first time, guy or girl?

[bibriefsdude]

hey
so i want to get married to a woman and have kids but i have not slept with a woman yet
i have been seeing this dude, a former coworker (im bi btw) so my opportunity to sleep with someone would be with a guy first
have any bi dudes lost their virginity to guys instead of girls? will this affect me differntly than if i have sex with a girl the first time? they say if you suck dick and have anal that makes you gay, but that wont change my feelings for women will it?

 

[crzyrazn]

No, it will not change your feelings for women if you sleep with a guy first if you are truly bisexual, it shouldn't even be an issue if you know you are bisexual, and since you stated in the affirmative you should know (?). And "sucking dick and having anal" alone doesn't make you gay. That is ignorant. Being gay is having sexual and romantic attraction primarily or exclusively to members of one’s own sex.

 

[alley]

My first time was with a woman and she was the only one I had been with for 17 years--it can work...we would still be together if she had not decided that sex was no longer needed. But now that I have been with men--I don't think I could ever be with a woman again.

 

[Jory]

I am totally gay so female have never interest me in that way.....um to the female jubber nothing personal

 

[Horschallen]

I am totally gay so female have never interest me in that way.....um to the female jubber nothing personal

Me, too.

 

[sanosuke1712]

i lost it to a guy in my middle school bathroom

 

[Ninjitsu]

I had lost my virginity multiple times . . . .

I though we only had one of those...

As for the question, I wouldn't get all bent out of shape as far as labels are concerned. If you are bi, and aren't sure either way, it actually might do you some good to sleep with your guy friend and find out yourself before you make any commitments.

Because once you're married, that's it. You need to remain faithful to your wife and forget about playing around with anyone else -- be it man or woman. If that doesn't sound appealing to you, you might want to reconsider marriage in the first place.

 

[mj2006a]

Man.... if you want to get married and have kids...decide NOW...do not go playing with guys and then think you have the strength to just cut it cold turkey. Who are you kidding? Wake up. Start working on it NOW...and trust me by mid life, during marriage crisis..you will always think of going back to men and that you are gay... This will be just mid life crisis. By the you will have family, she will have invested in a life with you so much...be sincere now...work your sexuality and do not get married if you cannot stop having sex with a guy. Do not fuck other's life.

 

[mnpervert]

My first was a girl then not too long after an older gent

 

[snakeeater1]

First time was with a boy (gettin fucked in the ass) tried sex with a girl the same year! Found out I liked the ass fuckin better! BUT once I sucked my first cock, that became my number one!….