Something Else
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definitely can relate to the not cumming thing
I've realized as, pisce69, had eluded to. And that is: that when there is a stronger emotional connection, then it's easier to cum.
With guys, I've had this problem a whole lot more than with women. In fact, I've never even had any problems of cumming with a woman before; so I never thought it would be an issue with guys until I had the experiences I've had. I will say that I would take longer to cum (longest 4 hours) with women that I wasn't really into--though I still orgasmed; but for the ones that I cared deeply for it was never a problem (shortest 20min).
With guys, it seems the same except that guys don't engage in the foreplay that i've grown accustomed to (2-3hour foreplay before sex). So jumping right into "the act" probably doesn't help that either. Case in point, overtime when I had developed an emotional connection with the first man I did love...I was so close in cumming inside of him. Keep in mind that this same man was the guy that I could NOT cum at all with, when I first had sex with him!
That's when I knew everything had to be in alignment (mental, physical, emotional) for me to truly have "great" sex. It's not just physical with me guy or girl. Emotional connections are very VERY important for me, regarding sex.
I've realized as, pisce69, had eluded to. And that is: that when there is a stronger emotional connection, then it's easier to cum.
With guys, I've had this problem a whole lot more than with women. In fact, I've never even had any problems of cumming with a woman before; so I never thought it would be an issue with guys until I had the experiences I've had. I will say that I would take longer to cum (longest 4 hours) with women that I wasn't really into--though I still orgasmed; but for the ones that I cared deeply for it was never a problem (shortest 20min).
With guys, it seems the same except that guys don't engage in the foreplay that i've grown accustomed to (2-3hour foreplay before sex). So jumping right into "the act" probably doesn't help that either. Case in point, overtime when I had developed an emotional connection with the first man I did love...I was so close in cumming inside of him. Keep in mind that this same man was the guy that I could NOT cum at all with, when I first had sex with him!
That's when I knew everything had to be in alignment (mental, physical, emotional) for me to truly have "great" sex. It's not just physical with me guy or girl. Emotional connections are very VERY important for me, regarding sex.