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chuckbiguy

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Hey everyone. So lately I’ve really been wanting to have sex with a man. I finally have the opportunity now that I get the house to myself every morning. Does anyone have any advice on how to prepare for hosting for the first time? Total bottom here and my preference is mostly older tops if that helps
 
Sorry for all of the questions.

Are you looking for just NSA one and done? Or are you looking for a regular FWB type thing?
 
Who are you living with?

This all matters. Are you out?
 
Just a few questions in your post you said your home alone now do you love with anyone? Have you been with any guys?
 
MusicMan321 said:
Just a few questions in your post you said your home alone now do you love with anyone? Have you been with any guys?
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I live with my parents and sibling currently. sibling gets home first and none of them know I'm bi. I've only been with one guy before.
 
Based upon your answers, if you're doing casual hookups, if might be better for you not to host.

If you are looking for a regular FWB or someone to date, then it would be better to meet that person somewhere in public, get to know them and then make a decision whether you want to do a quick hookup at your family home when everyone is away or whether you want to go on a proper date to see where things go.

It's always a bit risky to bring strangers to your family's home because you can never know whether a stranger is trustworthy and there's always the risk of being caught.

Something to think about: there's nothing stopping you from putting yourself out there and getting a little experience. That should not depend on whether you have an empty house when your family is away.

If you are going to try NSA sex, make sure you've taken the necessary precautions - getting vaccinated for hepatits, HPV, monkeypox and meningitis. You also need to either use condoms or get on PrEP. I know... this sounds heavy but this is the reality of hooking up these days.
 
For your situation, here's what I'd say:

I always recommend being out and upfront, but there's no reason you can't have some pole while you work on that. But take precautions; Manage your expectations and don't encourage any. Make sure you supply your own condoms and lube and whatever else you like to partake in. Other guys aren't reliable for any of that. Don't expect prince charming, he's just there to fuck, not marry, it doesn't matter if he doesn't like your Xbox catalog. Don't trust online profile pics. Be explicit about what you want and what you expect, and I can't stress this enough, don't think that just because they aren't supposed to be home, they won't unsuspectingly come home - no one wants Mom to walk in on a torrid piggy fuck with some random guy on the sofa.

It's just not polite.
 
KaraBulut said:
Based upon your answers, if you're doing casual hookups, if might be better for you not to host.

If you are looking for a regular FWB or someone to date, then it would be better to meet that person somewhere in public, get to know them and then make a decision whether you want to do a quick hookup at your family home when everyone is away or whether you want to go on a proper date to see where things go.

It's always a bit risky to bring strangers to your family's home because you can never know whether a stranger is trustworthy and there's always the risk of being caught.

Something to think about: there's nothing stopping you from putting yourself out there and getting a little experience. That should not depend on whether you have an empty house when your family is away.

If you are going to try NSA sex, make sure you've taken the necessary precautions - getting vaccinated for hepatits, HPV, monkeypox and meningitis. You also need to either use condoms or get on PrEP. I know... this sounds heavy but this is the reality of hooking up these days.
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wow, thank you so much for all this info. i honestly hadn't considered much of it so i really appreciate it!
 
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