First time as a top...tips?

[secondmonkey]

I've always kind of been against anything anal, but, as a horny 23 year old I really have an urge to fuck something! So, a guy who's been a "blow buddy" for me for a while has talked me into being a "fuck buddy". He's a really nice guy and he knows it will be my first time. I have mixed feelings about it, but hell, I gotta try it sometime.

With that in mind does anybody have any tips for me to help this go as well as it can? (besides lube and condoms) I admit I'm scared as hell but I think my horny is starting to outweigh that...

I'm not in a relationship with this guy, but he's hot for me and I'm hot for him...we would just never get along as boyfriends. I think he's a good start...

 

[wastingmymind]

Tongue then lube then finger then dick. You can skip the tongue if you like. Enter slowly but be more gradually aggressive afterwards. Listen to him. Use one hand for leverage and the other to touch him wherever you think is fit.

 

[gotdimples77]

lube his ass as well as your cock...it works better than lubing one or the other only...

 

[PabloZed]

LOL.

If I were to give one bit of advice it would be to go slow. One of the things horny young guys do is hump like they are jacking off in an effort to cum. That is not how to derive maximum pleasure. I also think its good to try different positions to determine what feels best.

 

[biguy732]

Lube - lots of lube - and condoms. And it is not a race - take your time - don't just slam it in there and fuck like someone in need of Ritalin. Take your time and enjoy it.

 

[Brandus]

think twice about using fingers. dont let him feel a fingernail. put lots of lube on your dick but dont forget to put some on him. gently push in. but dont go all the way in. once the tip is in rest and make sure you're both good. gently work up to fucking.

 

[BowtieGuy]

I have only topped a guy once. The lesson I learned was to go slow. You have you to massage your way in there.

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[jason1977]

1. Be sure to get the hepatitis A/B vaccine.
2. Use a finger as foreplay and to help prepare him. 1 finger, then 2, then 3 if needed.
3. Choose a position that is comfortable for both of you. Maybe try a couple of positions the first time. It depends on what you both want, what you prefer and what you want to try.
4. Don't think that going fast and crazy equates to being the best. You also don't have to pretend to know everything or experience every position. Take your time to enjoy.
5. Realize that as the top you tend to have more control over the situation. So, try to ensure the bottom is getting what he wants and needs too. Tops that just take full control and look out for themselves are pretty selfish in my opinion. You should either be versatile (share) - or find out how the bottom is going to feel equally satisfied by the experience. This should be easy enough to discuss beforehand - even days beforehand.

 

[eupraxia]

1. Be sure to get the hepatitis A/B vaccine.
2. Use a finger as foreplay and to help prepare him. 1 finger, then 2, then 3 if needed.
3. Choose a position that is comfortable for both of you. Maybe try a couple of positions the first time. It depends on what you both want, what you prefer and what you want to try.
4. Don't think that going fast and crazy equates to being the best. You also don't have to pretend to know everything or experience every position. Take your time to enjoy.
5. Realize that as the top you tend to have more control over the situation. So, try to ensure the bottom is getting what he wants and needs too. Tops that just take full control and look out for themselves are pretty selfish in my opinion. You should either be versatile (share) - or find out how the bottom is going to feel equally satisfied by the experience. This should be easy enough to discuss beforehand - even days beforehand.

This is just an excellent post.