be raped. your best bet is to find guys at university - just get involved in stuff and youre bound to meet gay guys. if you're completely closeted, you can try craigslist, though not the best option. unless you're legitmately attracted to older men your first time is best with a guy your own age. less weirdness and power plays involved.
 
I'm basically in the same situation, even the same age. I just have no clue where to find guys my age while I'm in the closet.
 
trobert said:
I would recommend Steamworks bathhouse. You can look around at other guys wrapped in towels and decide just how much or little you want to do. Some guys want to touch only, some oral, whatever. Instead of a locker you can get a room with video. You can get worked up with videos and then venture out into the open areas. If you don't want much contact there are glory holes. Also a hot tub, steam room, sauna, sling room, and on and on.
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Wow, lol seems really interesting, dont think i would go there and go all out, but i wouldnt mind checkin a bathhouse out, too bad NONE near, or remotely close to me.
 
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