fisting and preparation

[highwindcaleb]

ok. hi everyone!

I have a few quesitons about the realities and health consequences of fisting. i can take any cock i want without too much pain (not talking about super hung, just the normal to above average). I also have two butt plugs, a medium and a large.
Medium: 5.25 inches tall and 1.5 inch diameter.
Large: 5.5 inches tall and 2.25 inch diameter.

i can ttake the medium one inside me easily but always need prep for the large and pulling it out sucks after ive cum.

Im chatting with a guy who wants to fist me and wants to train me to be fisted by his friends. I am totally ok with that but im wondering what should i be doing to prepare myself for this. special diet? start taking the large BP more often?

Also, what are the potential health consequences? i know i can google and i have. but i figure that this community has some practical knowledge as well that can be of assistance.

PLEASE AND THANKS

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

I have some experience as a fisting top.

I found one of the guys I've fisted a few times had developed a 'blink' in one of his two sphincters that hasn't healed. He now relies on only one sphincter to prevent him from incontinence. Other than this and a friend's rectum temporarily tearing, I haven't heard about any adverse health effects for the bottom.

 

[Telstra]

Please don't fist.
Find other hobbies. I think fisting is not a healthy hobby.

 

[KaraBulut]

The anus and rectum are made to take stress for short periods of time, although even with normal bowel function that stress can result in hemorrhoids, anal tears, anal fissures and other damage to the soft tissue in the area.

The general guideline is that you want to keep toys and another activities within the normal size of stool and the typical penis. This will reduce your chances of injury but also it helps you enjoy bottoming. When you start getting into the extremes of toys and things like fisting, you're extending beyond what a typical top can offer.

If you're having trouble accommodating a toy in the range of 2 inches, then taking on an adult man's fist is beyond what you're ready for. The circumference of a fist and wrist are around 7 to 9 inches. That's a lot bigger than what you're used to. Going there would probably result in injury and it's not something that we could recommend because of that risk.

 

[highwindcaleb]

ok. the guy is talking about poppers, G, and K. would that result in some of those bad effects not happening?

 

[racer2438]

never use poppers...they are so bad for you....just be prepared for using men's diapers if you fist long term...

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

just be prepared for using men's diapers if you fist long term...

Do you actually have any real evidence for this?

 

[KaraBulut]

ok. the guy is talking about poppers, G, and K. would that result in some of those bad effects not happening?

He's planning to give you an animal tranquilizer (ketamine) so that if it does injure you, you won't feel it? And you won't be aware enough to get out of the situation? This is beginning to sound like an episode of Law & Order: Special Victims Unit.

Here's a general rule: if you're going to participate in BDSM play, you should never do it under the influence of mind-impairing substances. And you should definitely never do them with someone who is planning on drugging you.

Enjoy the fantasy but keep away from this guy.

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

The anus and rectum are made to take stress for short periods of time, although even with normal bowel function that stress can result in hemorrhoids, anal tears, anal fissures and other damage to the soft tissue in the area.

The general guideline is that you want to keep toys and another activities within the normal size of stool and the typical penis. This will reduce your chances of injury but also it helps you enjoy bottoming. When you start getting into the extremes of toys and things like fisting, you're extending beyond what a typical top can offer.

If you're having trouble accommodating a toy in the range of 2 inches, then taking on an adult man's fist is beyond what you're ready for. The circumference of a fist and wrist are around 7 to 9 inches. That's a lot bigger than what you're used to. Going there would probably result in injury and it's not something that we could recommend because of that risk.

Good point. If you plan to get fisted, build up to it beforehand.

ok. the guy is talking about poppers, G, and K. would that result in some of those bad effects not happening?

Poppers relax your sphincters making it easier for the hand to go in. I've seen K used anally to take the edge off the pain. G I have no experience with.

never use poppers...they are so bad for you....just be prepared for using men's diapers if you fist long term...

He's planning to give you an animal tranquilizer (ketamine) so that if it does injure you, you won't feel it? And you won't be aware enough to get out of the situation? This is beginning to sound like an episode of Law & Order: Special Victims Unit.

No, it's just meant to make the sex easier. IMHO watching that television show will rot your brain faster than a steady intake of G, K and poppers.

Here's a general rule: if you're going to participate in BDSM play, you should never do it under the influence of mind-impairing substances. And you should definitely never do them with someone who is planning on drugging you.

Do you do BDSM? I don't think fisting is always BDSM, but at least one guy with whom I participated in it calls me "Master".

Enjoy the fantasy but keep away from this guy.

IMPORTANT POINT: you, the bottom, are ALWAYS in charge. It's your bowels and the top has to respect this. You decide what goes in, how deep and for how long. Mostly this is not a problem with an experienced top, but there are some guys out there who don't respect this, and it can be very dangerous. E.g. there was a guy who said they could massage natural lube out of a man's rectum and therefore needed no Crisco. The bottom ended up being hurt (but got better).

This is why some guys only let guys top who have experience being a bottom.

Fisting goes beyond fantasy and if you're going to do it, do it with guys who respect you, know what they're doing and aren't over-confident total top idiots.

 

[KaraBulut]

I don't think fisting is always BDSM, but at least one guy with whom I participated in it calls me "Master".

If someone is trying to talk someone they've never met into fisting, it sounds like someone who is on the fringe of the BDSM community. It sets all sorts of red alerts off.

IMPORTANT POINT: you, the bottom, are ALWAYS in charge....Fisting goes beyond fantasy and if you're going to do it, do it with guys who respect you, know what they're doing and aren't over-confident total top idiots.

And for a lot of people who aren't familiar with the BDSM community, they're very surprised about the formality of it- with safe words, safe play rules and peer training that goes on to ensure that people aren't injured.

If someone is restraining you- whether with a physical restraint or a chemical restraint (which includes alcohol, ketamin and GHB)- there has to be an existing trust relationship and preset rules/agreements. To expand upon what Harke is saying: you should never be in a sexual situation with a stranger where you are impaired to the point that you are not in control.

 

[highwindcaleb]

thanks for all the input guys